Psychology of Friendship

Sei vanhu vachitanga kuva shamwari? Ndivo vanhu ava chaivo, uye kwete vamwe? Chii chinovabatanidza navo?

Kuda kupindura, zvinoratidzika, zviri nyore - mharaunda yevanhu, zvido, kushushikana kwekushushikana kusasurukirwa - izvo zvinoratidzika kwatiri sepfungwa dzehukama pakutanga. Asi, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, kutarisa zvishoma, zvose zvinotenderera kune imwe nzira kumativi ose.

Chii chinonzi psychology yehukama?

Muhupenyu chaihwo, tinowanzotarisana nezvirevo zvachose zvisinganzwisisiki uye zvinopesana, apo vanhu vane makadhi akasiyana-siyana akasiyana-siyana haagoni kurarama pasina mumwe nomumwe. Imwe nyanzvi, nyanzvi inoona kungonzwisisika muzvinhu zvose uye inopa kuongororwa kwepfungwa kune chero chinhu chipi zvacho, imwe yacho inorudo, isina kufarira, nhetembo ... asi, sezvavanotaura, "musaisa mvura". Sei? Pane pfungwa yokuti munyaya iyi chikonzero chikuru chehukama hwavo ndechechokwadi zvakasiyana! Vose vari vaviri vanobva kune imwewo izvo chaizvo zvavasinazvo, uye zvavanoda kuva nazvo, asi sezvavanotaura, Mwari haana kupa ... Muizvi havasati vari muupenyu hwavo pachavo havangabvumi, regai kuve nekutaura vari munzeve ... Vanopikisana mumwe nomumwe kune chikonzero chipi nechipi, havagoni kuumba pfungwa imwe chete pamusoro pechinhu chero chipi zvacho, asi vanoswededzwa kuti vataurirane, zvakanaka, zvingangodarika!

Chimwe chiitiko chehukama hwakadaro ushamwari hwaYersh naKaras kubva munyaya dzakakurumbira dzeSaltykov-Shchedrin.

Muenzaniso wekare, hongu, unoreva zvakanyanya kumurume, saka kutaura "unyanzvi" ushamwari, uyo ane maitiro epfungwa anobva mukutsinhanisa kwechokwadi chechokwadi uye kuongorora kwayo, kureva, huwandu hwekunzwa , nepamusoro pekufunga ...

Ndiyo maitiro epfungwa yehukama hwevakadzi! Fuck the logic! Kuhero nemashoko! Manzwiro nemanzwiro ndeye alpha uye omega ye psychology yevakadzi! Uye ushamwari huri pakati pavo ndewokutanga dutu remanzwiro uye maitiro e halftones. Vakadzi kwemaawa vakagadzirira kukurukura chimwe chinhu chakakosha kwavari, chimwe chinhu icho munhu haazombofungi muupenyu hwake!

Chimwe chiitiko chehukama hwakadaro ndiMukadzi anofadza mune zvese uye Lady ari kungofadza kubva kuGogol's Dead Souls.