Kana iwe usingadi zera rako mupasipoti, unogona nyore nyore kuzviita kuti izvo zvinooneka hazvisi zvechokwadi. Kwauri muchitoro, kunze kwechiitiko ("pasipoti") iyo yose yechitatu:
- biological;
- social;
- mupfungwa.
Nguva yehupenyu ndeyehutano hwekusimudzira muviri. Kune rimwe nerimwe rezera rine zvarinokuraira zvaro. Nokudaro, kana icho chakanga chiri kukura chisati chavapo, nguva yako yezvisikwa yakasara shure kweizvi nguva. Kana chimwe chinhu chakagadzirwa chisingafaniri kuva - biologically (kana physiologically), iwe mukuru kudarika kunyorwa mupasipoti.
Nguva yehupenyu ndeyekuti sei uye ndiani, watinoona mumaziso evamwe. Ichi chiratidzo chinogona kusiyanisa zvishoma kubva pakuita uye nani, tinozviona isu pachedu.
Mutongo wapfuura unobata nguva yepfungwa yemunhu. Uyo watinonzwa isu pachedu.
Nguva yepfungwa - mitemo yakawanda ye "kukwegura" uye "rejuvenation"
Iko pfungwa yezera repfungwa - chinhu chisingachinji. Ichi kana chiitiko ichocho muupenyu chinogona kukuita iwe "mukadzi wechidiki" kana "mukadzi wekare". Kutanga, zvose zvemukati yedu zvinoenderana nezvatinomiririra, zvisingatauriki maererano neboka rezera ratinoti tiri mazviri.
Saka, vechidiki vane makore makumi maviri nematatu vanowanzowedzera kuwedzera nguva yavo yepfungwa. Vanonzwa vaine mhosva, vakatsunga, vane simba-vanozvitonga hupenyu hwavo pachavo (ndizvo zvavanofunga).
Makore makumi maviri nemashanu ndiyo nguva iyo nguva yepfungwa yepfungwa inofananidzwa nenguva.
Kutanga kubva pazera remakore makumi matatu, vanhu, pane zvinopesana, mupfungwa "vanove vaduku" pachavo uye izvi zvinogona kupfuurira kusvika pakukwegura.
Asi, zvose zviratidzo ndezvomunhu oga, pane zvinyorwa chete.
Mwana, wechidiki, mukuru
Nguva yepfungwa yemunhu ndeyekuona kwenyika uye ukama nevanhu vakakomberedza. Nguva yepakati yakavakirwa kubva pachiyero (kubvumirana kana kusawirirana) kwemwana - wechidiki - munhu mukuru.
Kana zvinhu zvose zvakaenzana - nguva yepfungwa haisi yakasiyana nenguva. Kana pane dhirimoni (imwe ye "Ini" inowanikwa), musiyano mumifananidzo unoshamisa.
Mwana ndiye anokonzera kufara, kurota, chido, kukwanisa kudzidza uye kufara.
Mukomana ane mutoro wekufunga kwekufunga, nekuzvidzivirira pachake kunyika yose.
Munhu mukuru ndiye kurayirirwa, mutoro, kutonga uye kuongorora zvinhu zvose zviri kuitika.
Kana iwe uchida kuziva kuti iwe ungaziva sei nguva yako yepfungwa, pane nzira mbiri dzekuzviona:
- chaicho (iwe uchaziva ruzivo rwako rwomukati mumakore runoenderana nehutano hwako hwepfungwa) - kupfuura muedzo ;
- zvisina kururama (iwe uchaziva kuti ndeupi we "ini" iwe unotonga) - ona tsanangudzo yemwana, wechidiki uye mukuru pasi apa.
Mwana
Mukufunga kwepfungwa, vanhu vane mwana anotonga vanonzi vatakuri vePeter Pen syndrome. Munhu akadaro anokwezva vamwe nerudo rwake uye kusava nehanya. "Peter Pen" anonyatsoziva kuti nyika inomukomberedza uye munhu wose anofanira kuzadzisa zvaanoda. An egocentric "Ini" isingadi kunzwa pamusoro pebasa, basa, mari.
Teenager
Rudzi urwu rwemunhu haruna kupedza kusakisa kwake. Anotya nyika huru, asi ane shungu pamusoro payo. Ane unhu hwakaderera, asi anozvitsigira izvi pamutengo wekugara kwake.
Mukuru
Vanhu vakadaro vanofarira kutsoropodza munhu wese nezvose, kuvaka zvirongwa zvemazuva mazhinji uye edza kuitevera. Havana kufara, havazori zororo - havakwanisi.
Chinhu chinonakidza kwavari ndechekunyarara, hupenyu hwakachengeteka, pasina kuchinja.
Kana mwana uye achiri kuyaruka vakadzingwa mumurume, anova semurume akwegura.