Vabereki vose vevechiri kuyaruka vanotya kuti mwana wavo anokwanisa kutaura nekambani yakaipa. Asi iwe haugoni kuparadzanisa mwana wako kubva munharaunda, saka kuitira kuti ubatsire vabereki vanotambudzika munyaya ino, tichakurukura kuti nei izvi zvingaitika uye zvinofanira kuitika mumamiriro akadaro.
Sei vechidiki vachipinda mumakambani akaipa?
Nzira yekuziva chii chinokurudzira vechidiki, kunyange kubva kumhuri inofara, pavanotanga kukanganisa hurumende, vachirega kuchikoro, vasingasviki, vanosimbisa tsika dzakaipa here? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira vabereki kuti vatange kuziva kuti vana vavo panguva ino havasi vana zvachose, asi ivo havasi vakuru kana. Saka, kuti tive nehanya nekambani yakaipa, vanogona nokuda kwezvikonzero zvinotevera:
- kutsvaga kutendeseka - panguva ino, kukurukurirana nevezera rako ibasa rinokosha, uye kazhinji kacho rakasimba uye rinoremekedza vanhu vakaipa;
- kubva mupfungwa yekupesana, iyo yakanyatsokurudzirwa muvechiri kuyaruka, ndinoda kusada vamwe vose;
- achida kuve akakurumbira - mushure mehupenyu hwose hwakakurumbira kuchikoro ndivo vanokanganisa kurongeka, ndicho chikonzero chinokwezva vechidiki;
- kubva mukuda kuziva - kusakwanisa ruzivo uye rusununguko kunounza kufarira uye chido chekuziva kuti chii ( kusvuta , disco, kurwa);
- kutsvaga nzvimbo yevanhu munharaunda ndeyechido chechisikwa chekugamuchirwa munzanga, saka dzakawanda mabasa akaipa anowanzoitwa "kwekambani", nevechiri kuyaruka vasati vasarudza chinangwa chavo muhupenyu vanoedza kuitsvaga nekuedza uye kukanganisa.
Ko kana mwana wacho ari shamwari ne "vakaipa"?
Ngwarira
Vashandirwa nezvinetso zvavo zvekuita uye zvemhuri, vabereki vari kupedza nguva shomanana nevana vavo vakwegura uye saka vanowanzotsaura nguva iyo mwana wavo achangotanga kuzivana nekambani yakaipa. Izvi zvinogona kugadziriswa kana iye: anoteerera kune dzimwe mimhanzi, anomudzivisa kuti apinde muimba yake, anokudzivirira iwe, uye paanosangana naye anonyengera uye anovanza maziso ake, anowedzera zvakanaka kuchikoro kana kunyange kutsika. Kunyanya zvakakosha kunyatsoteerera apo vanhu vatsva vanowanikwa mudenderedzwa yevechiri kuyaruka.
Mwoyo-ku-mwoyo kutaura
Kuziva kushanduka muhutano hwemwana, zvakakosha kutaura naye, asi hurukuro iyi inofanira kurongeka maererano nemitemo inotevera:
- kuti vataure zviri nani mukuzununguka - mune cafe kana pamamiriro;
- kana iwe uri mukukakavara, shandisa pfungwa yako uchitanga kutaura shure kwemazuva mashoma, apo hukama huri nani;
- Usati uverenge tsika, usapomera mhosva chero chinhu;
- Ipa muenzaniso kubva pane zvakaitika kwauri, bvunza zvaanofunga pamusoro pemamiriro ezvinhu aya.
Kunyanya kuchenjerera kuti utaure pamusoro pehama itsva dzaunofunga kuti hadzina kukodzera, tsanangura, chii chauri iwe hachigadziri. Yeuka kuti mafungiro ekutanga anonyengedza, usarembera mavarai kune vechidiki, edza kudzidza zvakawanda nezvevamwe shamwari.
Shanda pamwe nevamwe vabereki
Kuzivikanwa nemhuri yemwana wako kuchakubatsira kwete kungodzidza zvakawanda nezvevamwe shamwari dzake, asiwo nemuenzaniso weimwe mhuri, kuratidzira kunzwisisika kwezvaunotaura, asi nokuda kweizvi unoda kubvumirana nevamwe vabereki pamusoro pekufananidzwa, semuenzaniso: kufamba kune imwe nguva.
Iva shamwari yake
Tanga kushandisa nguva yakawanda nemwana wako, dzidza nzira yekukurukurirana , tsvaka kufarira pamwe chete, uye:
- kazhinji kazhinji kumubvunza;
- usaudza zvakavanzika zvake, kunyange kune hama;
- Usanyadzisa kana kumuzvidza;
- zvishoma kudzivisa uye kazhinji kacho kutsanangura kuti sei chakaipa uye saka hazvibviri kuita;
- Usapedza rusununguko rwake, ratidza kuti unovimba naye;
- Kumbira kukanganwirwa kana iwe uri mhosva.
Shandura maitiro ako
Kuti utaure nezvekukuvadza kwechimwe chinhu, iwe unofanira kutanga uve muenzaniso kwaari: kubvisa tsika dzakaipa, usapika, kuita basa rechikoro. Panzvimbo pekupomerwa nguva dzose, zviri nani kumudzivirira kuti arege kurwisa vamwe vanhu, uye ozoita hurukuro, sei zvaitika.
Tora nguva
Tsvaga imwe nzira yekushandisa pasina chinangwa nguva yakasununguka: nyora pasi pachikamu chemitambo kana chitenderedzwa, utenge imbwa kana bhasikoro.
Uyai kununura munguva
Kana mamiriro acho ari kure kwazvo uye mwana ari pangozi yekuchengetedza nekuchengeteka kwake, zvakakosha kuvhara kusanganisa kwakaipisisa zvakanyanya uye dzimwe nguva, kunyange kupikisa kuda kwake.
Kana iwe uchiita kuti mwana wako anzwe kuti unomuda uye unozvikudza kwazvo naye, zvino nematambudziko ake uye zvido zvake achauya kwauri, vabereki vake, uye kwete kune rimwe boka revasikana vasingafari.