Kuona musoro wehurukuro inotsanangurwa, ndakapinda mukareidoscope yekare. Shamwari dzepedyo, shamwari dzepedyo kana vashandi pamwe chete ... Izvozvo zvinoshamisa sei!
Zvichida mumwe nomumwe wavo pane imwe nguva muupenyu hwavo akamutsa mubvunzo wekutungamirira murume akaroorwa. Ichokwadi, pakanga kune rimwe boka revakadzi - madzimai, avo varume ava vakaedzwa kutungamira. Zvino, makore akawanda gare gare, ndaida kungovaisa chiso nechiso - avo vakanga vari kuedza zvakaoma kuti vasarudze kuti vangatora sei mudiwa kunze kwemhuri, uye avo avo vadiwa ava vaiva murume. Saka, kana iwe uchifunga kuti nyaya ino ichakubatsira iwe kunzwisisa kuti ungatora sei munhu kubva mumhuri, usatora nguva yekuverenga.
Zvakangoitika kuti ndakasangana nevasikana vechidiki panguva imwe chete. Mumwe nomumwe wavo panguva iyoyo aibatana nemurume akaroorwa. Kusiyana kwega kwaiva kuti vaviri vavo vakanga vasina kungwarira kufunga nezverongwa hwekubvisa murume uyu kubva kumudzimai wake, uye wechitatu akazviisa pasi uye akazvitsaurira kune hukama hwehukama huripo. Mubvunzo wekuti ungamutora sei kubva kumhuri asati asati amuka. Akatsanangura izvi zvakanyanya: "Haazombosiyi."
Ushamwari hwedu hwakagara makore matatu. Zvose makore matatu ari purogiramu yakashandurwa nenzira yakajeka nguva dzose inobhadharwa kumusoro-sorochetechete - kuti ungatora sei munhu waunoda kunze kwemhuri. Mumwe weshamwari dzangu panguva ino akasarudza kubereka uye akaberekera mudiwa wake mukomana wake, imwe yemakore ose aya, nguva nenguva akazununguka manheru kusvikira kune rumwe rutivi rweguta-achiedza kuti zvimwe aone kana iye akarara chaizvo mune imwe nzvimbo yakasiyana nemudzimai wake.
Ndichiri kuyeuka kudana kwavo panguva ipi zvayo yezuva uye mafungiro efiveri pamusoro pekumuendesa kure nemhuri. Chii chakazoguma? Hapana. Mhinduro kumubvunzo wekutora kubva kumhuri yemurume akaroora hauna kumbowanika, uye uyu akaroorana akawanzoonekwa neshamwari dzangu kamwe chete pavhiki - kusabatanidzwa, zvakasikwa, mazororo.
Uye zvakadini nemadzimai, avo, sezvinonyatsozivikanwa, nguva dzose inongova mummers vanowa pasi pechirevo chinyorwa: "Usaisa chimbaridzo shure!"? Ndinoyeuka shamwari yangu, uyo murume wake, achidana zvinhu nemazita avo akakodzera, akavhiringidzwa muhute. Apo imwe mweya yakamanikidza yakaedza "kusvinudza maziso ake," yakanyarara ndokuteerera mutenzi akachenjera uye akapindura akanyarara achiti: "Manheru anovata mubhedha wangu. Uye mangwanani anosimudza kubva pamubhedha wangu. Handifariri pane chimwe chinhu. " (Mudikanwi anodikanwa, kana mumwe wenyu akawana nzira yekufambisa murume kubva kumudzimai uyo anotonhora-anotaura chimwe chinhu chakadai - chinyorwa hachiregi chakavanzika!)
Ndiine imwe shamwari yangu, mudzimai akadzikama uye akanyatsogadzikana, takasangana kuchipatara, apo mavhiki maviri akapedza mune imwe ward. Taura nezvokuti ungatora sei murume akaroora, akatanga neni - sezvandakazvinzwisisa, achiedza kungotsvaga mumwe munhu akaunganidzwa. Nokuti iye zvino kwemakore mazhinji mazwi anowanzoitwa nemurume wake, "Ndakapinda muchitoro," zvaireva kuti aisazoonekwa pasina nguva kupfuura imwe nguva gare gare - pamwe nemitemo yekuisa miromo pamutsipa wake, kana kunhuhwira kwemafuta anonhuwira.
Ndizvo zvaakandiudza: "Haazombotauri kuti aende. Zvichave zvakakosha kugovera imba, dacha, iye anogona kubhururuka kubva pachigaro chake muHurumende. Ini ndichatsvaga kurambana neni - mumakore mashomanana, apo mwanasikana wangu akakurira zvakakwana. Ndinowanzofunga kuti vazhinji mapenzi vari kurwisana pamusoro pekuti vangabvisa sei murume kunze kwemhuri. Ini, zvakare, zvirokwazvo kune umwe neumwe wekadzikadzi wake anopikira kuti ari kuda kundikandira. "
Zvakanaka, zvakadini nenyaya yepikisano, iyo inonyanya kuedza kutungamira, kupedzisa, kubvarura, kubvisa?
Zvakaitika kuti kwemakore akawanda ndakashanda pakati pevarume. Mumwe nomumwe wandaifambidzana naye akanga ari muboka rimwechete rehutano hwakasimba, iyo inowanzotarisa vakadzi kumubvunzo: "O, zvakanaka, sei kutora munhu akadaro?!" Vose zvavo vakashandura madzimai avo - mumwe munhu mukuru, mumwe munhu zvishoma , uye kakawanda nenzira ine ushamwari yakataurirana neni, achida kuwana "maonero emukadzi pamusoro penhamo."
Ndinoyeuka mazwi eumwe wavo: "Hongu, ndinoziva kuti ini ndiri mukomana. Handigoni kupotsa jira rimwe chete. Ipapo ndinodhakwa, nokuti ndinonyara pamberi paOlga. Zvakanaka kuti nguva dzose anondikanganwira. Ndinomuda zvakanyanya uye handingamboregi-kunyange ndinoudza mukadzi wese wandinenge ndichirota kumuroora. "
... Zvinoita sokuti vakadzi vacho vakaedza kusarudza kuti vangabvisa sei murume kubva kune imwe, kumashure mumazuva iwayo apo vakanga vachizvikudza pamusoro pevamwe kwete ne "suti kubva ..." asi ne "kusununguka kubva ..." Nhoroondo yacho inotiudzei pamusoro pevaya vari kwavari akabudirira? Ichokwadi chokuti vakadzi ava vakatungamirirwa neMafungiro, kwete neHfungwa. Vakanga vasina kufarira kuti vangatora sei mudiwa wavo kunze kwemhuri, nekuda kwechikonzero chakanaka chavakanga vasina kunyanya kufarira munhu. Chinangwa chavo chakaratidzwa nemashoko okuti "Kutora sei murume uyu" - pasinei nokuti vari munzira yavo here kana mudzimai kana mbukadzikadzi. Iwe uchati - asi zvakadini nemanzwiro? Ndinoda kubvunza mubvunzo wechirwere - pane manzwiro, uye kana zvakadaro, ndeapi?
"Haaimudi, achamusiya nokukurumidza, anoti anobva amusiya, anoti anogara naye oga nokuda kwevana ..." Zvinosuruvarisa sei mazwi aya munyika dzose, mumitauro yose yenyika! Kuvanzwa iko zvino kubva kune mumwe wevakadzi, ndinosuruvara, nokuti ndisati ndamira zviso zvehama dzangu dzekare dzeMoscow - dzakanaka, vaduku, dzakangwara, dzakangwara.
Hwakawanda simba risingadikanwi, mitsipa, chiremera zvakashandiswa pakuedza kusarudza kutora sei murume wemumwe murume kunze kwemhuri-kubva iyo murume uyu aisazoenda zvachose, uye kuti angabvisa sei murume kubva kumukadzi wake - izvo murume uyu aisazoenda zvachose. Upenzi bofu here? Zvingangodaro - mapofu, kushingaira kutsvaga chinangwa, icho chisingaoneki kwavari zvishoma nezvishoma chakava sangano risina maturo risina chazvinoenda.
... Nenzira imwecheteyo, chaizvo, nguva yakareba kare yapfuura, ndakatarisa kune shamwari yangu-inozivikanwa muguta racho-chiremba-psychiatrist. Ndaifarira kuungana kwedu uye kukurukurirana pamusoro pechinhu (panguva iyoyo zvakanga zvakaoma kwandiri kufungidzira kuti kakawanda ndaizoyeuka sei vamwe vavo!) Panguva iyo takataura naye pamusoro peizvi-kuti tingabvisa sei munhu kubva mumhuri? Ndinoyeuka ndichimukumbira kuti angatora sei murume akaroorwa kunze kwemhuri, kana zvose zviri zvakanaka ipapo, kana pane mudzimai anomuda iye nevana vanomunamatira.
Ndizvo zvaakati kwandiri: "Iwe unogona kutora chero munhu, pasina. Asi iwe unoona, chinetso chii. Mudzimai isfafa, amaikadzi ndivo chigaro cheimba. Sei achifanira kurasikirwa nemubhedha, kana aine zvose? "
Saka iwe unotora sei munhu kunze kwemhuri? Kubvira pakutanga, ndakanyevera kuti handigone kupa mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu. Ichokwadi, chaizvoizvo, ndinogona kutaura kuti iye pachake, pasina mubvunzo, angasarudza sofa, kwete chigaro cheimba - zvisinei nechisimba uye chakanaka chigaro ichi chaiva.