Ndiani akati hafu yenguva yakasimba yevanhu inoputsa mapenzura uye gnaws pamucheto wezvipikiri, achiedza kunyora chirevo chekuda musikana wake? Vakadzi vazhinji vakanaka vanoyera mukamuri mukufamba, vachiedza kufungidzira kutaura kwakakodzera kwemurume we rudo.
Chirevo cherudo kumurume ari mutsamba
Nyora tsamba inofadza kune murume ane chiziviso cherudo - iyi ndiyo makore ekupedzisira? Asi kwete, nguva dzaTatyana Larina haisi kure neiko kwatiri, uye nhasi kutenderera uye kunaka kwekutenda kworudo, kwakagamuchirwa mumavhopupe inonhuhwirira, kuchafadza murume. Ndiyo chete yekunyora kupupura kwakadai, uye kunyanya kukosha, chii chandinyora?
- Kana uchitove wakasarudza kunyora rudo rwako rwekupupura muzvinyorwa zvakanyorwa, nyora nyorera murume wako anodikanwa tsamba chaiyo, kwete yehutroniki, usatye kutora meseji yako pane printer. Tsamba yacho inofanira kunyorwa nemaoko, haugoni kuvimba nechinhu chakadai chakadai nemichina yakashata. Muzera redu rekombiyuta yemashoko, zvatove zvakaoma kuti vakawanda vayeuke kuti zvakanaka sei kuratidza tsamba, saka musati mava kunyora tsamba, tadzidza calligraphy pane rimwe pepepa.
- Hongu, havasi vose vanoziva nzira yekuratidza mafungiro avo uye manzwiro avo mumashoko, asi zvakakosha kuedza. Uye kugadzirisa rudo kune murume akanaka kunobatsira pano nzira yakadai - fungidzira zvaunozvinyora iwe pachako. Zvechokwadi, mitsara pamusoro pekushisa kwechikafu uye izwi ranyoro rinofanira kubviswa, asi zvimwe zvose zvinogona kusara. Nyora kuitira kuti iwe unofara kuverenga iyi mharidzo, ipapo munhu wako anodiwa anonzwisisa uye anonzwa zvose zvaunoda kutaura kwaari.
- Kunyange kuziviswa kwenguva pfupi dzorudo kunoda chikwangwani, haudi kuti murume wako apinde mumamiriro anonyadzisa, achifunga kuti mushandi ane nyadzi akanyora kwaari? Saka iva nechokwadi chekuisa zita rako pakuguma kwetsamba. Mazano, se "iyo iyo ziso raisagona kubvisa kubva kwauri pamakambani" zviri nani kudzivisa.
- Unoyeuka mafirimu nezvemazuva akawanda apfuura nguva? Ikoko vatendi vakauya kubva kuvasikana vanoda tsamba mumavhopu mafuta. Ita kuvimbisa kwako rudo kumunhu zviduku zvishoma, shandisa mvura yako yega yega yaunoda pane pepa nemashoko. Ingochenjerera kuti urege kudarika - tsamba yakanyanyisa inonhuhwirira haigoni kukonzera mwoyo palpitations, asi musoro.
Chirevo chekutanga chekuda murume
Munhu anodikanwa anoda kuisa kuvimbisa kusingadikanwi kworudo, zvakadai kuti acharangarire nguva ino kwenguva refu. Munyaya iyi, haugone kuita pasina fungiro. Iwe unogona kugara usiku hwose hunyora zvinyori zvekusanangurwa kwako, uye mangwanani uverenge kwaari. Kana munhu wako ane pfungwa yekuseka, iwe unogona kuwana kugutsikana kwekuratidza rudo. Iwe usati wataura chimwe chinhu chakadaro, iva nechokwadi chokuti kwete chete kuvapo kwekunakidzwa, asiwo kuti inowirirana newe. Kana zvisina kudaro, kugumbura munhu nenzira isingazivi.
Dzimwe nguva iwe unogona kunzwa kubva kuvarume vekufunga kwepfungwa kuti kudya kwemanheru kunomirira murume mushure mekushanda kwezuva ndiko kuzivisa kwakanakisisa kwerudo-mukadzi anotarisira, saka anonzwa. Vamwe vakadzi vanowedzera izvi nemashoko akaiswa pasi pevasi ne candy kana kamuki pamusoro pekeke (ketchup papzza yakagadzirwa) "Ndinokuda."
Vamwe madzimai vanyorese bhokisi rose revanonamatira nemashoko erudo uye vakavapfuura nemoto wose weanoda. Izvo zvakasiyana-siyana zvinokanganisa, varume vakawanda nokuda kwehasha dzakadaro pamusoro pe "swallow" havatendi
Kubvuma rudo kune murume akaroorwa
Iwe unogona kutaura chiuru zvekuti hazvina kunaka kusangana nevanhu vakaroora, uye haugone kuvaka dambudziko reumwe munhu. Asi zvinoitika kuti tinodzidza kuti murume akaroorwa, atova atova murudo naye, achishandiswa kudarika (zvinonzi nekuda kwekushanda zvakaoma) misangano. Uye chii chaunofanira kuita, ramba uchifunga iwe pachako? Kwete, ndinofanira kutaura. Zvichida, mumamiriro ezvinhu izvi zvakanakisisa kuita izvi, kutarisa mumaziso ake - zvishamiso uye mharidzo dzisingaiti dzinogona kuwira mumaoko emakadzi ake. Kana iwe uri kunyora tsamba, iwe pachako ugozvipa kana kuisa muhomwe yako, asi iva nechokwadi kuti utaurire murume kuti averenge tsamba asati asangana nemudzimai wake.