Apo patinotanga vatsva vanoziva, zvakakosha kuti tive nepfungwa yakanaka yokutanga. Mushure mokuverenga nyaya ino, muchadzidza maitiro ekuwana vanhu.
Kuti uwane munhu waunoda kuzarura. Nguva dzose tora danho mukukurukurirana. Mushure mezvose, munhu wese anoziva kuti kana iwe wakaziva, zvakakosha kuita hurukuro, asi kana ukatanga kutanga, hazvizoonekwa here? Rumbidza munhu pane zvimwe zvakanaka kana unhu hwaunoda. Ita chete nemwoyo wose, uye interlocutor achakuyeuka iwe! Usakanganwa kumwemwe, nokuti masayendisiti ave akaratidza kuti munhu anosemwerera kubva kune rumwe rutivi anotarisa zvikuru uye ane humwe hunoita. Kunyadzisa inzira yakanaka yekuita kuti zvinhu zviitwe. Uyezve, edza kuyeuka mazita. Kune munhu hapasisina inzwi rinonakidza kupfuura inzwi rezita rake. Achakoshesa kana muchikurukurirana iwe uchamutumidza nezita. Dzidza kuteerera. Dzimwe nguva vanhu vanongoda kutaura, vasina kunyombwa uye mazano. Chenjerera nekucherechedza uye kufarira kune interlocutor.
Ungaronga sei munhu iwe pachako?
Nokuda kweizvi unoda kuziva zviduku zvishoma. Usagara pasi uchirwisana. Nokuti inonzwisiswa sekutarisana. Gara pamwe nechemberi kana pedyo nechepamusoro petafura. Tora yakazaruka, yakaturika-pose pose. Pashure pezvose, zvimwe zvinhu zvaunogona kuva nazvo pamabvi ako, pane kusaziva kwevanhu kunokonzera kushamwaridzana nemuganhu. Shandisa iyo yekugamuchira "mirroring" iyo interlocutor. Unobtrusively kopi zvaanofamba uye utende kwandiri, nokukurumidza achanzwa mukati menyu mweya wehama.
Nzira yekugadzirisa sei bhizinesi?
Iwe uchangobva kuwana basa idzva, wakanga uine nguva yekuita shamwari neshamwari uye mukuru akaramba ari pamutsara.
- Ratidza kuzvidzora. Edza kuva nemanzwiro, kutonhora pasi, kuongorora zvose, uye ozosarudza kupindura kutsoropodza kana kwete. Vashandi vachakoshesa dhipatimendi yenyu.
- Usazvifananidza kuti iwe une njere kudarika vamwe vose. Kana iwe usingadi vashandi vepurojekiti, taura zvakanaka iwe sarudzo yako uye fungai kuti sei zviri nani.
- Zvibayire nguva yako pachako. Kana chimwe chinhu chichifanira kuitika munguva pfupi, usatya kushandisa nguva yako yega. Kana zvikadzoka zvekuvhara, mubatsiri achaziva kuti unogona kutendwa.
Mushure mokuverenga mazano aya, zvichida makanzwisisa maitiro ekugadzirira benzi. Asi kukurukurirana kunovakwa zvakanaka kunogona kubatsira kwete avo chete vanogara munzvimbo dzepamusoro, asiwo vanhuwo zvavo mumarudzi akasiyana-siyana. Chinhu chikuru mune izvi hachisi icho iwe unotaura, asi iwe unozvibata sei.
Unoronga sei interlocutor yako kana iwe usingazivi chinhu pamusoro pake?
- Iva nguva dzose pane zvakanaka, zvakaoma kusaona vanhu vakadaro;
- onai chinyorwa chinyararire muzwi rako, nokuti munhu munguva yedu haana kutarisira zvakakwana nekudziya;
- Chenjererai zvisiri zvemashoko izvo munhu anoda kukuzivisa iwe uye zvaanoita paanenge achizviita, pasinei nokuti ari kupfuura;
- nyatsoteerera uye uratidze kupfupika, usashandise mutsara wakajeka uye akareba, zvinongopindira
kuwirirana pamwe.
Kukwanisa kuva nevanhu pamwe newe kunokosha zvikuru munyika yanhasi, nokuti zvinhu zvose zvakavakirwa pahukama hwevanhu. Kukurukurirana kunoita kuti tive unhu uye tinozarura mikana mitsva kwatiri. Kukurukura kwatinoita nevamwe, kunobva pane pfungwa yedu. Ratidza kufarira kune vamwe vanhu, ivai vakasvinuka uye newe vazhinji vachachengetedza ukama. Zvakanaka, yekupedzisira, asi kwete mutemo muduku unokosha wokukurukura nevanhu. Ipa munhu mukana wekunzwa kukosha kwako kwauri. Nguva dzose tarisa mamiriro akafanana uye nguva dzose uve akatendeseka.