Iwe unorota zvekuwana mweya wako here? Wana mhuri uye urarame uchifara nguva dzose mushure mekuda nemurume wako waunoda? Wakamboedza zvose zvaunokwanisa - kubva pane mapofu ekufambidzana kusvika kune mamwe mapfumbamwe, asi uchigere kusangana nemweya wako here? Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe wakasarudza nzira isina kururama. Kusimbiswa kune varume vanokwezva ndizvo izvo zvaunoda.
Kutsigira ndezvirevo zvaunoda kuti utaure kangano zuva nezuva iwe pachako. Kutsigira kunogona kuchinja nzira yako yekufunga uye kuwedzera kuzvikudza kwako . Kudzokorora ichi kana mutsara wezuva nezuva, pfungwa dzako dzisinganzwisisiki dzinozvitora zvishoma nezvishoma kuti zvive chokwadi, uye iwe unotanga kutenda.
Zvinotsigira zvechato
Mukuda kukwezva rudo muhupenyu hwako iwe unoda kushanda, zvakare, basa remhando iyi haritsvaki masimba mashoma. Kutsigirwa kwekuroorana ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa uye yakanakisisa yekugadzirira musangano nemumwe wako mune ramangwana, sezvavanozosimudzira unhu hwako hwakanaka, uye kutora mafungiro asina kunaka nemafungiro akanaka, nokudaro uchikwevera mikana mitsva muupenyu hwako.
Nokuda kwekuda kupinda muupenyu hwako, shandisa zvimbiso zvewanano. Iyo inonyanya kushingaira ndeyezvinyorwa izvo zvakanyatsonaka kwauri, kureva kuti, havafaniri kungoyeuka mitsetse iyo isingabvumiri mauri manzwiro, asi mazwi iwayo anomutsa mupfungwa dzako mufaro uye mufaro we rudo rusingadiwi. Nokudaro, iwe unogona nyore nyore kugadzira zvimbiso iwe pachako. Kana iwe uine chokwadi chokuti haugone kurarama nebasa iri, zvipupuriro zviripo zvichakubatsira iwe, zvaungasarudza kubva pane zvinotevera:
- Ndichasangana nomunhu akanaka;
- Ndinogamuchira nerutendo uye ndinopa rudo;
- Ndinorega muupenyu hwangu rudo rukuru nerudo;
- Ini ndinokwezva rudo nekudzokorora;
- mwoyo wangu wakazaruka kuti ude.
Kuti asarudze kuti angakwezva sei munhu muhupenyu hwake uye kumuroora, zvechokwadi, kuvimbiswa kumurume wake ndoga hakusi kukwana, saka ita. Batsira nyika yose kuzadzise chido chako, shanyira kazhinji nzvimbo dzakanyanyisa, nyora mararamiro ekufambidzana nemumwe wako mune ramangwana uye nguva dzose uende kune dzimwe nzvimbo apo pane mukana wekusangana nemweya wako.
Kusimbiswa kune hukama huchakubatsira kuti uve nemafungiro emanzwiro kune nzira yakarurama, kuti unzwe mufaro uye rudo zvinowedzera mwoyo yerudo, uye mune ramangwana raunofanira kunge uchizadzisa zvaunoda.