Ndivanaani, chaizvoizvo, vari kuyaruka? Izvi zviri kukura vana. Kana-panzvimbo-kukura. Uye nekuyaruka, matambudziko makuru ekuyaruka akabatanidzwa. Panyama, mupfungwa, tsika, kusimba kwevanhu, zvinosuruvarisa, hazvipfuuri mberi, uye uku kusimba kusina kufanira kunokonzera kupesana kwepfungwa, saka unhu hwevana vane makore 11-17.
Chii chinoitika mukuita? Mwana anokura anonzwa uye anoziva kushambidzika kwake mumuviri uye kuwedzerwa kwechido uye kukwanisa kunzwisisa ruzivo. Anonzwa kuti mune izvi zviratidzo iye aenda kune vanhu vakuru, uye anoda kuenzana navo nokukurumidza sezvazvinogona. Asi nekuda kwekusagadzikana kwetsika uye hwemagariro, mumwe achiri kuyaruka haagoni kuona dzimwe nguva, kunze kwekodzero, iye anewo mabasa.
Kushandisa chido chakasimba chevechiri kuyaruka kuchengetedza kodzero dzavo kose-kose uye kwose kwose, nyanzvi dzinobva kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakakodzera (magweta, masayendisiti, etc.) zvinoumba masangano ose: marudzi ese emakamuri ekubatsira rubatsiro kuvana. Uye izvi hazvina kunaka zvachose, kunze kwekuti vadzidzisi chaivo vari kushanda ikoko avo vanoda chaizvo kubatsira. Kana zvisina kudaro, dzimwe nguva inouya kune zvisizvo zvisina musoro, zvakadai sokuti, somuenzaniso, mhosva pamusoro pevadzidzisi vekuchikoro "kuita" vadzidzi vanochenesa mukirasi.
Nzira yekutsanangurira mitoro yevechiri kuyaruka?
Zvakanaka, kana iwe ukaona kuti mwana wako anokura anoziva kodzero dzakanaka, asi achiregeredza mabasa, inguva yekutsanangurira ukama huri pakati pekodzero nemabasa evechiri kuyaruka. Kana tsika, "sekuru" zvinoreva semifananidzo nemashoko ("rudo kutasva - rudo uye kurara kutakura") usabatsire, edza kutaura pamusoro pehukama uhwu pane muenzaniso wehurumende. Vechidiki vakaita sehumwe uye chero "ruzivo" ruzivo. Taura iwe "kupandukira" pamusoro pehutano hwekubatana (kuwirirana) kwekodzero nemabasa zvinoshanda mumatare ehurumende yose - iwe unogona kuverenga pamusoro payo chero bhuku ripi zvaro pamutemo wepamutemo. Tsanangura kuti munhu wese - kwete wechidiki chete, asi munhu mukuru-ane, pamwe chete nekodzero, mabasa. Uye nenzira, vanhu vakuru vane mabasa akawanda kupfuura vechidiki.
Kutanga kukurukurirana kwakadaro, tisa maitiro ekutaura. Ndiudze kuti iwe pachako unoda kunzwisisa, uye kodzero dzipi uye mabasa aanogara iye zvino ane muzera rake idzva. Ongorora pamwe chete magwaro epamutemo akadaro, somuenzaniso, seDeclaration uye UN Convention pamusoro Pekodzero dzeMwana (maererano, 1959 na1989). Nenzira, rugwaro rwekutanga runotaura kuti chero munhu asina kusvika makore gumi nemana ari mwana. Saka, sezvinogona kuonekwa, nyika yose inotenda kuti wechidiki achiri mwana. Kuverenga urongwa hwemvumo, usave wakasviba kuti uwedzere kune vose, kumbira mwana kuti anofunga sei, izvi zvinoremekedzwa kwaari kana kwete. Zvichida, ikozvino pazera iri iwe uchadzidza zvakawanda iwe pachako.
Zvakanaka, ikozvino iwe unogona kuenda kumubvunzo wezvinoitwa nemwana ari kuyaruka. Pano, hongu, basa rako rakanyanyisa nenyaya yokuti hapana demo redzimhosva rakasiyana rinozivisa mabasa evana nevechiri kuyaruka. Kunyange zvakadaro, mabasa aya anotsanangurwa mumitemo yakasiyana, inogona kuwanikwa nyore paInternet. Pano pane mamwe acho:
- Mutoro wekugamuchira dzidzo yepamusoro yakawanda, i.e. pedza mapoka 9 echikoro chesekondari (spelled out in the Law "On Education");
- basa rokuva mutemo anoteerera mutemo; usapara mhosva, zvikanganiso, zvimwe zviito zvinogona kukuvadza vamwe vanhu, kwete kushandisa kana kutakura zvombo, kusanganisira knuckwheels, boomerangs, kupeta mapanga nemajekiti ejecting (spelled out in the Administrative and Criminal Code, Mutemo weArms);
- basa rekuremekedza kodzero dzevamwe, i.e. kuti vashandise kodzero dzavo pasina kusarura zvido zvevamwe (zvakatemwa muMutemo).
Mabasa evechiri kuyaruka mumhuri
Dzidziso nemagwaro epamutemo zvakanaka, asi inguva yekuenderera kune mabasa anobatsira uye kutaura nezvemabasa evechiri kuyaruka kumba. Hatingazopi pano mazita ezvingaita mabasa chaiwo - izvi hazvidiwi. Zvingava zvakakwana kunyora mitemo inokosha iyo iyo mitoro yevechiri kuyaruka inotarisana, uye hapachina vazhinji vavo:
- kuremekedza tsika dzemhuri, ruremekedzo kune hama;
- tsvina iwe uchitevera iwe;
- kuchengetedza dzimba dzemhuri;
- rubatsiro pawakabvunzwa kana pasina chikonzero chakanaka chokuramba.
Musha, mhuri - iyi ndiyo nzvimbo yokutanga iyo mwana anodzidza kutaura uye kubatana nevamwe vanhu. Kuti hukama huri pakati pemwana ari kuyaruka nehama dzake huchavakwa sei, nzira iyo yaanonzwa kuti yakakomberedzwa nevanhu inonyanya kuvimba noupenyu hwake hwevanhu vakuru. Kana mhuri ichiremekedzana, inogutsa mabasa avo, kana mweya wekuzvipira pamwe nekubatsirana pamwe chete kutonga, ipapo mwana anokura mumhuri iyi, sezvavanotaura, "haichazoparadzwi" muupenyu.