Muchirapa, zvirwere zvakawanda zvepfungwa zvinozivikanwa, izvo zvinonzi phobias. Chimwe nechimwe chinoda kuti munhu asvike uye ave nekodzero yekurapa pasi pekutarisa kweunyanzvi ane ruzivo. Kutya kusurukirwa kunozivikanwa kuti kuzvipira.
Chii chinonzi kuvimba?
Kutendeseka ndiko chirwere chepfungwa chinotarisana nekutya kuva woga pachako. Dzimwe nguva inonzi "monophobia" kana isolophobia. Kuzvimirira, kufanana nezvimwe zvirwere zvepfungwa, zvinokosha nokukurumidza sezvinobvira kuziva nekutanga kurapwa. Varwere vakadaro havasi kungotya kuva voga, asi kazhinji vanofunga nezvekuzviuraya. Nokudaro, zviyero zvakakodzera panguva hazvigoni kubvisa kutya, asi zvinogona kuponesa hupenyu hwemunhu. Maererano nehuwandu, pakati pevarwere vane autophobia, vakawanda vanozviuraya vanowanikwa.
Autophobia - zviratidzo
Zviratidzo zvekutanga zvinogona kuratidza muhuduku. Mwana wacho, ari oga ari oga, anonzwa kunzwa kwekutya uye kusachengeteka, uye anozviratidza nemisodzi uye hysteria. Chimwe chekuratidzwa kwechirwere chinoratidzwa neurodermatitis nedzimwe zvirwere zveganda. Nokubvumirwa kuchikoro, kutya kwekusurukirwa kunowedzera, phobia inowedzera kugadzikana. Vechikoro vanotya kuva voga nezvinetso zvavo uye matambudziko, uye kazhinji vanowira mu "makambani akaipa".
Sezvo vanhu vakuru vachikura, vanotanga kugara vari voga mukura, vasingatsvaki varoorana navo. Kana zvose zvikaitika zvakanaka, chikonzero chekuzviroora chakaroora, chirwere chake chinoratidzira godo rehutano kumurume wake. Mukuwedzera kune hupenyu hwehupenyu, varwere vanowana matambudziko mukushanda hupenyu. Chiedza nechepakati peji yehutachiona hazvionekwi zvikuru kune vamwe.
Zvinyorwa zvinosanganisira:
- kugara mukati mekunetseka mukati uye kufara;
- kusagadzikana kwepfungwa uye kusuruvara;
- kushuva kuzvizadzisa kwezviito zvekare (mumatambudziko akaoma, murwere haagoni kuva muimba yekugeza oga, anoda rubatsiro kwose kwose);
- apo ari oga, murwere anonzwa kutya kwekutya kusurukirwa, pfungwa inoshamisa yekushamiswa nekuzvidya mwoyo;
- kushaya mukana wekuita mabasa anoda kuzvimiririra;
- mune kunyanya mamiriro akaoma, murwere anowanzova nokuora mwoyo uye zvakajeka kuzviuraya.
Sei vanhu vachitya kusurukirwa?
Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzepfungwa dzinofunga kuti kutya kwekusurukirwa kunomuka mucheche nekuda kwekushaiwa kwevabereki, kutadza kwekutaurirana kwepanyama uye kwepfungwa kune yavo. Kufambira mberi kunoonekwa kana mwana wacho ari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya kusvika pazera remakore matatu. Kana chirwere chichizviratidza pakukura, izvi zvinogona kushandiswa ne:
- kukurumidza kukurumidza kwehupenyu;
- basa risingaperi;
- kushaya nguva yega;
- kuparadzana nemudzimai;
- rufu rwemudiwa.
Kutya kusurukirwa - mupfungwa
Nyanzvi dzinonyatsoziva kuti kamwe chete munguva yehupenyu munhu mumwe nomumwe akanzwa kutya kwekusurukirwa. Vanhu vakawanda, vachiziva kuti uyu haisi mutongo, kubudirira kukunda nawo uye kuwana shamwari dzechokwadi, kusika mhuri uye kurarama nomufaro nguva dzose. Avo avo vakanga "vakundwa" nehupenzi hwekusurukirwa, vakava vatapwa vemamiriro ezvinhu. Izvi zvirwere zvakanyanya uye zvakajairika munyika yanhasi, shure kwacho kune matambudziko akawanda, somuenzaniso:
- kugadzikana kunetseka;
- panic attack;
- zvirwere zvepfungwa.
Kutya kusurukirwa kwevakadzi
Chikonzero chikuru chinoita kuti vakadzi vatye kusurukirwa ndiko kuzvidzora kwakanyanya, kwakaumbwa muhuduku nekuyaruka. Sezvo mutemo, mafungiro aya pamusoro pedu aive nekukonzerwa nekuseka kusekwa kwevamwe, kusanganisira vakomana nevasikana, nezvekuonekwa, kuyerwa, chikoro chekudzidzira kuchikoro. Kukura, kwete mukadzi wese anogona kunyatsoongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu, saka anoramba ari mumweya wevechiri kuyaruka asina chokwadi naye. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, anotenda zvakasimba kuti hakuna munhu angatora zvakanyanya, haaregi munhu upi zvake ari pedyo naye.
Kutya kusurukirwa kwevarume
Kufanana nevakadzi, varume vanotya kusurukirwa, kunyange zvazvo vane zvimwe zvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi. Ivo vanonyanya kuchenjerera muchisungo kumusikana uye havadi chaizvo kuchinja tsika. Kana mukadzi nemasikirwo achida kuchengetedza hama, kutya kwekusurukirwa ndiko kutya kuti hakuna munhu angamucherechedza. Zvimwe zvirwere zvakasimba zvekuti vakagadzirira kukoka mudzimai kuti aende kwaari mazuva mashomanana mushure mokutanga musangano.
Nzira yekurega sei kutya kwekusurukirwa?
Dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kuziva hutachiona, kunyange kune chiremba ane ruzivo. Kuti aone chirwere chacho, nyanzvi dzakagadzira mibvunzo yakawanda, mibvunzo nemitemo. Mukuwedzera, kubvunzurudzwa kwomunhu mumwe nomumwe nemurwere kunobatsira kuziva hutachiona kune avo vane maitiro ekurapa. Munhu anotya kusurukirwa anofanirwa kupinda muchikwata chepfungwa. Zvidzidzo zvinotungamirirwa muboka uye muchivande. Murwere anoda kunzwisisa kuti kurapwa kwechibibia kwenguva yakareba, dzimwe nguva zvinotora kusvika makore matatu ekugara kwenguva dzose. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, murwere anorayirwa mishonga.
Nzira yekukunda sei kutya kwekusurukirwa iwe pachako? Maererano nenyanzvi, kuzivikanwa kwechinetso pakutanga kwekutanga kwave kubudirira. Vanokurudzira kuti varege kuzvivhara ivo pachavo, asi kugoverana kutya kwavo nevanhu vepedyo. Mukuwedzera, zvakakosha kushanyira zvikamu zvemitambo, enda neshamwari parwendo. Manzwiro akanaka uye maonero akajeka achabatsira kudzokera kumararamiro ehupenyu uye kubvisa zvinyorwa.