Izvi zvinoitika kuti iwe uzive nemunhu, chitarisiko chake hachionekwi, asi anokwezva kune iyeye zvokuti anoda kutaura naye nguva nenguva. Vanhu vakadaro vane chipo chakakosha kuti vabudise vanhu vakavapoteredza tsitsi isinganzwisisiki. Ichi chinoshamisa hatitauri chimwe kunze kwechikonzero chevanhu.
Chirevo chechirisma chinoshandurwa kubva muchiGiriki, se "nyasha dzakapiwa naMwari," chiratidzo chakadai chevakasarudzwa. Ndokusaka ichifadza, kana zvichibvira kukudziridza chisarudzo uye kana zvakadaro, ungazviita sei. Vamwe vanodavira kuti unhu uhwu hauna hanya, uye hazvibviri kuhuwana muhupenyu. Zvisinei, kunewo vatsigiri vekuti munhu wese ane chekuita chinotyisa, izvo zvinoreva kuti kufambiswa kwechirisma inoratidzira, kunyange zvazvo zvisiri nyore, asi chaizvoizvo.
Ngatiburukei kumabhizimisi!
Icho chikonzero chichabatsirwa nemazano akadaro:
- Ida iwe pachako uye uzvirumbidze iwe pachako, tenda uri wako oga. Asi pakuita kudaro, tarisa mutsetse pakati pekuda-rudo uye udyire.
- Iva neshamwari, kakawanda uchienda kuchiedza, kudzidzisa unyanzvi hwako hwokukurukurirana, usatya kutya vanhu vatsva.
- Tungamira mararamiro anoshingaira, nguva dzose ita chimwe chinhu, nokuti nguva dzose zviri nyore kune munhu anoshingaira kutsigira kukurukurirana, zvinonakidza kune vamwe.
- Tora hupenyu hune tariro, simuka mangwanani nemafungiro akanaka, fara zuva rose rawakararama, unyemwe kazhinji.
- Remekedza vanhu vakakupoteredza, dzidza kwete kungoteerera chete, asiwo kuti uvanzwe. Bvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pemudzidzisi, kuratidza kufarira unhu hwake.
- Cherechedza nzira yako yekukurukurirana, zvishoma nezvishoma gesticulate, kunyanya kufanana mukufamba.
- Charisma yezwi zvakare chikamu chinokosha chechakavanzika chechirisma. Taura zvaunofunga, usazeza, zvakajeka, zvakajeka, asi wakanyarara zvokuti unoda kuteerera uye kunzwa zvauri kutaura nezvazvo.
Chii chinotaridzika murume anotarisa?
Kuti zvive nyore kuziva mutana wechidiki muvanhu vazhinji, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti zvipi zvinokosha zvakagadzirwa nevakadzi charisma. Ndapota cherechedza kuti murume uyu:
- Kuzvidavirira pakuronga matambudziko ose hakutsvaki rubatsiro kubva kune vamwe.
- Galantine, chiremerera, inotarisa mumaziso, haazvizivikanwi nekunyanyisa, tsika dzoutsinye uye kushamwaridzana kwakashata.
- Kazhinji kazhinji, anosarudza ruvara rutsvuku muzvipfeko. Kana iwe ukapfeka tayi, saka panguva yekutaurirana anoitora. Kana pasina chivharo, shandisai tsvina.
- Anoenda kunorara zvakanyanyisa, asi anomuka zvakatangira. Inotungamirira mararamiro anoshanda uye ane hutano.
Vanhu vane charisma, vane simba pamusoro pevamwe. Ichi chinhu chemu mutungamiri, chinobatsira, zvose mubasa uye muupenyu hwehupenyu hwega, saka usaregeredza kufambira mberi kwayo uye izvi zvichakubatsira kuti ubudirire mune imwe nzvimbo.