Kune nzira dzakawanda dzekuzadzisa chinangwa chako: unogona kunyengetedza, kunyengetedza, iwe unogona kuenda mberi, uye iwe unogona kudzidza nzira yekubata nayo vanhu , uye ipapo vachapa zvose zvavanokumbira pane imwe sendivha, uye ivo vanovimba nomwoyo wose kuti ichi ndicho chisarudzo chavo. Uye izvi hazvisi nyaya dzinonakidza, inyanzvi yepfungwa yekubata vanhu inozarura tarisiro yakanaka chaizvo. Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti havasi vose vanomirira munda wekushandiswa kwezivo iyi muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, uye asi mhinduro yacho iri pamusoro pehukama - hukama nevarume.
Psychology yekubata munhu
Kazhinji, mukadzi wese ane ruzivo rwepfungwa yekushungurudza murume , vamwe chete vanhu vanoshandisa nzira iyi pane kugadzikana, somuenzaniso, vanoramba "kusvika kumutumbi", vachiedza kukurukura chimwe chinhu ivo pachavo. Iyo nzira haisi iyo yakanakisisa, inoshanda chete kwenguva iyo iri nehukama hurefu. Ichokwadi, anozviruramisa pachake ne 99% pakutanga kwekuzivana kwake, "kukurumidza kwekugara kweimba," vanhu vashomanana vanofanira kuravira. Asi vanhu huchenjeri pamusoro penzira inoenda pamwoyo wemurume kuburikidza nedumbu ndowakarurama kudarika vamwe, nokuti zvirokwazvo makacherechedza kuti mushure mekudya kwemanheru kunonaka uye munhu anoona zvakasiyana.
Psychology of manipulation man
Iyo nzira yekunyengera inosanganisira kushandisa unyanzvi wemitauro yakafanana iyo inogona kubatsira kuzadzisa chinangwa. Somuenzaniso, kukurudzira munhu kuti aite zvaunoda, zvinogona here kutaura kuti "Ndinoziva izvi nokuda kwangu iwe uchaita chero chinhu," "zvinhu zvose zvichava zvakanaka, usambofunga nezvechinhu chero chipi zvacho," "iwe pachako unoda." Asi mumiriri wega wehafu yakasimba anoda kutarisa nzira yake, mumwe munhu anoda kurumbidzwa, uye mumwe munhu ane shungu kwazvo zvokuti zviri nyore kuwana zvaanoda kubva kwaari, "kumutora asina simba." Murume wako pachako achafara kukubatsira iwe nekushandisa kwako, dzidza kuti manzwiro anoita sei kuti arwise
Kana zvasarudzwa pamusoro apa zvisingakubvumirani iwe, edza imwe nzira yekunyengedza, chivanza chinangwa chako chikuru pasi peketani rediki. Zvakaoma kuti vakawanda vatore basa rose pasi kamwechete, asi zvichava nyore zvikuru kuzviita zvishoma nezvishoma. Ingo iwe usakurumidza kuzarura unyengeri hwako, uye ipapo murume anonzwisisa kuti iwe wakasarudza kumurova, uye kurasikirwa nemumwe wemumiriri wesimba rakasimba haadi. Usakanganwa kuti mumwe wako anogona kukubata iwe, uye musimba rako kuita iyi "chess game" inofadza chaizvo.