Adolescence - Psychology

Isu tose tinoziva kuti zvakaoma sei kurarama nemwana muhucheche. Vakomana nevanasikana vose vanongoramba vasingagoni kudzora, havatauri pane zvataurwa uye vanogumburwa zvikuru nezvikonzero zvipi nezvipi. Kunyange zvazvo amai nababa vari kutarisana nenguva yakaoma panguva ino, inofanira kunzwisiswa kuti ndiyo nguva yakaoma zvikuru kumwana pachake, nokuti haakwanisi kudzora manzwiro ake uye zvimwe zviito. Muchikamu chino, tichakutaurira kuti zvinhu zvipi zvinowanikwa mumakore ekuyaruka maererano nehutano hwepfungwa.

Dambudziko rekuyaruka mune zvepfungwa

Mwana mumwe nomumwe, sezvaanokura, anotarisana nehupenyu hwakasiyana-siyana uye hwemunhu oga. Kutanga kubva munenge makore gumi nemana, vakomana nevanasikana vane maitiro akawanda epfungwa, izvo zvinotungamirira kukurudzirwa kwedambudziko guru.

Chikonzero chezvikwangwani zvakadaro zviri mukusarura kusina kufanira mune zvakasiyana-siyana. Vakomana nevanasikana panguva iyi havana kunyatsogadzikana mupfungwa, uye chero zviito zvisina hanya uye zvisina kururama kune vabereki, shamwari kana vanongoziva chete zvinogona kutungamirira kukura kwekuora mwoyo kwakanyanya.

Kubva pakuona kwepfungwa dzepfungwa, matambudziko makuru anokosha ayo mwana anofanira kukunda muhucheche ndeaya anotevera:

• Kunzwa kunoshamisa kwekuti vamwe vanhu vanoongorora sei kutarisa kwevechiri kuyaruka;
• kunyanya kuzvidzora, chivimbo chokuti unogona kukunda zvachose chero basa risina rubatsiro rwokunze;
• kururamisa uye kurongeka kwevanhu vanopoteredza;
• marudzi ose e "kunyanyisa" - kushivirira nekuteerera pamwe nekunyengedzera uye kusava nehanya, kunyara kunoshamisa pamwe chete nekuzvidza uye cheekiness nezvimwe zvakadaro;
• kukanganisa kukaramba kwechiremera chevabereki nevamwe vanhu vakuru;
• kusikwa kwezvifananidzo nekufananidzira kweunhu husingazivikanwi, somuenzaniso, "nyeredzi" dzekuratidza bhizinesi.

Kusiyanisa mumagariro ekuyaruka muvakomana nevasikana

Kubva pakuona kwemazera epfungwa, makore vaduku nevakuru ekuyaruka kwevana vemadzimai maviri zvakaoma zvakaenzana. Zvisinei, pane zvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana zvaunofanirwa kubhadhara paunenge uchitaura nemwana wako, somuenzaniso:

• vakomana vanoteerera zvakanyatsoteerera mirayiridzo yevakuru kupfuura vasikana. Kana varume vechidiki mumatambudziko akawanda vanotanga kutevera vana vakwegura, vasikana vanoziva ivo chete ivo pachavo;
• vasikana vanonyanya kufunga nezvekuchinja muchitarisiko chavo uye kusanganisa kusarudzo kwevamwe;
• vakomana vari kuyaruka vanowanzoratidza mikana yakasiyana, iyo vari kuedza zvakanakisisa kuti varatidze kune vamwe. Vasikana, pane zvinopesana, vanorasikirwa namano akadaro, kana vachiri vaduku vaine nzvimbo yekuve.

Pasinei nokuti vabereki vakawanda panguva yekuyaruka kwevana vavo vanongorasikirwa uye havazivi maitiro avo, munhu anofanira kuramba akadzikama mumamiriro ese ezvinhu uye edza kusaisa kumanikidza mwana. Yeuka kuti mwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako akaoma kukunda iwe, nokuti achava nenguva yakaoma uye yakareba yaunoda chete kurarama.

Semitemo, pazera remakore 16-17 dambudziko rinotanga kuderera, uye zvizhinji zvezvinetso zvinopera. Iva nemoyo murefu, uye mushure mechinguva iwe uchaona kuti zviri nyore kukurukurirana nemukuru wako scion.