Taura nemwoyo wose kumubvunzo: "Pakati pegore, wakambove uchirwisana nomumwe munhu, kunyange nezvikonzero zviduku here?" Pane uwandu hwakawanda hwekuti vazhinji vanozopindura zvakanaka. Mushure mezvose, kukakavara-uku ndiko kusanzwisisika kwekugadzirisa, kubvumirana pakati peboka, vanhu vaviri uye zvakakosha kuziva imwe neimwe nzira yekugadzirisa kwavo rugare.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzemazuva ano dzinobata pfungwa yokuti kubuda kwekusawirirana kunokwanisika mune chakanaka, pakuona kwekutanga, boka. Uye chikonzero chikuru, icho chinova maapuro ekusawirirana mukukurukurirana kwevanhu, ndiko kuvapo kwemamwe mararamiro emhando yehupenyu:
- senzwa;
- infantile adults;
- kunyanya kutsoropodza;
- zvakaipa-bred;
- uye kuzvikudza kwakakwana, nezvimwewo.
Nzira uye nzira dzekugadzirisa kusawirirana
- Compromise. Kana iwe ukaramba uine maitiro aya ekubuda mumatambudziko asina kufanira mamiriro ezvinhu, iwe unofanira kunge uchida kubvuma nzvimbo yako ye interlocutor. Kutenda kugadziriswa sarudzo, gakava rakagadziriswa nekukurumidza, asi hapana chivimbo chokuti nenzira iyi uchawana chikonzero chekuvapo kwematambudziko muhukama.
- Kugumisa kukakavadzana kwevanhu, shandisa nzira dzinotevera dzokugadzirisa nadzo:
- pinda mukutaurirana nemuvengi wako (kukurukurirana, kukurukurirana, kusingazivikanwi nemuvara wepfungwa, mabhizimisi matsamba);
- kubatana. Itai nechepakasiyana nechokuita basa rakaenzana, vatungamiri veboka vanoshandisa kugadzira pusudo kunze kwekutyisidzira, kubatanidza kushanda uko kunogona kukunda kusawirirana;
- pacification - shandisa miitiro inogona kusvibisa ice rekuvenga (somuenzaniso, taurira muvengi wako pamusoro pezviito zvako, kusimbisa kuti inofanirwa kugadziriswa kwechiitiko chacho.