Ndinokurudzira kutanga kune imwe mugumo - kungochengeta simba rako nenguva. Sezvakanyatsofunga nezvepfungwa, vanoedza kuwana murume kuroora, pane dzimwe nguva, zvachose kusina maturo. Zviratidzo zvisingaoneki kuti iye o-o-o-chen kure nepfungwa yekuroorana ndeizvi:
- Anotanga kukwezva, kana hurukuro ichienda kune ino, uye inoshandura nyaya yacho nekunyanyisa kunoshamisa.
- Kana iwe uchiti, zvisingatauri uye zvevanhu vose, pamusoro pewanano, anokuudza kuti haaimuoni munguva yemberi iri mberi, uye kuti achiri muduku zvikuru kuti ...
- Anoda kupedza nguva yakawandisa neshamwari dzake. Zvitengerei zvigadziro zvemauto masikati, uye musasiya mwana ari oga-regai iye atambe kusvikira achikura.
- Haana kukuzivisa iwe kumhuri yake, kunyange iwe wakanga uri pamwe kwemakore maviri, uye anodzivisa kufambidzana nevabereki vako, sadhiyabhori wezvinonhuwira.
- Anoratidzira mapejorative uye majee anonyadzisa pamusoro pevakaroorana naye neshamwari dzake.
Saka iwe unoitei?
Uye zvino ngationei kuti iwe unogona sei kana iwe usingamanikidze murume kuti akuroore iwe mwedzi mushure mekuzivana kwako, saka zvichida kumusundira kumagariro akadaro.
- Usamupa iye mafungiro omunhu-anovenga. Fungidzira iwe pachako kuti upenzi hunotarisira kuti nemufambiro wakadaro iwe uchaita kuti aroore iwe pachako. Hapana munhu akajairika haazodi kudya nemukadzi ari pamusoro pemusoro wehupenyu hwake hwose nematambudziko akaita sekuti: "Vanhu vose vari kunetseka!".
- Usazvipa iwe mumutauro wekusununguka, musununguka-kutaura-musikana, uyo ane rudo rukuru runokunda uye mazana evanhu vanouraya kubva kune rudo rusingatauri mune zvose zvese geographical latitudes. Kana iye achiona kuti haagoni kukuvimba iwe, mubvunzo wekuita kuti murume uyu awanise kuroora pachake acharamba ari kumirembera mumhepo ... zvakanaka, kwemakore mazhinji!
- Ratidza ruremekedzo nehama dzake uye neshamwari dzake (kunyange kana iwe uchizununguka kubva kwavari nekudedera kukuru!), Sezvo iyi yakareba nguva yakavhurwa nevakadzi nenzira yekuwana chero murume kuti aroore. Kuratidzwa kwekuti iwe unonyatsoona vanhu vari pedo naye, kunamatira nzira inoenda kune yakanakira mari yekusungira yakasimba kudarika chimwe chinhu chipi zvacho.
- Hazvina mhosva kuti iwe unoda kumanikidzira murume kuti aroore, haambovi uye mune chero zvipi zvayo usafungidzira kuroorana semugumo uri pachako. Hapana munhu angada kunzwa manyawi mumaoko emavhimi mushure mezviyo. Pane zvinopesana, zvikurudzirei nemafungiro ekuti tarisiro yekuroora inosara mumusoro wako nokuti unomuda.
- Pamwechete, usazvivaka iwe wakarashika uye usingadi - pane zvinopesana, kuratidza hukama hwakapoteredza uye kuzvivimba. Ndiwo hutano hwemudzimai wemunguva yemberi inokwezva murume.
- Muratidze kuti hupenyu huno huchazara nezvishamiso zvinoshamisa. Shandura chitarisiko chako, tsvaga zvitsva zvinonakidza zvako uye utaure nezvazvo. Ndezvipi zvimwe zvingaita kuti ndizviwanire ini, kunze kwekumuchengetedza mukushungurudzika nguva dzose, kunofadza? Ikunzwa kwezvirongwa zvepurogiramu uye zvinofungidzirwa zvezana remakore rinouya zvinopomera munhu wose, saka ita zvishoma, madyidhe gay muukama hwako.
- Usanyunyuti nekusingaperi, usava asina maturo uye usamuratidze kusagutsikana kwako nguva dzose nechimwe chinhu. Kubva pane imwe nguva, zvose zvinotanga kurira serekodhi rakasakara, iyo nguva yekurashira kure. Kutevera chidimbu mumarara kunogona kungotevera uye mubvunzo wekuita kuti akwanise kuroora iwe.
- Pakati pemiganhu inonzwisisika, simirira iye mumatambudziko ake, uye ngaaite kuti anzwe kuti anogona kuvimba newe. Kana iwe uchigara wakanyanyisa nematambudziko ako uye kuti ungamuita sei kuti aroore, iwe pakupedzisira unofanira kutarisa mumwe murume panzvimbo yehupfeko yemuchato.
- Dzidza pane chimwe chinhu chokubika, zvisinei nokuti munhu angatanga sei purazi newe?
- Sei? Unofunga kuti munguva yedu chaiyo inoita here kuti murume aroore musikana asingakwanisi kubhadhara zvikwereti zveimba yake kana kupa chifuro chake chechando jasi? Iwe uri wezvematongerwe enyika uri kuzvimirira here? Kana zvisingaiti, ivai nokukurumidza kana zvichibvira!
- Usambofa - zvachose zvachose! - usabvunza chiremera chake chemurume, uye usamunyadzisa iye ari oga kana kuti munharaunda. Izvi hazvigamuchirwi!
Tarisa zvaunotaura panguva yekukakavara. Izvi hazvigone kutorwa zvakare!
Heavy artillery
Kana iwe ukaedza zvose zvepamusoro, uye mubvunzo wekuita kuti iye akurove iwe, uye akaramba asina mhinduro, edza kutora zvinotevera:
- Nechidiki zvishoma kubva pauri, kusarudza sechikonzero chekuita basa rakawandisa, kana kuti uende pane imwe rwendo nekasikana wako. Kunyange zvakadaro iwe unogona, kuumba aura yezvakavanzika zvese pamativi ako ose, kumupira iye kuti unoda nguva yekufunga nezvehupenyu hwako huwandu. Zvose izvi zvinomukanganisa - chokwadi, kana bedzi akakuda chaizvo.
- Kana, mushure meizvi zvose, achitamba chikamu cheChinese chisinganzwisisi mutauro weRussia, mutaurire iye pachena kuti mumwedzi inotevera anofanira kusarudza kana ari akagadzirira kuumba hukama hwako. Zvisinei, kana iwe ukaisa chirevo, unofanirwa kuva wakagadzirira kuite iwe pachako. Saka funga izvi. Kana wakanga uchiedza kutsvaga kuti sei murume uyu aizoroora iwe kwemakore matatu uye anotarisira danho rakakomba kubva kwaari, iwe hauna mamwe makore matatu akasara kuti usachengetedze - zvakare kuti uzvishandise pakumirira pasina. Hazvina mhosva kuti zvinorwadza sei uye zvisingafadzi ndezvawe, edza kunzwisisa izvi: kana asina kukwanisa kusarudza kuti iwe uri musikana wezviroto zvake, zvimwe iwe hausi iwe! Asi, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, sei akakuda iwe?
- Zvikonzero zvekutadza kusakagadzirira ukama hunokosha nekuda kwematambudziko emari, hauna chikonzero chakakomba.
Matambudziko akadaro akave uye achagara aripo, asi hakuna munhu anonyatsofunga kugoverana hupenyu hwake nemumwe mukadzi, haagari pakatarisira nguva apo iye, pakupedzisira, achava mamionaire. Uye kana murume uyu achida kuwana nzira yekubuda nayo, anongowana chete.
Zvinosuruvarisa, asi hazvigoneki kutora mudiwa wako kuti aroore iwe dzimwe nguva. Takatanga nekutarisa kwevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, uye tinoguma nemashoko ekuverengwa. Kazhinji munhu anoita sarudzo kune uyo akasarudzwa kwemakore 1.5 kubva pazuva ravanoziva - kana kuti haaiti zvachose.