Vamwe vakadzi mushure mekurambana havadi kurara nemurume wekare. Chimiro chaicho kana kuti chichiri chimwe chinetso chakakomba, ngatiedzei kuzviona.
Zvikonzero zvehukama hwakadaro "husingazivikanwi"
- Kurambana kwaiva kukanganisa, uye iwe uchiri kuda murume wako wekare. Panguva dzakadaro, iwe unogona kukunda kushuva kwake, kunyanya kana akawedzera mafuta kumoto uye anoti anoda, anoshaya uye anoda kudzorera zvinhu zvose zvakare. Kunyanya, zvichida mangwanani anotevera mushure mekurwa kwehusiku, imi mose muchazvidemba kuti makazviita. Zvakanakisisa mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kubvisa zvachose kusangana nemurume wekare uye kumubvisa kunze kwehupenyu hwake.
- Pazvinodhura zvepabonde neyekare iwe unoda kuzvitaura iwe pachako. Mushure mekurambana, unonzwa uora mwoyo uye hapana anodikanwa, uye zvepabonde zvinogona kuita kuti zvive zvakasiyana. Muchiitiko ichi, kuita zvepabonde nemurume wekare-kare hakubatsiri, zviri nani kuzviwana iwe musikana mutsva uyo achazadzisa zvaunoda.
- Zvepabonde zvakanaka kune utano. Iwe hauna kuva neukama hwepedyo mushure mekurambana. Uye kuzvirega kwenguva refu, sezvamunoziva, zvinogona kuva zvakaipa kune utano. Munyaya iyi, kuita zvepabonde neyekare ndiyo nzira yakagamuchirwa, nokuti kunze kwekugutsikana kwezvaunoda, haufariri chinhu. Apo munhu mutsva anooneka ari pedyo, iwe unofanira kamwechete uye zvachose kurega ukama hwepabonde neyekare.
- Murume waimbova murume ndiye akanga ari nani pakuenzanisa nevamwe. Mushure mokunge "kudzidziswa" kwegore negore anoziva nheyo dzako dzose uye munguva pfupi anokwanisa kutora mhirizhonga isingakanganwiki, iyo isingashandi kune vatsva. Ikozvino iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti murume haana kudzidza pakarepo izvi, saka kushivirira zvishoma uye nemurume mutsva iwe uchawana kufara kwakadaro, uye zvimwe zvimwe.
Zvimwe zvehukama hwakadaro
Kubva pane zvikonzero zvakanyorwa pamusoro apa, kune maverengi akadai akanaka:
- iye anokuziva iwe seusina mumwe;
- iwe haufaniri kutarisa munhu kuti asangane nezvido zvako;
- ikozvino une hukama hwakasununguka nemurume wako wekare uye une kodzero yekuita chero chaunoda;
- nenzira iyi iwe unogona kuratidza kwaari kuti akarasika;
- kune chiitiko chikuru chokuti iwe uchadzoka zvakare nemurume wako.
Zvinyorwa zvehukama hwakadaro
Kuita zvepabonde nemurume wekare-kare kuchakuvadza ukama hwako hutsva. Kuti iwe uwane mukana wekuvakira ukama hutsva uye waroora zvekare, unoda kubvisa zvachose zvinhu zvose zvakakusunga iwe. Apo murume mutsva ane mukadzi mutsva, iwe uchasiyiwa usina chinhu, uye iwe uchazotambura zvakanyanya. Zviyeuchidzo zvinogona kuneta mweya, iwe uchanzwa uora mwoyo uye wakatsika-tsikwa, uye iwe uchavawo nekunzwa kusina kufadza kwawave uchishandiswa.
Zviongorore iwe pachako
Nokudaro kuti iwe unogona kuzviedza uye kunzwisisa zvazvinorevei, nokuda kwako zvepabonde nemurume wekare, pindura mibvunzo inotevera:
- Iwe une chido chekudzorera murume wako wekare here?
- Kana iwe uine mafungiro asina kunaka kune wekare?
- Iwe uchiri kumuda here?
- Kana iwe uchiita zvepabonde naye, zvichachinja hupenyu hwako?
- Ichi ndicho chipingamupinyi pakutanga hupenyu hutsva here?
Kana mibvunzo yose yawakapa mhinduro isina kunaka, ipapo zvepabonde nemurume wekare-kare iwe hazvirevi chinhu, unongogutsa zvaunoda. Uye kana kana mubvunzo mumwe chete wakagumbura kusava nechokwadi mukati mako, zvino zviri nani kuramba urongwa uhwu.
Mhedziso
Unonzwisisa kuti zvepabonde zvakadaro zvinogona kuva "rake", iyo iwe uri kugara uchirwisa. Ukama hwakadaro huchadzoka mupfungwa dzako zvose zvinorangarirwa, pakati pazvo kune dzakaipa, sezvo uchiri kurambana. Kazhinji, zvisarudze iwe zvauri kuda kugamuchira uye chete ipapo ita sarudzo yako.