Munharaunda yemazuva ano, kune mafungiro asina kunaka, apo vechidiki vanoyeukwa bedzi kana zvasvika pamhosva, kuparwa kwemhosva nekudhakwa kwezvinodhaka. Kazhinji, vhidhiyo uye vadzidzisi vanosarudza kutaura pamusoro pezvinetso mukubata nevechiri kuyaruka, kazhinji vachiregeredza zvinhu zvakakosha zvakadai sekuumbwa kwehutano hwevechiri kuyaruka uye rubatsiro rwaanoda panguva iyi. Kuti zvibvise tsika iyi, zvinokosha kuziva zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka uye kutarisa nzira dzekugadzirisa nadzo.
Zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka
Muhupenyu hwemwana mumwe nomumwe kunouya nguva apo iye anotanga kuzvibvunza mubvunzo uyu: "Ndini ani? Chii chandinoda kubva muupenyu? Chii chandinoda kuva? ". Mibvunzo iyi inokura mukufambira kwejometri, uye muupenyu huya nguva yekutsvaga mhinduro. Kwenguva pfupi - kubva pamakore gumi nemana kusvika kumakore makumi matanhatu nemana (16) yemakore mwana anoita danho rakakura mukukura uye anova wechidiki. Panguva ino kadhiinini inoshandura kwete kungofungidzira kwevechiri kuyaruka, asiwo mahomoni uye muviri wake. Mukomana anova pangozi uye asina rubatsiro rwakakwana haakwanisi kurarama nekuumbwa kweunhu hwake oga. Nguva yepikisano dzomukati newekutanga dzinotanga, ma satellites ayo anogara achichinja mafungiro, kutsvaga shamwari itsva uye zvinokuvaraidza, uye kuonekwa kwechisimba. Munguva iyi, zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka nevabereki vanotanga. Chikonzero cheizvi kukakavadzana kwemukati kwemu mwana:
- mumwe achiri kuyaruka anozviona somunhu mukuru, kunyange achiri iye mwana nemasimba ake chaiwo. Izvo zvinopesana zvakanyanya apa zviri mumutemo: "Ini ndiri munhu mukuru, saka handitendi vamwe vakuru";
- mwana anochengetedza kodzero yake kune basa reunhu hwakasiyana uye hunoshamisa, uye anobva aedza "kuva seumwe neumwe";
- Mukomana anenge achida kuva weizvi kana kuti boka revanhu uye kuti ave nhengo yake yakazara. Zvisinei, mapoka evechiri kuyaruka - yakavharwa zvikuru uye vatangi vekutanga ikoko havadi kuwana. Nokudaro kusurukirwa kwevechiri kuyaruka kunotanga kukura uye matambudziko mukukurukurirana nevezera rako uye nzvimbo dzepamunharaunda.
Kubva pane izvi zvinopesana, zvinetso zvose zvevechiri kuyaruka zvinokura: matambudziko emhuri, zvepabonde, uye maitiro. Kuti unzwisise kuti ungabatsira sei mwana wako kurarama navo, funga nezvezvinetso zvakajairika.
Zvechokwadi zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka
Vabereki vakawanda havawanzofungi kuti ndezvipi zvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka, nokuti vana vavo vanosarudza kuramba vakanyarara pamusoro pematambudziko avo uye vasingavimbi pfungwa dzakavanzika kunyange kuvhura vanhu. Nokudaro matambudziko evechiri kuyaruka mumhuri anotanga. Kutambudzika mukukurukurirana kunowanzokonzerwa nekuti vabereki havanzwisisi kuti mwana akakura uye kukurukurirana naye hakufaniri kuva paanenge achiri muduku. Zvinetso zvakawanda zvinomuka zvakakwana nekuda kwezera. Vabereki vanokanganwa kuti vaimbova vaduku vanofanana, uye zvinetso zvekukura kwavo vana hazviti sezvakakomba kwavari. Vana vanopindura nenzira yakasvibiswa, vanorega kuremekedza vabereki vavo, vachifunga kuti vari shure kwemazuva uye zvinodiwa zvavo zvakasikwa. Somugumisiro, kuremekedza uye kutendana pamwe chete zvinorasika. Imwe misoro yevabereki ndiyo matambudziko ehutano hwevechiri kuyaruka. Kazhinji kacho, vana vezuro vari kusarudza maitiro anodiwa mumamiriro ezvinhu anodiwa. Vanogara pamutsipa wevabereki vavo, kana kuti vatore mumabhanonets ose mazwi evanhu vakuru. Kakawanda pane chiito chakadaro chinoratidzika sechiratidzo chekupembera uye chinetso kuvanhu. Nokuti "antics" akadaro wechidiki kazhinji ane chinangwa chechina:
1. Edza kuedza kukundikana, i.e. pfungwa "handigoni." Panogona kuva nezvikonzero zviviri:
- kumirira mwana kuti aongorore zvaanoita (achiedza kudzivisa matambudziko ayo maanoita seanokundikana kana kugamuchira kuwedzerwa kwakaderera kwavari);
- Pfungwa yevabereki "tinoda chete vana avo vanodzidza zvakanaka (ipapo mwana anongoshanda chete izvo zvaanogona kurarama nazvo).
2. Edza kuzvitsivira. Iyi ndiyo nzira yakaoma kwazvo yehutsika. Kuzvitsivira kwevechiri kuyaruka hazvirevi kuti kune chimiro chekutsamwa kwakasimba, asi chido chokutsiva chiri nguva dzose chinopindura marwadzo anokonzerwa kamwechete. Muchiitiko ichi, mwana anogona kupindura seminiti mushure mekutambudzika kunokonzerwa, uye makore akawanda mushure maro. Kune kutsiva mune maitiro ekurwisana mupfungwa uye mumuviri: mwana munzira dzose anotambudza vabereki kana vamwe vanokanganisa, vachiregeredza chero chekuedza kwavo kuyananisa.
3. Kuratidzwa kwesimba revanhu. Zvinoratidzika kana mumashoko ekutsamwa kwomwana anotendeuka kuva mhirizhonga, kana mukunyarara kusateerera. Mwana anovimbisa kuita zvaakabvunzwa, uye anoramba achiita bhizinesi rake pachake. Izvi zvinogona kuita kuti vabereki vakwanise kutsamwa, uye mwana anodururira mafuta pamoto nemitsetse: "Haugone kuita chero chinhu kwandiri," kana kutiza kubva kumba. Chikonzero chikuru apa chiri chido chemudiki kuti aenzanise kodzero dzake nevakuru.
4. Kukwezva iwe pachako. Kazhinji inoratidzwa mukuedza kwemwana kukanganisa vabereki kubva munyaya dzavo, uye kukurudzira kushungurudzwa uye kurangwa. Chikonzero chiri muchokwadi chokuti wechidiki anonzwisisa zvakajeka kuti zvimwe zvakanyanya kubhadharwa kune "vakaipa" vana, uye nokuda kwechikonzero ichi anoiswa mune zvose zvakakomba.
Zvinetso zvepabonde zvevechiri kuyaruka
Pane imwe danho rakasiyana pane zvinetso zvepabonde zvevechiri kuyaruka. Nguva yevechiri kuyaruka inguva yekuti kwete chete mupfungwa, asiwo hutachiona hwekukura. Vechiduku vanoona zvepabonde sechimiro chekuedza, kazhinji kubva mukuda kuziva. Vechidiki vanokura pakushamwaridzana zvakanyanya kupfuura vasikana, avo vanonyanya kuratidza kufarira zvepabonde kwenguva refu ndeyekunyora uye kunyara. Zvisinei, vamiririri vemadzimai ega ega vanofarira zvehukama, kusanganisira zvepabonde. Uye pano basa guru revabereki nderokuona mutsetse wakanaka pakati pechido chemwana chekuda uye chido chakakonzerwa nekukwezva zvepabonde.
Matambudziko muhupenyu hwevechiri kuyaruka haagoni kudzivirirwa. Uye musimba renyu chete, vabereki vanodikanwa, kuti muite kutsvakurudza komwana uye kuti abatsire kukunda matambudziko aya. Hazvina mhosva kuti wechidiki anozvibata sei, asati amurova, amire panzvimbo yake uye edza kunzwisisa kuti zvakaoma sei iye panguva iyi. Regai kurega pakarepo, asi mwana achakoshesa rubatsiro rwako uye achakuonga iwe kwehupenyu hwako hwose.