Kusunungurwa kwevakadzi kwakatanga mumakore ekutanga ezana remakore rechimakumi maviri. Nhasi, mukadzi akasununguka, akazvimiririra uye anokurudzira haaziwanzo. Mumiriri wehutano hwakanaka hwepabonde nemafaro akatora huwandu hwevarume vemunyika: kubva mune zvipfeko kumabhizimusi acumen. Saka ndiani uyu mutungamiri wechikadzi? Chii chakakonzerwa naye uye sei hutungamiri hwake hunosiyana nemurume?
- Njere dzevanhu. Mutungamiri wechikadzi ane ruzivo rwakananga kuhukama pakati pevanhu, kubudirira kunotora nguva yekukwikwidza kwekukura uye anokwanisa kushandisa ruzivo urwu nokuda kwezvinangwa zvavo. Bvumirana kuti kukwanisa kunzwisisa ukama hwevamwe pamwe nevanobatsirana iwe pachako kunobatsira mune bhizimisi uye mukadzi munyaya dzakadai ndeyekunyanya kugamuchira.
- Kudzivisa mafungiro. Mukurumbira mukuru, mutungamiriri wechikadzi anofanira kuvanza nekudzivirira. Kuwedzera kwekunzwa uye kutungamirirwa kwesangano uye nzvimbo dzeutungamiri hazvienderani, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kunzwisisa kunonyorera kunokosha.
- Basa Nekuvaraidza: zvinorambidzwa kusanganiswa. Mukadzi ari pachena anokonzera mutsetse pakati pebhizimisi uye kubvisa uye asingabvumi kuti ayambuke. Iyi ndiyo imwe nzira yekuzvidzivirira, nokuti mumasimba ekutungamira musikana, sekutonga, akakombwa nemurume, uye anofanirwa kuitwa kuti azive kuti iye zvino iye, kutanga, wepamusoro-soro nyanzvi.
- Concterteness. Mutungamiri wechikadzi anotsanangura zvakajeka pfungwa dzake uye zvishuwo zvake, anotonga iye oga uye vamwe vanhu kukanganisa. Kazhinji, anosarudza tarisiro dzenguva pfupi dzekugara kwenguva refu. Kune rumwe rutivi, chigumisiro apa uye iko zvino chinonyatsosimbisa hutungamiri hwahwo uye unyanzvi hwehutano, asi dzimwe nguva unofunga kufunga pasi rose. Kuti kubudirira kuendeswe nguva yakareba sezvinobvira, dzimwe nguva unofanirwa kutarisa zvishoma kudarika nguva.
- Hakuchina kutonga. Chiitiko chinoratidza kuti vakadzi vanoedza kutora mhando yevarume vekutungamira havasi kubudirira nguva dzose. Utungamiri hwevakadzi huri pamwe chete, hunokwanisa kugovera hurumende kune vanotungamira, kusimbisa kusiyanisa kwavo uye kukosha kwekubudirira kwekambani, kubatanidza vanhu pasi pehutungamiri hwavo. Iyi nzira yehutungamiri yakafanana nekubatana kwemhuri huru - unyanzvi hwevakadzi chete.
- Zvinonyaradza. Mutevedzeri wemudzimai anogona kukonzera chido chekushanda, kana mumwe munhu asinganzwisisi nezvezviito zvake, iye achasimbisa mikana yake mukuita. Kuonga kukwanisa kwake kunzwisisa zvido zvevamwe, anokwanisa kugutsikana uye kukurudzira vatungamiri vake.
- Unyanzvi huchachinja. Mutungamiri wechikadzi chaiye anogona kukurumidza kuvaka patsva kubva kune imwe nharaunda kune umwe (kubva "mutungamiri" kune "mudzimai, amai"). Anodawo kutendeseka shure, nenzira yekunzwisisa nekusimbisa kutanga kwemhuri yake. Zvinoratidzika kuti hazviiti mutsauko izvo musoro weimba unoita, uye matambudziko ake ezuva nezuva chii? Paunouya kubasa, zvinhu zvose zvinosara kumashure ehofisi. Nhamo, asi maererano nevakadzi, mutemo uyu haubatsiri. Mukadzi anoda kuita mune izvo zvinowanzoonekwa se "bhizimisi" rebhizimisi, asi haadi kurasa bhizimisi "revakadzi" (uye dzimwe nguva haakwanisi). Kuti asanganise izvi, anongoda kunzwisisa nekubatsirwa, kutanga, zvose kubva kumurume wake.
- Adventure. Zvinotoshamisa, kumabasa, mutungamiri wechikadzi anoda kuzviisa pangozi. Pamwe iri nyaya yenyasha inofanirwa, iyo iyo isiri yekusagona kuvimba nayo?
Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, mukadzi anokonzera njodzi uye anowanzova anokunda. - Maonero akakwana ekutsoropodza. Paanotsoropodza mutungamiri wevarume, anowanzozvitora, nekuti basa ndeimwe yenzira dzake huru dzekuzviziva kubva panguva yapfuura. Zvichida, nokuti mutungamiri wechikadzi ane basa rakaenzana rinokosha - "amai" raanogona kuzviratidza naro, kutsoropodza mubasa hakumubatanidzi zvakanyanya. Anokwanisa kugadzirisa zvakare mazwi akagamuchirwa uye anobatsirwa kubva kwavari.
- Charm. Ichokwadi kuti mutungamiri wechikadzi haazofari nevanobatsirana kuti vapedzisire. Zvisinei, kubvira pakuberekwa, ave achikwanisa kuva nevanhu vakamupoteredza, uye kunyanya varume. Apo chibvumirano chekusava nechokwadi mubasa rekutungamirirwa kwemudzimai kunokundwa, varume vanonzwisisa mukadzi wake paanenge asinganzwisisiki. Unofunga izvi here? Hongu, kwete mukadzi wese anotungamira anoita nenzira iyi, asi ndiyo yakawanda mhosho yavo. Usakanganwa kuti kunyange semutungamiri, iwe unoramba uri mukadzi uye unogona kubudirira kushandisa mapenzi ako echikadzi mubhizinesi.