"Kukurukurirana" - kakawanda sei tinoona, kana tichishandisa izwi iri, somuenzaniso, muchidimbu patinotsanangura maitiro edu akanaka. Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti kukurukurirana uye kushamwaridzana kune pfungwa mbiri pakati pekuti munhu anogona kuisa chiratidzo chakaenzana. Zvisinei, izvi hazvirevi nyaya iyi: kutaurirana hakusi kungofanana chete - ndeye kukwanisa kwemunhu kugadzirisa vatinha uye kubatana nevanhu vakasiyana-siyana, kukwanisa kuitisana nhaurirano inobatsira mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, zvose nemashoko uye nekunyora. Mukubudirira kweizvi, ingobatsira unyanzvi hwokukurukura.
Mhando dzehutano hwekukurukura
Kakawanda kwenyanzvi yekukurukurirana uye mano anogoverwa mu:
- zvakanyorwa - ndiko kukwanisa kukurukurirana, kukurukurirana kuburikidza nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzekukurukurirana, apo kutaura kwemuromo hakubvumirwi. Unyanzvi hwokunyora hwakanyorwa huratidzwa nenzira yakanyatsorongeka uye yakarongeka, rugwaro rwakagadzirwa, pfungwa dzinogara dziri mukati maro, uyewo pakusakosha kwepelling spelling nemashizha ekunyora;
- muromo - ichi unyanzvi hunozviratidza mukukurukurirana zvakananga, kana kutaurirana pafoni. Unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana huripo hunosanganisira kukwanisa kutaura zvakajeka uye zvakajeka mafungiro avo, kukwanisa kuwana interlocutor kubva pamaminitsi ekutanga ehurukuro, pamwe nekugona kukwanisa kumuteerera.
Kuvandudza unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana
Kuumbwa kwehutano hwekukurukurirana kunoitika kuvanhu kubva pakuzvarwa (unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana mumuromo). Muchiitiko ichi, nzvimbo yakasununguka yemwana inotamba basa rinokosha-kutanga mhuri, zvino shamwari mumapoka echechi yegorosi kana shamwari panzvimbo yekutamba, gare gare chikoro uye vaunodzidza navo. Kana pazera rekutanga mwana asina kugamuchira kukurukurirana kwakakwana, saka kazhinji gare gare (muchikoro, muhukuru), ane matambudziko pakusimbisa hukama hwevanhu.
Uyewo zvinokosha ndezvokuti munhu ane chimiro chemunhu-chimiro, unhu hwemunhu (introvert, kana kuti extrovert), kuvapo kana kusavapo kwematambudziko ekutaura. Kubvumirana, mwana anonyadzisa ane runyararo rwemuronda kana munhu wekuchera, zviri nyore kwazvo kuchinja pane chero vana vanobatana pane, somuenzaniso, introvertic melancholic, saka, uye mukura, achava shamwari yakawanda.
Izvi ndizvo zvine chokuita nekukurukurirana nomuromo, unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana hwakanyorwa hunoumbwa panguva yechikoro, apo mwana anodzidza mutauro wakanyorwa. Izvo hazviiti kunze kwematambudziko, somuenzaniso, zvakadai sedyslexia uye dysgraphia - zvinoratidzwa mukushaya kukwanisa kuverenga nekunyora, kana kungozvinyora (kukunyadzisa), uye nekugadzirisa kwepfungwa. Izvi zvinopesana, zvechokwadi, zvinogona kugadziriswa kururamisa, asi munhu uyo akawana matambudziko akadai muhuduku, uye mukukura ane zvimwe zvinetso nekutumira kwezvinyorwa zvakanyorwa.
Kuvandudza unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana
Unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana hwakagara uine basa guru muupenyu hwemunhu. Mushure mezvose, vanhu avo vane avo vakakwana, vanowanzowana kubudirira kukuru, zvose mubasa uye pamunhu oga. Nokudaro, kana iwe usina ruzivo rwakakwana kuti uzvarwe neunyanzvi hwemhando dzepamusoro, saka zvakakosha kufunga nezvekuvandudza unyanzvi hwako hwekutaurirana. Nokuda kweizvi, kune zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa zvekugadzirisa kwepfungwa, kazhinji kacho boka. Muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva, kutaurirana nevanhu vanobva kune rumwe rutivi rwemagariro evanhu kuchabatsira kukudziridza mano ekukurukura. Ita seanotanga kutaura,
Uye pakugumisa: zvechokwadi, unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana hunonyanya kukosha, kunyanya mune zvemabasa hunotungamirirwa kushanda nevanhu, hapana kungova chero kupi zvako kusina kukurukurirana. Zvisinei, musakanganwa kuti kuitira kuti zviitike muhutano hwemhizha, unofanirwa kuva nyanzvi chaiye unonzwisisa zvakananga zvekugadzirwa (mune mamwe mazwi, hazvina basa kuti kutaura mutungamiriri wacho kana asingazivi kubika). Uye mune hupenyu hwehupenyu zvakakosha kuva kwete kungotaura chete, asiwo munhu akanaka.