Nzira yeEtivil, kana nzira yekudzidzisa mwana kurara?

Vana vaduku vanokura uye dzimwe nguva nenzira iyo vabereki vanobvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pokudzorerwa kwavo zvakare. Kazhinji, amai nababa, kufara nguva dzehukama hwepedyo nemwana, kuita chikanganiso chekutora pamwe navo kunorara kana kugara vachizunungusa mwana ari munhandare. Asi pano mwana wacho akakura, uye yakanga yava nguva yokurara zvisingabatsiri, asi mwana anoramba achida kutarisira vabereki, achiramba kurara pachake. Nzira yekudzidzisa mwana kurara pachavo, ichabatsira kunzwisisa nzira yaEstivil, iyo munyika dzakawanda dzenyika yakazviratidza pachedu pane zvakanaka. Iyi purogiramu yekurera mwana kuzvirara zvekusununguka yakatanga kubudiswa mugore ra1900 remakore rechimakumi maviri. Yakakurudzirwa nachiremba wake anozivikanwa wechiSpanish nokuda kwezvirwere zvokurara.

Nzira yacho inoshanda sei?

Nzira yaDkt. Estivil ndeyoye yaimbojaira kurara neamai vevana, inodzidziswa kurara ivo pachavo. Chikonzero chekudzidzisa uku inzira yekusateerera zvinodiwa nekarapuz kubva pakuona kwepfungwa dzepfungwa dzevana.

Somuenzaniso, mubhuku chiremba anotaura mararamiro emwana anotaura nevakuru kuburikidza ne "kuda-action" system. Karapuz anoziva zvakakwana kuti kana asingabvumirwi kuita chimwe chinhu, sezvo achida, saka anogona kuwana zvaanoda nekuchema nekushevedzera, uye iyi inzira yakanakisisa yekutora izvo vabereki vake vanoda.

Nzira yekuwisira hope Estivil inoudza amai nababa, mararamiro aanoita nemwana ane chivimbo pane nguva yekurara:

• rega kuteerera kuchema kwomwana, kunyange kana akachema zvikuru;
• kuratidza kutsungirira nekushivirira;
• nguva dzose, kudzokera mukamuri kunoputika, tsanangura kuti nenzira iyi anodzidza kurara ari oga;
• kunyatsochengetedza miganhu yenguva yakatemwa panguva yekushayikwa kwemwana muimba.

Sangano reDkt. Estivil nderokuti, maererano nenguva yakatarwa, mwana akasara ari oga muimba yerima, aive amusiya mumucheka. Iyi nzira inodzokororwa kakawanda, kusvikira mwana akarara, uye asati asati atanga mwana kutsanangura kuti iyi ndiyo nzira yaanodzidza kurara. Nguva iyo iwe unogona kubva muimba yemukati yakanyorwa muetafura:

Izvo zvinoenderana nezuva ripi rinopedzwa kudzidziswa uye kangani nguva vabereki vakasiya muimba. Somuenzaniso, kana makirasi akabatwa zuva rechipiri, saka nguva yokutanga kubva kumwana inogona kuva maminitsi matatu. Kana akachema, iwe unofanira kudzoka zvakare uye unomutakura zvakare, shure kwaizvozvo unofanira kusiya mukamuri kwemaminitsi mashanu, nezvimwe.

Pfungwa yekuona zvepfungwa dzepfungwa nezve nzira yaEstiville

Iko mafungiro evanofunga nezvepfungwa neEstivil nzira yakasiyana chaizvo. Vamwe vanotaura kuti kudzidziswa kwakadaro kunovhiringidza, nokuti anokwanisa kutya uye asingarari usiku, achimuka kakawanda uye achishevedza mai vake, asi vamwe, pane kudaro, vanoti kana mamiriro ezvinhu akajairira mwana, saka hapana chakaipa mune izvi.

Asi kukosha kunonyanya kukosha kwaDkt Estivil nzira ndeyokuti haisi mwana wose wemashoko anotsanangurwa anotanga kurara ari oga uye pano zvakakosha kufunga nezvezera uye kufambira mberi kwepfungwa kwemwana. Mukati yekudzidza, unoda kunyatsocherechedza maitiro ezvimedu, kuitira kuti maitiro aya arege kuitika kuva psychosis nekutya kubvumira ruoko rweamai vasati vavata.