Pfungwa yekushivirira inobva mushoko rekushivirira. Kuve nemwoyo murefu kunobata nekuremekedza dzimwe pfungwa dzevanhu, zvinyorwa uye maonero, kutora maitiro akasiyana-siyana ekuzviratidza uye kuratidzwa kweunhu pachako. Rudzi urwu ruregerero harisi chete rwemitemo yevanhu vose vakasununguka, asiwo mutemo wepamutemo. Mafungiro asingakanganisi ndehupi hwehupo hwehutungamiri hwezvematongerwe enyika munharaunda.
Mienzaniso yekushivirira inogona kuwanika muBhaibheri, nokuti kushivirira muchiKristu kunoonekwa seimwe yemhando dzakanaka. Kuve nemwoyo murefu chete wakanyatsogadziriswa uye vanhu vakagadzirwa, kunyanya artists uye artists, vanhu vose. Nzvimbo yakakwirira yokutsungirira inogona kuratidzwa nemashoko akadaro se "zvinonakidza kutaura nemunhu uyu", "vamiririri vorudzi urwu vanowanzove vakanaka". Mashoko akadaro ekuti "Ndinovenga munhu uyu", "Ndinoshushikana nokuvapo kwake", "Handingararami muimba imwechete semuJudha", nezvimwewo, zvinogona kupupurira kusava nekutsungirira.
Dambudziko rekushivirira nderokuti vanhu vasina ruzivo vanojaira kuifungidzira nekunyepedzera, kubvumirana kana kusagutsikana, kugamuchirwa pane kutenda kwezvitendero zvevamwe. Zvechokwadi, maonero aya haana maturo, sezvo kushivirira kunonyanya kuonekwa nyika kuburikidza nemeso evanhu vakasununguka.
Kuumba kwekushivirira
Zvakakosha kuisa pasi mazano ekutenderera mafungiro enyika kubvira paudiki, saka nzira yakanakisisa yekuvandudza hutano ichi kukura. Nzira yakadaro yekudzidzisa inofanira kutanga nekutaridzirwa kwekusununguka kwakakwana uye kodzero. Kuita izvi, zvakakosha kuti mutemo wekudzidzisa hurumende unobatsira pakuvandudzika kwekuwirirana nekutsungirira mune zvekugarisana, tsika netsika dzechitendero, sezvo nzira yekudzidzisa unhu hunovhiringidza husinganzwisisiki nekubatanidzwa kwekushivirira muhurumende.
Dzidzo mumweya wekuregerera mafungiro inofanira kuumba muhumwe humwe unyanzvi hwekufunga nehutano hwekugadzirisa kwekutonga kunoenderana nemitemo yose yehutsika. Unhu hwekuregerera hahubvumiri kukanganisa kwezvinhu zvinokosha zvevanhu uye kodzero dzevanhu dzisina kukodzera. Dzidzo ndiyo inonyanya kusimudzira kusagadzikana munharaunda.
Zviitiko Zvokutsungirira
Zviitiko zvehutano hwevanhu vanotambura:
- kuremekedza mafungiro eumwe munhu;
- Kushivirira kune vanhu vane dzimwe maonero pamusoro pehupenyu;
- mafungiro akaipa pamusoro pekunyengera.
Kurwisana kwekuregererwa kunogona kutevedzerwa mukusaona mitemo yaro, yakadai sekushivirira uye kuremekedza.
Kushivirira maitiro
- Mamiriro ezvinhu anoteerera kushivirira. Yakaratidzwa muhukama hwomunhu mumwe kune vanhu vakamupoteredza - cohabitants, hama, vakaroorana.
- Kuwirirana kwechimiro. Zvinoratidzwa maererano nemunhu kune huwandu hwehupenyu hwevanhu - boka revanhu
iye, ruzivo rwemagariro evanhu, nyika. - Unyanzvi hwekutaurirana kwekutaurirana. Zvinoratidzwa maererano nemunhu kune vatengi vavo kana vashandi, vamiririri vebasa ravo.
Kukosha kwekushivirira hakugone kuve kunofungidzirwa, nokuti ndeyokuti tinogona kubata nekuremekedza nekunzwisisa tsika dzetsika dzemamwe marudzi. Iko kubvumira kunotibvumira kuti tibate uye tibvumire vanhu vakaenzana uye vanopesana, kwete kungova nemafungiro edu pane chimwe chinhu, asiwo kubvumira vamwe nhengo dzevanhu kuti vave nemafungiro avo pachavo.