Wakafanira here, mushure mokunge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge wakasimudza munhu asina chimiro, mupfungwa uwedzere kune "kusada-yechipiri" mufaro usina mubvunzo? Kana isu tisingafungi kuti hatina kudaro, asi, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, iyi "yechipiri mufaro" - chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka uye chisingakwanisi kwatiri.
Ngatitangei pamwe chete, ndezvekuzvikudza kwakanyanya, sezvinowanzotenda. Uye iripi chiso ichocho, kana chiri pamusoro pekushinga kuita chimwe chinhu chatinotaura kuti chisimba uye kuzvikudza.
Kutanga, funga nezvemaonero ako kuzvikudza: unozviona sechipiri chekufara, chiito kana chimwe chinhu chingave chakakunakira iwe. Vakawanda vanopomera izvi, asi pane avo vanobvunza kuti kuzvikudza kunokura sei.
Kunyunyuta hachisi urema here?
Kana kuti vice? Funga: vazhinji vedu takazvibata zvakanyanyisa muhuduku, kusvikira vabereki vakaisa mhosva. Ushingi hwakanyanya hunobuda huripo, uye hunoonekwa sehupenzi hwevana. Asi zvishoma nezvishoma kupera kunowanzova kusakanganisika, kusava nehanya uye kunyange dambudziko rekunyengedzera, uye rutivi rwezvinhu zvinoonekwa sezvakanaka zvakanyanyisa. Muvanhu vakuru, hupenyu huri kuzvimirira, munhu mumwe nomumwe anogadza miganhu yekusava nehanya, asi kuti yakawanda zvakadini inowanzoenderana nekurera vana.
Izwi rokuti kuzvikudza rinorevei? Icho chisina maturo, pamwe chete nekutenda kwemunhu kuti iye akakodzera zvakanakisisa. Muchirevo ichi, zvinonzwika kwete zvakaipa, iwe unobvumirana, nokuti hapana chinonyadzisa mukutsvaga kuwana huwandu hwehupenyu. Hazvishamisi kuti vanotaura kuti kutyisa kweguta kunotora, nokuti kwaizove kwakagadzira nhoroondo yedu, regai kuva pasi pevanhu vanotya.
Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti munhu asingazivi chiyero, uye kusava nehanya kwake hakuna muganhu. Kana zvasvika pakurasikirwa nekuremekedzwa kune vamwe, kuzvikudza kwakanaka kunopa nzira yekusava nehanya. Uye zvino mubvunzo unomuka, kuti ungarwisana sei nokuzvikudza.
Nzira yekudzivisa kuzvikudza?
Muzviitiko zvizhinji, uyo uyo maitiro ake atinoona sokuti haana kunyadziswa, haafungi kuti ari kuita chimwe chinhu chausingagoni kuwana. Ndiko, haisi imwe iyo inozviisa kumusoro, asi iwe pachako unozvinyima. Pamusoro pokusava nehanya - chimiro chaicho. Zvisinei, zvinoitika kuti tinotarisana nekunyengedzera, uye hatizivi nzira yekuita nayo kuzvikudza.
- Kutanga, edza kunzwisisa kana pane kusaremekedza kune vamwe mune mufambiro wemunhu anonyadzisa. Kana kuzvikudza ndiko chikonzero chekusaremekedza, saka usanyara kuisa munhu uyo akakugadzirisa iwe panzvimbo. Kunyanya, kana mushure mekuparadzanisa iwe unotsamwa uye unoti mhinduro dzinokwanisa, dzakasara dzisingatauri. Mushure mezvose, zvinoitika kuti kwete chete munhu asina hanya anofunga kuti iwe hauna kukodzera, asi iwe pachako.
- Kazhinji kunyengedza kwakanyanyisa, uye kunoonekwa sechikonzero chekusatenda. Kana iwe ukatora chinyorwa ichi mumafambiro eumwe
munhu, zvichava nyore kuti iwe uone kuedza kwake kuvhara nzvimbo dzisingatambudziki nehombodo yekusava nehanya nekushingaira. - Kana zvichibvira, edza kune vanhu vane shasha kuti vadzivise kana kuti kuderedza kuderedza kukurukurirana kusvika zvishoma.
Uye, pakupedzisira, kana iwe ukasangana nokuzvikudza pazvinhu zvose, funga pamusoro pezvakakanganisika nekuzviremekedza kwako uye nyika. Zvichida wakasarudza nzvimbo yechirwere, uye saka vanhu vakakupoteredza vanogara pamutsipa wako. Vatiza, makadhi, vanyengeri uye vanonyadzisa - vanhu ava vose vanonzwa avo vari nyore kukuvadzwa nemafambiro avo. Nokudaro, nzira yakanakisisa yekurwisana kuzvikudza ndeyokuda uye kuzviremekedza iwe!