Kubva pane imwe nguva isingaoneki ndeyekuti iwe unogona kunzwa kubva kumusikana muduku: "Pandinenge ndiri mukuru, zvirokwazvo ndicharoora baba vangu." Vakomana vemakore matatu kana mashanu vanowanzotaura kuti vanoroora amai vavo, uye vachavabereka hama kana hanzvadzi.
Oedipus complex maererano neFranud zvinoreva kupesana kwepfungwa pakati pemazuva emwana kuti atore mubereki wevasikana kana vakomana mune zvepabonde uye kurambidzwa kwechiito ichi. Freud akatanga kutaurirana pamusoro pechigadzirwa che edipov muvana pakutanga kwezana remakore rapfuura, asi pashure pemakumi emakumi emakore yeanodzidza ake akaonekwa.
Kurapa kweoedipal complex munguva yehuduku kunokosha. Pakutanga iwe, somubereki, kurarama nechinetso ichi, idambudziko rakawanda raunenge uine munguva yemberi. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti chirwere ichi chepfungwa chinoratidzwa mumwana zvakasimba, zvinokosha kwauri kuti urambe uchitaura nechechecheche, edza kutsvaga kubva kwaari manzwiro aanayo pamusoro pomubereki wevasikana vakasiyana, izvo zvaanonzwa zvino, izvo zvaanofunga nezvababa vake kana amai. Iva akatendeseka uye teerera kumwana wako, usamudzvinyirira zvachose-kumupa mukana wekuzviratidza kwauri iwe uye kutaura. Izvi zvichakubatsira kuti uongorore mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye funga nezvekugadzirisa kwayo. Kana iwe uchibata zvakasimba, uchiramba uchigadzirisa dambudziko reOedipus, iwe uchakwanisa kugadzirisa dambudziko iri nemwana wako.
Oedipus complex in women
Oedipus complex in girls is expressed in the deification special of her father. Kukura, musikana anogona kutotanga kuzvibata nehasha uye zvisina kunaka maererano neamai, nekuda kweshungu. Mukuwedzera, mune ramangwana, vasikana vane chirwere ichi vanogona kuva nezvinetso kutaurirana nevakomana vakasiyana, pakuvaka hukama hwavo, nokuti "saPapa" hazvisi nyore kuwana.
Kana vabereki vachigona kuchengetedza ukama hwakabatana mumhuri, uye baba havangarati vakanyatsoteerera musikana, uye pakupedzisira mwana anogona kubvisa dambudziko reOedipus, kuenzana naamai vake. Chinokosha kuvimba uye kushamwaridzana pakati peamai nevanasikana panguva iyi yehukama hwavo, uye baba, ivowo, vanofanira kuedza kukudziridza muhupenyu hwake hwemwana huchauya kumubatsira kuti ave mukadzi .
Zvakakosha kubvisa dambudziko reOedipus muhuduku, zvisinei iyo musikana, uye mune ramangwana mukadzi angave ane zvinetso zvakakomba zvepfungwa. Anogona kugara nokusingaperi mukuda nababa vake, mumurume uyu akanaka. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira mukuramba kuvakira hupenyu hwavo pachavo, kana kuti mukadzi achabatanidza mugumo wake nomunhu anenge akwegura kupfuura iye - zvakanakisisa.
Oedipus complex in men
Freud akamboratidza maonero ake kuti chidimbu cheOedipus chirango chevarume vose zvepabonde. Apo nhengo ye oedipus inotanga kuzviratidza kune vakomana, zvakakosha kuunza mwana wako kubva pane chirwere ichi chepfungwa munguva. Muvakomana veOedipus, dambudziko racho rinotsanangurwa sezvinotevera: mwana ane chido chekuita amai vake zvepabonde, uye vanoona baba vavo panguva iyoyo sevanopikisana. Zvose izvi zvinoitika, hongu, pamusana pekusaziva. Zvinokosha munguva
Muhuduku, dambudziko re oedipus rinogona kupera kana nguva yapiwa kwaari uye kutora dambudziko recheche zvakanyanya. Kunyanya kukosha panguva iyi inoenderana nekuwirirana pakati pevabereki.
Kana mukomana wako ane chido chakasimba chokuti iwe uve mudzimai wake, anoratidza kusimba kwakasimba mumuviri uye mupfungwa kwauri, saka iwe unofanira kubhadhara kune izvi uye kutanga kurwisa dambudziko racho. Chokutanga pane zvose, panofanira kuva neukama huri pakati pemurume nemudzimai. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mukomana anotanga kutevedzera zvinoitwa nababa vake nekushinga uye ipapo dambudziko richaparara pacharo.