Kazhinji kacho, kutaura nezvekukwezva kwevarume kana kukwezva kwemukadzi, isu pachedu hatigoni kuumba izvo chaizvoizvo munhu uyu akatida chaizvo. Mushure mezvose, haasi munhu wose anoyevedza ane uwandu hwakakwana hwechiso uye muviri. Ngationei zvinoita kuti munhu aonekwe.
Mazano ekukwezva
- Goodwill . Iwe, zvechokwadi, wakaramba uchicherechedza kuti vanhu vane tsitsi vanokwezva zvakanyanya. Kuti chiso chako chiratidze kwete zvose zvinoratidzika zvisinganzwisisiki, zvakakosha kudzidza kuti ungashandura sei kubva kune zvinetso zvemukati kuenda kunyika dzakapoteredza munguva. Iva nemwoyo murefu wevanhu. Uye, pasinei nokuti zvingaratidzika sei zvakanyanya, kunyemwerera uye kutarisa kakawanda pamunhu ari muziso. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakacherechedza kuti vanhu vanosemwerera vanoita sevanokwezva. Zvinoshamisa kuti, asi tinowanzotaura sekunge tine chinhu chisingazivikanwi chiri pamberi pedu. Taura nevanhu nezita, kunyange kukwazisa kana kuti kutaura zvakanaka. Izvi chete zvichachinja maonero nemafungiro ako.
- Kufarira . Chero ani zvake anonyatsotaura pamusoro penyaya yezvavanoda. Bvunza vanhu pamusoro pezvavanofarira. Kunyange kana iwe usina kukwana mundima iyi - unogona kubvunza mibvunzo, farira. Edza kuteerera pane kungotaura.
- Unhu . Mukutsvaka mafashoni, kune vamwe vese vanoita muenzaniso, tinorasikirwa nechinhu chikuru - munhu oga. Vanhu vasina kumira mumhomho havakwanise kuonekwa. Zvibvunze pachako, chii chaungada kufara kupfeka, kana chaive chine fashoni? Ndeipi nzira inokukwezva iwe? Inguva yekuedza.
- Sense yekuseka . Munhu anogona kukonzera kunyemwerera nguva dzose achakoshesa vanhu, asi edza kuti usagumbusa majee ako. Mukupedzisira, havasi vose vanonzwisisa kuseka.
- Tsika uye kutaura . Iwe nguva dzose uchange wakakombwa nevanhu waunosangana navo. Kana iwe uchizvibvumira kusagadzikana uye kutyisa majee - usashamiswa kuti yakadaro inokukwezva iwe. Shingaira iwe pachako: verenga zvakanyanya, edza kubvisa kubva pakutaura kwako kunyengera mashoko. Usaita makuhwa uye usakurukura.
- Kukwezva muviri . Tarisa hutano hwako uye mararamiro ako. Kukwezva kwepanyama ndiko, kutanga kwezvose, kuonekwa kwakanaka, kuchena nekugadzirisa.
Edza kuva nehope yakakwana uye, kana iwe usingashandise muviri, ita zvidzidzo mangwanani. Hazvitore nguva yakawanda, asi hupenyu hwehutano nemafungiro hunovandudza zvikuru. - Kuvapo kwezvido . Nguva dzose ipai nguva yekuita zvinhu zvamunoda. Izvi hazvisi kungogutsa kugutsikana mupfungwa, asiwo kukubvumira kukura. Vanhu vane zvinhu zvekuchivaraidza uye zvinokuvaraidza zvinonakidza uye zvakagadziriswa. Uye nekuda kweizvi, vanoda kutaura navo.
- Rudo pachako . Murume anozvida pachake anokwanisa kupa rudo kune vamwe. Ane chivimbo, haatamburi nekuzviremekedza kunorwadza, anokwanisa kuita zvakajeka kumaseko uye kunyange kuseka iye pachake. Munhu ane rudo haazopindwa muropa uye haatambudziwi nokusurukirwa.