Varume haremu: sei zvinhu zvose zvakarongeka mavari? Vateveri vemazuva ano veCleopatra vanomanikidza pasi rakasimba kuchenesa nekugadzirira zvokudya.
Vakuru vevakadzi muzana remakore rechi21 hazvishamisi: mune dzimwe nyika dzokumabvazuva, vakadzi vachiri kuenzana nemhuka, uye hapana anoona chero chinhu chinopomerwa pakuti mumwe murume aigara nevakadzi vakawanda. Iyi maitiro ehukama inonzi "mitaka", asi kunewo mararamiro akasiyana-siyana - polyandry. Uyu ndiwo mutauro we "chiremera chinopesana," apo mukadzi mumwechete ane kodzero yekusarudza usiku humwe murume mutsva kubva kune vanoyemura nguva dzose.
Mudzidzisi anonyanya kuzivikanwa wemurume wechiremera
Tenzikadzi waKesari, Mambokadzi Cleopatra, akanga asiri kutendeka kumukuru mukuru. Ijipiti neRoma vaiziva nezvekuda kwavo, sezvavaiwanzoshanyirana, asi vaigara uye havana kugona kufungidzira kuti chii chaifarira pakati pezvinhu zviviri zvakajeka zvehupenyu hwevanhu.
Pasina nguva apo Kesari akasiya chirongwa chemudiwa wake, akatumira nyaya kune hanzvadzi yake, Princess Arsinoe. Yakanga iri Arsinoe Cleopatra achivanza varidzi varo mazana matanhatu akanaka vechidiki. Zvisinei, kuna Kesari haana kudzidza chinhu, mushure mehusiku humwe pamubhedha wamambo, jaya racho rakaurayiwa, saka kupinda mahara kwaiva danho rekusapinda, asi kurufu. Apo Kesari pakupedzisira akadzidza chokwadi, akabvisa pabasa ndokutora Arsinoe mumaketani kutsiva.
Inonyadzisa mambokadzi weIndia nevarume vake
Pakutanga kwe3000 mireniyamu BC. Mutongi weIndia Draupadi anotsvaga panguva dzakasarudzwa nechisarudzo chake chokutora semurume vashanu varume panguva imwe chete. Vose vakanga vari hama kune mumwe nemumwe, ndicho chaiva chikonzero chehondo nevamwe vanhu vakavakidzana, vanofunga kuti Draupadi, mwanasikana waMambo Panchal, echokwadi libertine, iyo inoshatisa nheyo. Panguva iyoyo, mukadzi wacho akanga asina kodzero yokutarira murume wacho uye akataura naye se "ishe" chete, saka simba rakasimba bellicose rakagamuchira mashoko emuchato unopesana.
Pakutanga, Draupal yakanga iri kuronga kuroora chete mukoma wechitatu, uyo ainzi Arjuna. Apo akazoziva kuti vakoma vake vaida zvikuru nemwenga wake sezvaaive, akaudza kuti agare nemhuri imwe huru. Manheru oga oga murume mutsva akamushanyira uye mumwe nomumwe wavo akabereka mwanakomana mumwe. Haasi varume vake vose vakange vakagadzirira kumira naRuupala's simba akazvimiririra, saka rimwe zuva Yudhisthira murume mukuru akarasikirwa nemapfupa emuvengi wake.
Rudo rwevatongi veAsia
Vagari venyika dzeAsia vanobatanidzwa nevanyoro vanoziva, vanogona kufadza varume nekuimba, kukurukurirana kukuru uye kutamba. Izvo zvinotyisa, asi zvakange zviri muChina apo vazhinji vanofarira vakadzi veharmemu vaigara. Wokutanga waiva Wu Zhao. Pakusvika gumi nematatu akazova murongo wemambo wekutonga, asi mushure mokufa kwake, Wu Zhao akapinda muukama hwepedyo nemwanakomana wake, akauraya vamwe vose vaidiwa uye akafunga kuti zita reMmpress.
Sezvo awana simba, akasarudza vadzidzisi vane ruzivo uye vakazvipira, achizvibvumira kuzvidzora uye kupinda munyika yenyika. Mumwe nomumwe wevarongo vake aiva nerefu (kupfuura 2 m) kukura uye muviri wakasimba. Maererano nekugamuchirwa kwaWu Zhao, akanganwa nezvehurumende uye mutoro we simba mumaoko avo. Mvura ine utsinye yakashata yakashandisa varume mushure mekufadzwa: kubva kumbeu yake neropa iye akaita mashizha emeso uye mumuviri kuti awedzere huduku.
Imwe hanzvadzi yaMambo Tsang Wu, Princess Shanyin akatevera muenzaniso wepakutanga kwake. Akashungurudza mukoma wake, uyo aiva nezviuru zvevarongo, uye pakupedzisira akakwanisa kumuratidza kuti aifanira kumupa chigaro chevarume. Hama vakapa Shanyin 30 vevarwi vakanakisisa veumambo, asi akazove ari chaiye nymphomaniac, ndicho chikonzero kwaiva nevarume vashomanana. Usiku humwe humwe huwandu hwevarongo vakauya kumba kwake, asi akanyunyuta ndokunyunyuta kuti hakuna munhu aigona kumupa kugutsikana. Cang U aneta nemashoko ake - uye akavakira kuda kwake kunyaradza imwe imba-harem.
Muna 1908, muridzi wekupedzisira wevarume nevarume kuChina vakafa - Tsi Si. Akatanga kukoka vasikana mushure mekufa kwemurume wake-Emperor Izhu, achitarisira saizvozvo kumisa chido chake. Asati afa, Qi Xi akati:
"Chigaro cheDhiabhorosi hachifanirizve kuwira pasi pesimba uye simba remukadzi ..."
Vagari venhaka vemazuva ano ve "harem" matriarchy
Matriarchy muzana yekasiki yaro, apo mukadzi anoonekwa semusoro wemhuri, ikozvino inowanikwa munyika dzeAfrica, asi hares inorambidzwa mavari. MuGhana neCôte d'Ivoire, madzimai ari kugadzirisa matambudziko makuru emari uye eimba, asi ivo vari kure nekusununguka mune hukama hwakagarwa nevagari vepatunhu reTibetan reSichuan neYunnan uye zviwi zveOceania vane.
Mhuri imomo inonzi misha yevakadzi, iyo vanambuya, vanasikana vavo nevana vazukuru vanogara panguva imwe chete. Mukuru mumhuri anofananidza dare remakurukota kamwechete pavhiki, apo zvisarudzo zvinotyisa zvemhuri zvinokurukurwa. Varume vanogara mudzimba dzaamai vavo uye vauya kuvadzimai vavo kana ivo vachitaura zvavanoda. Muchiitiko ichi, musikana mumwe angave ane varume vashanu kana vatanhatu, asi haambofungi nezvake raakabereka. Mumwe mwana wepabonde anoramba ari muimba imwe chete naye. Apo vakadzi vari kushanda uye vane basa revana vavo, varume vanochenesa imba uye vanogadzirira zvokudya kwavari. Vanokurudzira vakadzikadzi veEurope uye America vanorota nezvekukwirira kwakadaro pamusoro pehutano hwakasimba.