Apo patinonzwa izwi rokuti "kutaura kwemashoko" mumatunhu makuru emashoko anotanga kupera, kududzirwa kwechirevo: "chiito" - chiito, chiito, taura. Nokudaro, mumutauro wakatarwa, kutaura kwemashoko ndiko kutumirwa kwemashoko chero ipi zvayo kuburikidza nokutaura.
Kana iri kutaura kwemashoko, mabhuku anoshandawo, sezvo pane tsamba iyi aya mazwi mamwe chete, mabhesi, magwaro.
Kukurukurirana nemuromo uye kutaura kwakanyorwa ndiyo mhando dzekutaura nemashoko. Nekudaro, mutauro wemuromo unogona kumiririrwa nemumwe mukuru - nhau yemunhu mumwechete, uye nhaurirano - kuchinjana kushandiswa kwemashoko pakati pevatauriri. Mharidzo iyi yose iri kunze.
Iko mukati ndiyo nyanzvi iyo yatinorasikirwa mumusoro wedu, vamwe vangatove nehurukuro, kana kunyange yemitambo. Saizvozvowo nemhando dzemashoko ekutaurirana, dactyl inorudzi rwemhando inokosha yekutaurirana nekubatsirwa kwehurongwa hunokosha hwekuita nemaoko.
Chimwe chinhu chikuru chekutaura nemashoko uye kupesana kwaro kubva pamusana-kutaura kwemashoko kunowanikwa mune zvakaenzana uye kuwedzera kwemashoko akaparidzirwa nekubatsira kwemashoko. Zviratidzo uye chiso chemaziso, zvechokwadi, zvinopenya uye zvinoratidza zvinoreva, asi zviri pachena kuti hazvisi pasi pamagadziro emashoko. Uye munyaya yekuwana mikumbiro kubva kure kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, kutaura kwemashoko chete kunogona kugadzira "bhiriji" pakati pavo.
Nzira dzekukurukurirana kwemashoko
Uye chii chinofananidzirwa nemashoko ekureva mashoko? Chaizvoizvo, apo izvokukurukurirana kunoitika. Zvose zvakanyorwa uye muromo zvinyorwa zvekutaura zvinotumidzwa sehutsika. Ndiyo masangano aya anoshanda senzira dzekutaura nemashoko.
Pamwechete tinokwanisa kugoverana ruzivo nevanhu vedu venguva yakazara, vanozivana, shamwari, avo vari munharaunda yedu uye munguva yedu. Asi nerubatsiro rwekutaura kwakanyorwa, zvinokwanisika kuona kwete kungotaura chete ari kure, asi kuti uzive nhaka yose yezvizvarwa zvakawanda, nguva dzose, zvinyorwa, zvinyorwa zvezvakaitika kare kuburikidza nekuvapo kwevanhu: kubva pamagetsi ezvinyorwa kune zvitsva zvepepanhau.
Mirairo yekutaura nemashoko
Mutemo ndewokuti zvakakosha kuteerera kuti uite chinangwa chawakarongwa, zvisinei, chichakundikana, kuora mwoyo nekushaiwa kwechikonzero chaunoda.
Kutaura kwemashoko kunodawo kuteererwa nemimwe mitemo:
- Kutaura kwomukurukuri kumuteereri kunoratidzira kuvapo kwekuremekedza kwekutanga uye mafungiro akanaka kune zvekupedzisira.
- Kudzivisa kuiswa kwechinzvimbo chomunhu, maonero emumunda webasa chero ripi zvaro, kuongorora kwomunhu, mamiriro ezvinhu. Kana kuti kukurukurirana kweuchenjeri kwe "maziso akaoma."
- Kuchengetedza kusagadzikana muhurukuro, nekucherechedza manzwiro ari munzvimbo yakatarisa.
- Kusarudzwa kwemaitiro ekutaura maererano nekubatana kweumwe wako mukutaurirana nevechimwe rudzi, subculture, social class.
- Kucherechedza kwehutano hwekutaura kwemaonero, kukanganisa kwemukati wemutauriri pasina chikonzero chakajeka, kuchaita kuti mukurukuri ave munhu ane hutsika hwekutaura tsika.
Nzira yekuita sei kutaura kwemashoko zvinobudirira?
Ani naani anoda chero nzira ipi neipi yekukurukurirana akabvunza mubvunzo wakafanana. Uye zvakapiwa kuti hapana munhu ari mune chimwe chinhu chakakwana, akaita zvikanganiso mune chimwe chezvinhu zvekutaurirana. Yakashamisa sezvo inogona kuonekwa, hazvisi zvakaoma kuva mudiwa anodikanwa uye anoda.
Zvakakwana kuchengeta muhurukuro pfungwa dzinotevera:
- Kunyange zvazvo nguva isinganyanyisi inodhura, usashushikana kushandisa mari yako pakuteerera mumwe wako. Kana iwe uine kukwanisa kuteerera - mhinduro ichadzoka kwauri kwezana.
- Shandisa zvakagamuchirwa mumitemo yezvinyorwa zvekutaura kwebhizimisi, mune mamwe mazwi, zvinoremekedzwa, zviri nani. Somuenzaniso: "Kana ndikakunzwisisa zvakanaka, iwe unofunga kuti ..."
- Funga nezvemamiriro emunhu arikukurukurirana panguva yekutaura kwake kwavari. Usakurumidza kugumisa, nokuti maonero akaumbwa newe anogona kuve akanganisa uye akaparadzanisa mutauriri wako.
- Mukati yekukurukurirana, chengetedza manzwiro emuviri wemumwe wako, angave achitsvaga rubatsiro kana kuti zvisizvo.
- Shandisa zviratidzo uye chiso chepamusoro zvakakodzera uye mukuenzanisa, nokuti mumwe munhu achavhundutsa, uye mumwe munhu achakuona iwe "hausi mupenyu", postnovaty. Cherechedza maitiro eti interlocutor.