Hungu, mazuva egoridhe anopfuura, uye murume anonyanya kudanana anova munhu anowanzogara naye. Asi mukadzi akarongeka zvakanyanya zvokuti anoda kutarisirwa zuva rega rega, miniti imwe neimwe. Chimiro chayo chirikufungira uye godo. Mudzimai anotanga kunetseka kuti murume wake akange asina rudo, akawana mumwe, haadi kuti ave naye zvakare zvakare. Murume wacho, iyewo, anotenda kuti mudzimai wake anoda zvakawanda: anoda kushanda, haagoni kutamba zuva rose pamberi pake, uye kazhinji, haana mafungiro.
Nzira yekuchengetedza sei kufarira komurume wake?
Usati wazvibvunza iwe, uye kuti unoita sei kuti murume wako afunge, zviri nani kuzvibvunza iwe kuti urege kurasa sei. Usapa hupenyu hwemhuri kukwasva muitiro. Hungu, chokwadi, mudzimai anogadzira kudya kwemanheru, nguo dzakashambadza, vanamukoti vana, asi haakanganwi kweminiti kuti iyewo mukadzi.
Mumwe haafaniri kutendera murume kurasikirwa nechido. Haafaniri kumuka mangwanani, sekunge akaziva zvaanoenda uye kuona. Kana mutana wekare akadana, usapindura mhepo uye usungirire pakarepo, iwe unogona kutaura uye kutamba. Kana mufambiro wemurume uchigumbusa, unogona kutaura nezvazvo nenzira iyi, zvinyoro, semukadzi, asi zvakajeka.
Nzira yekudzokororazve sei kufarira?
Asi zvakadini kana murume akatotadza kufarira? Nzira yakanakisisa yekuita kuti arambe achinyatsoteerera, asinganzwisisiki zvakakwana, iri nyore kwazvo - unoda kugara iwe pachako. Izvi zvichave zvakakwana zvokuti haana kunzwa kuti ane mudzimai wake 100%. Achava nekunzwa kuti imwe chikamu chechimiro chake hachisi yake, asi munhu nemasikirwo ndiye anoongorora uye anokunda.
Vakadzi vazhinji mushure memakore akawanda vakaroorana vanotanga kunzwa kuti murume akarasikirwa nehanya naye zvepabonde. Usakanganwa kuti murume anoda meso ake. Iwe unongotarisa kuzviona uri muchionioni. Tinofanira kuyeuka kuti hukama hwakatanga sei. Zvadaro mudzimai wemunguva yemberi akazara nemeso, aifara nemusanangurwa wake, akamunyengedza zvishomanana, ainyanyisa, akasarudza zvipfeko zvemasikati uye zvipfeko.
Zvinhu zvose izvi kudzokera kumhuri yemhuri hazvina kumbobvira zvanyanyisa uye murume anenge akanaka zvakare, achizarura muromo wake, anotarisa mudzimai wake, nokuti anomuda, uye kufarira - bhizinesi rakapiwa.