Iko pfungwa yepfungwa dzinoenderana yakapiwa kodzero yekuvapo kuburikidza nehukama hwevanhu. Kuwirirana kwepfungwa kunofananidzwa nekushanda kwenguva refu pakati pevanhu vaviri kana kupfuura, umo zviratidzo zvehupenyu hwehupenyu hwevanhu ava hazvitungamiri nekupesana kwenguva refu uye kusingapindiki. Iyi tsanangudzo, iyo inopiwa mu Wikipedia, haikwanise kuva nani inoratidza chimiro chechiitiko chatiri kufunga.
Kubatirana munharaunda
Mune hukama hupi, ihwo hukama nevemhuri, vakuru, shamwari, basa rinokosha rinowedzerwa nekuwirirana. Kugadzikana kwepfungwa kwevanhu kunoreva kushamwaridzana, kufanana. Iyi ndiyo apo vanhu vemavara uye maonero havana hanya, asi vanobatsirana. Mune sangano revamwe vanhu, isu iye zvino tinozoona chigumisiro chekuenderana kwepfungwa. Mamiriro ezvinhu mukati meboka uye migumisiro yebasa rimwe rekubatana rinowanzoenderana nehuwandu hwehutano hwepfungwa. Chero timu, boka rinowanikwa mukati mehutano hwemagariro evanhu-zvepfungwa. Inosanganisira munharaunda yezvinangwa uye maitiro, mafungiro emabasa uye shamwari, zvinokurudzira zvezviito, uyewo zvikamu zvepfungwa dzepfungwa dzemunhu wese weboka racho.
Imwe mhando yepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinoenderana nekugadzirisa pfungwa dzepfungwa. Izvo zvakaenzana maererano nehutano uye hwepfungwa (kukudziridzwa kwehutano uye ruzivo rwemagetsi) kubudirira. Pano tiri kutaura pamusoro pekuratidzwa kumwechete kwemaitiro ekufunga kwepfungwa uye chirongwa chimwe chekudzidzisa vanhu mune izvi kana humwe unyanzvi hwepamhizha uye unyanzvi.
Kugadzikana kwepfungwa kwehutano kune chimwe chinhu chisingazivikanwi, chinosanganisira pane zvinotevera: kana vanhu vakawanda vakafanana muhutano, yakawanda mikana yekuwirirana uye kusagamuchirwa kwevanhu ava. Mune mamwe mazwi, kana vanhu vakawanda vakafanana, zviri nyore kwavari kuti vawane mutauro wakafanana. Zvisinei, mukana wekuda kuvhiringidza kwakakwirira. Icho chinhu chinoshamisa, kusangana ...
Kubatana mumhuri
Zvechokwadi, kugadzikana kwepfungwa kwemhuri kunokosha kupfuura kupindirana nevanhu vasingazivikanwe uye vasingazivikanwi. Mhuri ndicho chinhu chakakoshesa icho munhu wose ane muupenyu. Kana isu tisisarudze vabereki, uye nyaya yekuenderana pano haisi yakakodzera zvakanyanya, saka tinoda kutaura pamusoro pemafungiro ehutano hwevakaroorana, uyezve, zivo yenyaya iyi inongodiwa chete.
Chinangwa chikuru chemuchato ndechokuita hukama hunofadza. Isu takaberekerwa kufara, iri mumaoko edu. Kunzwisisana kune vakaroorana uye ukama kune mumwe nemumwe chinhu chinokosha mukusimudzira kwehukama hwepabonde. Nokudaro, zviri nyore kufungidzira kuti kusawirirana kwepfungwa kunokonzerwa nekusava nehanya kwekunzwisisa wawakaroorana naye uye kunyatsoongorora maitiro avo pachavo. Muhukama hwepabonde zvakakosha kunzwisisa zvose zvakasiyana-siyana zvepfungwa dzinoenderana. Kushushikana, tsika, zvekunamata, kubatana kwepabonde - izvi ndizvo zviyero zvehutano hwepfungwa zvinotarisana nemamiriro ekuroorana. Kana zvakanyatsokodzera izvi zvakafanana, zviri nani vakaroorana pamwe chete. Kunyanya murume nemudzimai wemapato akapfigirwa uye zvinowanzodiwa, zvakanyanya kunyatsoenderana kwepfungwa dzavo.
Kuvhiringidza muhukama hwemhuri hunotsanangurwa nezvimwe zvikonzero zvikuru zvekufunga kwepfungwa:
- rutivi rwepfungwa rwehukama hwemhuri, chiyero chekubatana kune mumwe;
- tsika inowirirana
uwandu hwevakaroorana, chiyero chepfungwa dzavo uye zvekugarana; - kubatana kwepabonde kwevamwe.
Kubudirira kana kukanganisa mumhuri kunogadzirisa maitiro ehuga evanhu vakaroorana, nokuda kwekusimudzirwa uye kwekutarisa kune mumwe nomumwe.
Zvinetso zvekufunga kwepfungwa, kana zvichidikanwa, zvinogona kugadziriswa. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kushanda pane iwe pachako, kuwedzera humwe unhu mauri, uye edza kubvisa zvimwe. Chinhu chikuru chekuyeuka ndechokuti izvi zvose zvaunoita nokuda kwerudo, runyararo uye iwe pachako kufara.