Pasina mubvunzo, munhu wese anorota kuti ave wekutanga wepabonde naye wevasanangurwa, asi kwete mukadzi wese achafara kuziva kuti mukomana wake ari mhandara . Nei kusaruramisira kwakadaro? Ichokwadi ndechokuti nokuda kwehafu isina simba yevanhu ruzivo rwomumwe wako rwakakosha, nokuti kana musikana nemukomana vasina ruzivo, zvichava zvakaoma kuti vazive kufadza mumwe nomumwe. Uyu musikana ane mufaro mukuru kuvimba nemurume ane ruzivo uyo asingazomubvumiri mune unyanzvi hwekutamba mitambo.
Saka ungawana sei mhandara mukomana? Kunyatsopindura mubvunzo uyu, zvakakosha kubhadhara pfungwa dzinoverengeka dzinoitika panguva yekukurukurirana kwevanoda uye, zvechokwadi, pakarepo vasati vaita zvepabonde.
Nzira yekuziva sei kuti mukomana mhandara?
- Kuzvininipisa uye kuoma mumatende. Mhandara yakazviita sei? Zvechokwadi, zvine mwero, zvisinei kuti anoedza sei kuchivanza, chido chakasimba chinowanda pamusoro pake, uye kana ukatarisa zvakanyanya iwe uchaona kuoma mukufamba kwake, kudedera uye kutya.
- Kusagadzikana kwemashoko kusinganzwisisiki. Mhandara iyi inotya kuratidza kuti iye mumwe chete, saka haazoiti kutaura pamusoro pe "izvi" munzira dzose. Hazvina mhosva kuti zvinoshamisa sei zvinganzwika, kunyange mumaseke ake iwe hauzombozvinzwa.
- Nzira yekusiyanisa sei murume-mhandara? Zvechokwadi, pane mibvunzo isingazivikanwi. Zvakanaka, somuenzaniso, izvi: "Unofunga kuti chinhu chakanaka chokuita here?" "Haufungi kuti hazvina kunaka kuita izvozvo here?" "Sei zvakadaro?" uye zvakadaro. Uye mumwe mukomana, mhandara, achakubvunza iwe: "Iwe uri mhandara here?" Chero ani zvake aisazofarira, asi akatora zvinhu zvose mumaoko avo uye akaongorora.
- Zero yakakwana mubhedha. Iwe wapedzisa kusvika pano uye, zvinenge zvichiita, zvino unonzwa uchinyara, saka iwe wakashama pamberi pake uye iwe unotofanira kuita chimwe chinhu, asi kamwe kamwe iwe unoziva kuti haazive chaicho chekuita uye sei. Iwe unongoda kuratidza uye kuudza kuti hongu sei.
- Nzira yekuziva kuti mukomana mhandara? Yakanyanya nyore, kufanana
Mutemo, mhandara yakakurumidza kunyanya kuiswa, kuitira kuti chiito chepabonde chinogona kupedza maawa mashoma. Zvisinei, hapana chinotinetsa, uye izvi hazvirevi kuti zvichagara zvakadaro. Nokufamba kwenguva, anodzidza kuzvidzivirira uye ukama hwako huchakuunza mufaro usina kumboitika.
Vadikanwi madzimai, kana mune hanya nemubvunzo uyu: "Ungaongorora sei mhandara mukomana?" Funga, zvakakosha here? Sei uchicherechedza uye uchitaura maitiro akaipa mudiwa wako? Kwenguva yekutanga, haafaniri kukunda kutya kwake nekusachengeteka , usati waumba dambudziko kubva pakutanga. Murume haafaniri kunge ari chigunha chepabonde nezviuru zvevadzidzi shure kwake. Zvose zvamunogona kudzidza uye nemumwe mukadzi anodiwa uyo haazombomubvumi kuti asakanganise kutarisa kwake.