Zvechokwadi iyo iyo mutsara inoti "zvepabonde neusina simba" inokuita kuti iwe unopesana nemanzwiro. Kushaya simba ndiyo chirwere chinozviratidza mukushaya kukwanisa kwemurume kuita zvepabonde. Pano isu tine pfungwa dzisina nguva imwe chete yechirwere ichi, asi nguva dzose zvepabonde "blunders". Saka, ndechipi chepabonde chingavepo?
Tinoita neizvi?
Zvinokonzera kusava nehutano ndizvo zvinetso zvehupenyu hwepanyama uye hwepfungwa. Pamubvunzo wekuti ungatanga sei asina simba, zvichave zvichiitika kupindura mushure mekunge uchitarisa chikonzero chechirwere ichi. Kana kusina simba kwakamuka nekuda kwechirwere cheshuga (chirwere cheshuga, hypertension, atherosclerosis), zvinodhaka zvinodhaka zvichadiwa, zvisingarangariri chete kugadzirisa simba, asi, kutanga, kugadzirisa zvirwere zvinowanikwa. Muchiitiko apo kusava nekukonzerwa kunokonzerwa nehutano hwehutano, hazvibviri kukonzera murume nemhando ipi zvayo ye "maitiro echikadzi".
Murume asina simba haasi mutongo zvachose. Kana mukadzi achizvibata achifunga kuti "Ndichiri kuda uye ndinoda murume uyu", mafungiro aya anogona kuita kuti munhu asina simba ave munhu akazara. Kana chirwere chacho chikaonekwa chisingapesana nemamiriro ekusawirirana kwepfungwa, saka zvakakosha kuti zvive chikonzero chechirwere uye kuti chiparadze. Mikana yekubatsira murume kugadzirisa dambudziko rake nemudzimai munyaya iyi yakawanda zvikuru. Zvose zvinoenderana nehutano hwekuvimbana pakati pevashandi pamwe nekuda kweumwe kubatsira mumwe, uye mumwe - kubvuma rubatsiro urwu. Taura pachena nemurume wako, ona kuti chii chinomutambudza. Zvichida, kushungurudzika kwepfungwa, maitiro akavanzika, kutya - kumubatsira kuti anzwisise pachake. Rega anzwe kutora kwako uye kutarisira.
Kuda kwemurume kutarisana nechinetso ichi chisingafadzi kunoenderana nerudo nekuremekedza mukadzi. Kana munhu achikoshesa iwe, anoda kukupa mufaro uye kufadza iwe, achaedza zvose zvingaita nzira dzokurapa, uye pamwe chete unogona kugadzirisa dambudziko iri.