Imba isina kufara inzvimbo yakaipa yemwana, iyo inokanganisa zvakanyanya pfungwa yake yehutano uye hupfumi hwevanhu. Nezvinetso zvakadaro, kurambana ndicho chete chisarudzo chakanaka, asi kuvepo kwevana vaduku vanowanzobatanidza nzira. Nzira yekutonga mune imwe nyika inodzivirira zvido uye kodzero dzevagari vechidiki zvikuru.
Nzira yekukumbira sei kurambana kana kune vana vaduku?
Iyi mamiriro ezvinhu haisi kupa mazuva makumi matatu ekuregererwa kwekuroorana kuburikidza nemabasa ekurekodha (kurerekora) mabasa ehurumende (status registry office, RAGS). Kurambana kwevakaroorana vane vana vaduku kunoitwa zvikurukuru nedare. Shanduro yakareruka inobvumirwa chete kana mumwe wevatori vechikamu achiita izvi:
- kunyangarika;
- asingakwanisi;
- iye ari mutirongo (kubva pamakore matatu).
Mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kuiswa kwekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku kunoitwa nedare reruwa. Chero yese yevadzidzi vanogona kuva muvambi wehutano kana mwana mumwe nomumwe ane gore rinopfuura gore mumhuri. Chirevo kubva kumurume hachina kugamuchirwa kana akasarudza kuparadzana nemudzimai wake ane pamuviri kana kuti asiye sababa vemucheche. Tichafanira kumirira kusvikira mwana achitendeuka kwemwedzi gumi nemaviri kana kuwana mvumo yemukadzi kumugadziro wekuroorana.
Murairo wekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku
Mutemo unopa maitiro akasiyana ekuparadzanisa nekukurumidzira, saka mativi ose maviri anopiwa nguva yekukurukurirana uye nekufunga. Nzira yekurambana muhupo hwemwana muduku inotora mwedzi mumwechete, asi kazhinji inotora kusvika kumwedzi mitanhatu. Munguva iyi, vashandi vanofanirwa kugadzirisa matongerwo edzimba nehupfumi, kutora chisarudzo chekuchengetedzwa.
Kurambana kunoitika sei kana pane vana vaduku:
- Kugadzirira kwemagwaro ose anodiwa.
- Kunyora uye kuisa chikumbiro.
- Kufunga kwezvakataurwa nemunyori wezvemitemo.
- Ipa hurukuro kana gwaro racho richibvumirwa. Dzimwe nguva dzimwe misangano yakawanda inodzokorora inodiwa.
- Kunyora kwechiketi.
Zvinyorwa zvekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku
Kuti munyori wedare agamuchire uye agamuchire kushanda, zvakakosha kugadzirira mapepa akawedzerwa. Paunenge uchikumbira kurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku uye kopi yacho, zvinyorwa zvinotevera zvakabatanidzwa pariri:
- risiti yebhadharo yakakwana yebhadharo inopiwa;
- iyo yepakutanga uye kopi yechiratidzo chekupinda muwanano yezvino;
- chikwata kubva mubhuku reimba yekunyora;
- pasipoti uye akadzipa kopi;
- uchapupu (pakutanga) pamusoro pokuzvarwa kwevana vose varipo.
Mutongi anogonawo kukumbira kutsanangurira madhesi: yekugadzirisa pfuma, mitsara yezvokurapa nevamwe. Kurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku inzira yakakwana uye yakaoma, panguva iyo mutemo wepamutemo unofanirwa kufungisisa uye kuchengetedza zvinodiwa zvevana vose. Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinoda kuziva mamiriro emari emupomera uye mumiririri, kusimbisa hukama hwavo hwehutano uye maitiro avo.
Chikumbiro chokurambana nemwana muduku - samuenzaniso
Mumutemo hapana mitemo yakasimba yekunyorwa kwebhuku rakanyorwa rakanyorwa. Mutsara wekuda kurambana nevana (muenzaniso wezasi) inofanira kuva nemashoko:
- zita, kero yedare;
- deta pamusoro pomupomerwa, muchengeti (kubhadhara, nzvimbo yekugara chaiyo, zita, zita rezita uye patronymic);
- zuva, nzvimbo yemuchato;
- vavariro dzekuparadzanisa;
- zvikonzero nei iwe usingagoni kurambana usina kutongwa;
- ruzivo rwemwana mumwe nomumwe;
- kutsanangurwa kwekubatana kwakagadziriswa pfuma;
- kurondedzera kushandiswa kwekutanga kwekurambana;
- runyorwa rwemashoko akabatanidzwa;
- signature;
- musi.
Kurambana muhupo hwezvikwereti uye vana vaduku
Apo imba inobatanidza inotengwa pamari, zvikwereti zvepfuma zvakakamurwa zvakaenzana. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kurambana, kana kune mwana muduku, zvinokanganisa chete chikamu chemugove wega wega anotora chikwereti. Nekupedzisira kugoverwa kwekugara nzvimbo uye mari yekubhadhara, bhangi inofanirwa kuti ndiani achava mutariri. Kana imba ye studio inotengwa pachikwereti , chikamu hachina kuitwa. Rinoramba riripo kuti urarame mubereki uyo ane basa revana. Wechirwedzi wechipiri anogona kudzingwa nemaripo, kana mudzimai wekare nemurume ari kutsvaga dzimwe nzira dzokugadzirisa dambudziko racho.
Kuwirirana kune vamwe muhupo hwevana vaduku
Kazhinji vaviri vakaroorana vanoziva kuti hazvirevi kuramba vachigara pamwe chete. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, nzira yekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku varikurumidza kukurumidza. Murume nemukadzi vanoita chibvumirano pamusoro pekugoverwa kwepfuma nguva isati yasvika uye vauya kubvumirano pamusoro pekuchengetedza uye alimony. Sutu yekubatana inokwidzwa, uye kurambana kuburikidza nekusarudza pamwe chete pamberi pevana vaduku kunosimbiswa munyaya yedare renyika. Zvose zvakagadziriswa uye kuwana chiziviso cheizvi zvinotora anenge mwedzi.
Ndivanaani vana vaduku vanoramba vachirambana?
Mubvunzo uyu unofungidzirwa unofungidzirwa zvichienderana nemhando dzakawanda. Mitemo yekurambana muhupo hwevana vaduku vane uchapupu hwokuti vabereki vose vane kodzero imwechete yekurera vagari venhaka. Ichisarudzo chekuchengetedza chinoitwa pane zvinoenderana nezvinhu zvinotevera:
- chido chababa naamai kuti vagare nemwana;
- zvinhu zvingangodaro;
- muviri, mupfungwa uye utano hwepfungwa hwevabereki;
- kukanganisa kupindwa muropa, kushandiswa kwechisimba nemumwe wevatarisi;
- mamiriro ezvinhu (hama, shamwari).
Kana kurambana kuri pamberi pevana vaduku zvakaitwa nepamutemo kuburikidza nekubatanidzwa kwevechiri kuyaruka (makore anopfuura gumi), vatongi nevasangano vanochengetedza vachabvunza, kuti ndiani uye nei vachida kurarama. Vana ndivo vakawanda vakasara kumukadzi maererano neChishopu cheZvito zveMwana (chakasayirwa musi waNovember 20, 1959). Inotaura kuti vana vaduku havafanire kuparadzana kubva kuna amai vavo nezvisizvo zvisingawanzoitiki.