Isu tose taifanira kutarisa seimwe yemitezo yekambani inoita kuti vateereri vatarise vanhu vavo. Pasi pake nguva dzose mapoka evanhu vanotaurirana vanotsigira hurukuro nechinangwa. Chii chinokwezva vanhu kwaari? Zvingangodaro, uku ndiko kukura kweunyanzvi hwake hwokukurukurirana, iyo yakasvika kusvika pakakwirira. Pasi pehutano hwekukurukurirana tinonzwisisa kusununguka pakugadzira ukama hwehukama nebhizimisi nevanhu. Uyu unhu unosanganisira kukwanisa kuwana vanhu , uyewo neunyanzvi kutungamira kukurukurirana nemunhu chero upi zvake, pasinei nechinzvimbo chake nezera rake.
Mhando dzehutano hwevanhu hwekukurukurirana
Mamiriro ezvinhu vanhu vose vanogona kugoverwa mumapoka zvichienderana nenzira iyo vanoshandisa nzira yavo yekukurukurirana:
- chinonyanya kukosha - zvakaoma kusaziva, mushure mokukurukurirana kwemaminitsi mashanu naye, zvinoratidzika kuti kune zvakawanda zvezvo, iye ane utsinye uye ane simba.
- Nhamba yefaira inoshamwaridzana nyore nyore mune imwe hurukuro uye nyore nyore kurasikirwa nechido mairi. Inoshandisa unyanzvi hukuru hwekukurukurirana, kutaura kwakakurumidza uye chimiro chekunaka.
- rudzi rwakasimba - zvakaoma kuwana ruzivo rutsva, kune matambudziko nekubatana nehurukuro, asi mushure mekubudirira kupfuura danga iri, zvingava zvakanaka kuva interlocutor.
- introverted type - zvakasiyana nezvinokosha. Kuzvininipisa, kugadzirisa, zvakaoma kuburitsa hurukuro isinganzwisisiki.
Kuti uone huwandu hwekukurukurirana, pindura mibvunzo: iwe unonzwa sei pamusoro pevanhu vatsva vazivana, kuonekwa kwevanhu vose, misangano inouya nevakwegura vekare. Kana ukasarudza kuramba wakanyarara, uye usingarevi maonero ako, iwe hausi hukama hwevanhu uye unogona kutarisana nezvinetso pamabasa kana muupenyu hwako hwega.
Zvinetso nehutano hwekukurukurirana zvinogadziriswa. Kana iwe ukapinda muchibvumirano nemumwe munhu waunoziva kana kana iwe ukaita mushumo, iwe unoda psychotherapeutic rubatsiro, kana kukanganisa kuri nyore, unogona kutarisana naro pachako nekudzidziswa.
Nzira yekuvandudza sei unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana?
Kutanga, ivai hongu kukutaurirana. Kurukura mukufadza kwako nevavakidzani, vashandi-vashandi, vanozivana nevasingazivi. Chechipiri, dzidza kuona zvinhu zvakanaka zvekukurukurirana kupi zvako, edza kubvisa kubva paruzivo rutsva kana ruzivo rweumwe munhu. Shandisa mazano akadzidzira uye maitiro ekuvandudza unhu hwekugarisana nevamwe.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa maitiro akasiyana-siyana ekugonesa kukurukurirana. Chinangwa chemakirasi aya ndechekudziridza intuition mukukurukurirana, kuvandudza tsika dzekutaurirana, kuvaka maonero ekutaurirana kumwe, kuvandudza unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana, nezvimwe zvakawanda. Kudzidzira kunogona kuva pamwe nevamwe. Kudzidzira mumwe nomumwe kunosanganisira kutaura hurukuro pamberi pegirazi, kuverenga magwaro akafanana nemarudzi akasiyana-siyana, uye vamwe. Kuita zvekudzidzira kwakasiyana kwakadzidziswa kunoitwa neboka. Somuenzaniso, kurovedza "Ipai zita remamiriro ezvinhu" - vatori vechikamu vanosiyanisa mamiriro ezvinhu akaitwa nemupepeti, kurondedzera uye kurondedzera zvisiri izvo zvinogadziriswa.