Mhuri dzakawanda sei ikozvino dzinozviparadzanisa. Vanhu vanorambana, kunyange kwemakore pamwechete. Uye zvose nekuda kwekutsvaga kushushikana, hakuna unyoro uye rudo, hakuna kuwirirana pamwe uye rudo runopfuura. Hazvisi zvakaoma kubvisa ukama uye kurambana kana matambudziko achibuda. Apo zvakanyanya kuoma kuponesa mhuri, kugadzirisa zvinetso izvi nekudzorera moto we rudo uye chido, chinodzimwa. Chimwe chezvinhu zvinonakidza zvemuchato ihwo hukama hwake hwepedyo. Basa revakaroorana ibasa remhuri, iro kuratidzwa kwe rudo pakati pevanhu vaviri. Kusabatana kwepabonde pakati pevakaroorana kunovatungamirira kune kure. Nokufamba kwenguva, izvi zvinokanganisa kutaurirana, izvo zvinokonzera kukakavadzana, kutyisa, uye pakupedzisira kurambana . Zvechokwadi, zvinowanzoitikawo kuti varume vanoderedza madzimai avo ekunyatsotarisa. Asi kazhinji vakaroorana havaiti zvepabonde nokuda kwechikonzero chokuti mudzimai haadi murume uye anogona kuonekwa nezviratidzo zvakadai sekuneta, kuzvipa mhosva "musoro wemusoro" kana "kuda kurara." Nokudaro, pakati pevarume vasina kuwana zvavanoda kubva kune mumwe wavo, mubvunzo unoramba uri wokuti nei mudzimai asingadi kurara nemurume wake.
Sei mudzimai asingadi kushamwaridzana nemurume wake?
Zvikonzero nei mukadzi asingadi murume anogona kuva mukuru uye ivo vose vari voga. Muchidiro chomudzimai wehukama hwepedyo hunogona kubuda nekuda kwekuneta nekushaya kurara. Apo anouya kumba mushure mekushanda kwezuva rakaoma uye panzvimbo yezororo achiri kuchando muhofu uye kunyura, iwe unoda kurara nokukurumidza sezvinobvira kuti uzorore. Muchiitiko ichi, zvakakosha kubvunza murume kuti anobatsirewo mabasa epamba kuitira kuti vaviri vakaroorana vave nesimba uye chido chechikamu chepedyo chehukama.
Dzimwe nguva mudzimai haadi kurara nemurume wake, uye nekuda kwekuti akamutsamwisa, akaita chimwe chinhu chakashata kana asina. Inogona kunge yakaita kukakavara kwakakomba, uye bhaari-haina kubvisa marara kana kuti haina kuzadzisa chimwe chikumbiro. Nokudaro, anotanga kutsiva kumudzimai wake mukurangwa, nekuramba kuita zvepabonde. Asi kuti kuchengetedza hukama mumhuri, hazvifaniri kukanganisa ukama hwepedyo nemamwe matambudziko emhuri. Sezvo kushayikwa kwepabonde hakuzogadzirise, asi kunongowedzera zvinhu zvose. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinofunga kuti kunyange mushure mekunge kukakavadzana uye zvipikisa, vaviri vakaroora vanofanira kurara pamwechete. Nokudaro, kurara pamabhedha akasiyana-siyana ndicho chinhu chekutanga chinotarisana nevarume pamwe chete uye chinokanganisa rudo rwavo.
Zvinowanzoitika kuti murume anongogutsikana nemumwe wake muhope. Kuita mapurisa, nyanzvi dzinoti vakadzi vazhinji vanoda kuenda kune dzimwe nzira kuedza zvepabonde, musataurire pamusoro pezvido zvavo kune mumwe wavo. Nenguva isipi vanomuramba zvakakwana, vachiratidza kusada kwavo uye vachinyanya kuvhiringidza kuti iye nenzira imwe neimwe akanganisa kuzvipa iye pachake. Zvisinei, zviito zvakadaro pamagumo hazvitungamiri kune chero chinhu chakanaka.
Kune vose varoorana kuti unakidzwe nehukama hwepedyo, iwe unongoda kutaura uye kugovana
Vanoona zvepabonde vanotenda kuti kana pasina hutano hwakakomba hwehutano uye kusawirirana kwezvokurapa, ipapo vakaroorana havafanire kuzvidzivirira pachavo zvekunakidzwa kubva kune vakadanana nevanenge vakaroorana navo. Nokudaro, zvakakosha kuzivisa kusiyana kwehupenyu hwepabonde uye kwete kutya kuedza. Mushure mezvose, zvepabonde pakati pevakaroorana chinhu chinokosha chekubatana kwemhuri, iyo inoratidza kushuva, rudo uye rudo kune mumwe nomumwe.