Kune vamwe vakadzi, hapana chinhu chakareruka kupfuura kunyengedza murume akaroora, uye kuti vanozviita sei, nzira dzipi dzavanoshandisa, tichakurukura nhasi.
Nzira yekunyengera sei mubatsiri wewanano, shamwari kana waunoshanda navo?
Vasikana vane ruzivo rwokunyengedza vakomana vanotaura kuti murume wemhuri ndiye mhuka inonyanya kuoma, nokuti kazhinji havakwanisi kutarisirwa kwekutanga uye kukudzwa kwemukadzi, ivo vanorota zvechido chisina kudzivirirwa uye maonero akajeka, asi havagoni kuvatora. Mukuwedzera, kune maitiro akajeka uye anobudirira ekunyengera murume akaroorwa:
- Simbisa humai hwako uye zvepabonde . Varume vanoona avo vakaroorana mumamiriro avo emusha, uko zvisina kunaka uye kusinganzwisisiki kufamba-famba mumashiketi ediki kana airy negligee, uye, sezvinozivikanwa, varume vanoda maziso. Muchiitiko chokuti chinangwa chekuchiva kwako chave chakaneta nekutaridzirwa kwemudzimai mumutambo wemitambo kana mbatya shoma yakakura kwazvo, saka tamba uchienzanisa.
- Shandisa nguva yakawanda pamwe chete, pasinei nokuti uri kushingaira sei, kukurukura nezvebasa racho, kana kukurukurirana kwakajeka panguva yekudya kwemasikati, zvinokosha zvikuru, unofanira kuwana mukana wekuratidza murume iwe unofarira kwaari, kumupa kukudzwa, izvo zvaasina. Vasikana vakawanda havanzwisisi kuti zvakanyanya sei varume vanoda kunzwa vakachenjera, vakashinga, vakatsunga uye vanoda, kurumbidza murume, iwe uchamutsamwisa zvakare kuti aratidze kuti ndiye chaizvoizvo iwe unomuona. Iyi nzira inobatsira, kunyengedza munhu akaroorana naye, uye kuva maikadzi wekugara kwenguva refu neshamwari, anenge ari nhengo chero ipi zvayo yehutano hwakasimba mushure mekunge rumbidzo dzese dzisingadi kurasa kukuyemura, uye iye pachavo achatsvaka kuramba achikurukura.
- Usazviita iwe pachako, mukomana anofanira kunzwisisa kuti iye anokwezva, uye iwe hausi kupesana kuita zvepabonde naye, zvisinei iye acharamba achikuona iwe seshamwari kana waunoshanda naye. Usangozvipfuura, rangarira kuti chirevo uye chipo hachisi chimwe chete, kufara , asi usati zvose zvakananga.
- Ita kuti anzwisise manzwiro aunoita pamusoro pekutengesa, uchiti madzimai mazhinji ndivo vane mhosva yekunyangarika kwekuchiva uye kuti avo vanovata navo vari kurara nevamwe, vanotaura kuti havangambodi kuti murume abve mumhuri kana kuti ataure zvose kumukadzi wake. Vakomana vakawanda havasi kupesana nehuwandu kune rumwe rutivi, asi kutya kwekuti vachazofanira kubvuma izvi uye mhosva zvinodzivirira kuti vasaita chisarudzo chokupedzisira. Asati anyengedza murume akatendeka akaroora, munhu anofanira kukunda kutya kwake uye kumutsigira kuti asarudza kuchinja chete nekuda kwekuita kwomudzimai wake, uyo asingadi kumupa zvaanofanirwa - kukudzwa, pfungwa yekunakidza kwake uye kunzwisisa.
- Doro ishamwari yako, asi muyero yakawandisa, waini shomanana inoderedza kusagadzikana uye inoderedza mutungamiri wemurume pamusoro pemabatiro ake.