Inoratidzika kunge isiri musikana, asi haisati yava mudzimai wezera raBalzac - mukadzi, asi rinogona kunge rakasiyana. Mumwe munhu anoshandura mavheti emusikana wechikadzi kuti ave nemafashoni akanaka, anopa nguva uye anotarisa kune ramangwana ane tariro, uye mumwe munhu achichinja mumashizha, anoisa chimwe chinhu chisina chimiro uye anogunun'una, anogunun'una, anogunun'una ... Izvi zvinonzi "aunt's syndrome" , iwe usingatarisiri chimwe chinhu chakanaka kubva paupenyu, hauoni chikonzero chokuzvicherechedza uye zvachose kuenda kune hupenyu uye kutarisira vana.
8 mirairo kana kuti kubvisa sei chirwere chemainini vako
- Chokutanga pane zvose, unoda kudzorera mukadzi. Zvechokwadi, kufamba nemwana kunoshandiswa muhomwe dzehanzvadzi kana shangu, asi zvipfeko zviri pamucheka unofanirwa kunge uri mupfeko yemukadzi chero upi zvake, semapfekete maviri panzira yekubuda. Pasi nemuswe unoodza musoro pamusoro wako: inguva yekuchinja chifananidzo, kuita bheji pachiedza nemunhu. Zvakakosha kuisa chivimbo mukati mako kuti iwe uchiri-kuenda-kuenda! Uye zera harisi chipingamupinyi.
- Ita zvinhu zvose zviri nyore uye rudo. Kuti unzwe wakakura uye unakidzwa neminiti imwe neimwe inoshandiswa nevana uye murume, zvinokosha kusiya basa rebhiza rinotungamirirwa. Kwete nguva yakakwana yekuchenesa? Zvakakosha kukwezva mwanakomana kana mwanasikana, uye iwe unogona kuenda kunotenga nemhuri yose pavhiki.
- Zvinotaridzika zvakanaka kunyange kumba, kana pasina munhu asi imba inozviona. Iyo yekare yakashambidzwa inoshandiswa inoshandiswa nekiti yakanaka, uye hapana mvere dzisina tsvina uye misumari yakagadzirirwa zvakanaka.
- Usafarira mune dzimwe pfungwa dzevanhu. Ndiwo "masikana" anonakidza, "izvo vanhu vachataura." Mukadzi ane chivimbo anoenda kuburikidza nehupenyu uye musoro wake wakabatanidzwa kumusoro uye anoita chete zvaanoda, pasina kutarisa pane imwe munhu.
- Bvisa chirwere chemainini vako, uchiyeuka kuti hakuna munhu ane chikwereti kune ani zvake. Mudzimai naamai havafaniri kumira kwamaawa pachitofu, vachigadzira raznosoly uye zuva nezuva pasi peimba. Pakupedzisira, kana pasi ichichashambidzwa kamwe chete pavhiki, hakuna munhu achafa kubva pairi, uye panzvimbo yezvokudya zvemazuva mashanu iwe unogona kupa kumba chimwe chinhu kubva kumigumo yakagadzirwa .
- Kuroorana kwakabatana, murume anonyanya kuda kuona kune mukadzi - shamwari, mudiwa uye muse,
asi kwete mubiki uye anonatsa. Iwe unogona kukumbira chero nhengo yemusikana wepabonde zvakasimba zvaanosarudza: imba yakachena uye borsch, asi mudzimai ane hasha uye anokakavadzana kana mazai akaomeswa uye zvepabonde zvisina kushambwa, asi pamwe nekanaka, kunyengera, uye pamusoro pevose mukadzi ane mutsa, mune zvose uye nguva dzose achitsigira murume wake? Mhinduro yacho haina kufanira. - Madzimai anonzi syndrome achaenda kana iwe uchifara, vamwe, zuva idzva, mhepo ine simba uye zvinhu zvose zviduku zvinoumba hupenyu.
- Nguva dzose uye kwose kwose igare yakagadzirira zvepabonde. Usatya zvidzidzo uye upe mufaro kune wako.