Izvo zvakakosha kuti uwane kukokwa kumuchato, uye pakarepo pane mubvunzo wakaoma: mari yakapi inopiwa ikozvino kumuchato? Vanopinza zvakadini muhopepuru? Mushure mezvose, zvave zvisati zvave chakavanzika kune ani zvake kuti chipo chakanakisisa chemuchato mari.
Iwe unoramba uine chokwadi here? Uye pasina! Chimbofungidzira zviya zvishanu zvekudya, huwandu hwemagetsi emagetsi, huni uye gomo rose rezvenguvo! Usingarevi chokwadi chokuti vechidiki zvechokwadi vachada kusarudza zvavanoda, kuvimba nezvinodiwa zvavo nezvinodiwa. Iyo nzira chete inogamuchirwa kunze kweiyo nyaya ndeyekunyora vi-leaf, i.e. runyora rwezvipo zvekusiyana kwakasiyana, izvo zvinofadza avo vakaroorana. Mushure mezvose, vazhinji vanoramba vachifunga kuti kupa bhokisi guru kunonyanya kukoshesa kupfuura enveloppipe duku. Uye, zvichida, iwe zvechokwadi uchapa chinhu icho kwenguva yakareba chichava chiyeuchidzo chinonakidza chemuchato uye pamusoro pako kune mhuri yechidiki-ndiani anoziva?!
Asi kana tichiri kukugutsirai kuti chipo chakanakisisa chemuchato - mari, saka awa kubva paawa haisi nyore! Isu tinodzokera kunzvimbo yatakatanga nayo: mari yakawanda yekupa kumuchato?
Ichokwadi kuti munhu wose anopindura mubvunzo uyu akazvimiririra, achitanga kubva kumarongerwo ake, maitiro ezvimwe zvinhu, chiyero chekuyanana nevasikana vasati varoorana uye kunyange mafungiro ake pachake kune avo. Zvinotaridzika kuti zvose zvinonzwisisika. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, kuti nenzira imwe neimwe aone mari yacho, iyo isiri kunyadzisa kupa, zvingava zvakanaka kutungamirirwa nemitengo uye kunyange yakawanda yevakaroorana ivo pachavo vanopedza muchato. Unorevei? Mari yekubhadhara yemabiko kune mumwe mugoveri ndiyo mari yekudya nekumwa. Kana iwe uchida chaizvo kupa chipo chemuchato, ipapo nemari icharatidzwa semutengo wetafura pamwe chete ne50% kubva kumusoro, uye kana wakaronga zvakawanda, zvino ndinofunga kuti izvi zvinongofadza chete avo vanoita mhemberero.
Nokudaro, kana iwe uchiziva nezvekubhadharwa kwevechidiki kune kamufurati kana muresitorendi, saka hazvisi zvakaoma kusarudza kuti vangapa mari yakawanda sei pamuchato. Asi usakanganwa pamusoro pemari ipi zvayo inowedzera! Vatasvi vakawanda kwazvo vanoisa muhopepepu yakachengetwa kusvika kune yakasara uye vakasiyiwa bedzi muhomwe muhomwe dzavo, vachitarisana nemari ye "mari yevashandi" kana kuti yekutengeswa kwechimwe chikamu chechato chemuchato, kugumbuka uye kunzwa vasinganzwisisiki. Funga nezvenguva ino!
Imwe dambudziko rinokwanisika: unoziva kuti ungada kupa mari uye zvakadini iwe unofanirwa kuipa nekuda kwemuchato, asi - hongu, uye ah! - zvino hazvibviri kuita izvi nekuda kwemamiriro avo emari. Chii chandinofanira kuita? Chokutanga pane zvose, tinofanira kuyeuka kuti muchato ihovha yevaya vakaroorana! Uye ivo vanozviita zvikurukuru ivo pachavo, uye vanopedza mari yakawanda pairi sezvavanoona zvichidikanwa uye zvichikwanisika ivo, uye vanokoka vanhu kune avo vavanoda kuwana nguva ino inofadza uye inokosha pamwe chete. Shure kwezvose, asina rudo uye anodiwa pamwoyo yevakashanyira, holide haisi kuzoitika. Uye pano isu hatina kuverenga mari yakawanda yaunoda kubvisa kubva iwe nemhuri yako kuti upe mhuri yevechidiki muchato. Ingozvisarudzira iwe pachako: kana ichi chiri chikumbiro chepamutemo chinobva kuvanhu vasingasviki kwauri, zvino zvichida zviri nyore kuti usapinda kumuchato, pane kushaya bvudzi pamberi pechigunwe, kuverenga purofiti yemwenga. Kana iyi mikumbiro inobva kuvanhu vakadikanwa uye vanodikanwa, saka, zvichida, hazvina basa navo kuti mari yakawanda yei iwe unogona kupa kumuchato - vanokoshesa kuvapo kwako nekubatanidzwa muzororo ravo! Saka, kupa zvakawanda sezvaunokwanisa, kubva pamwoyo uye usanetseka: muchato hausi webhizimisi. Uye kunyange mari shoma, yakabatanidzwa nemari yevamwe, inogona kuisa mune chimwe chinhu chakakosha kumhuri duku.
100 madhora, 50 kana 1 000? Pamusoro peumwe neumwe, chiyero ichi chinonzwika zvakasiyana. Mumwe munhu anofunga,