Kunyange Aristotle akati munhu nemasikirwo mhuka dzevanhu, achitsanangura chido chevanhu chekukurukurirana. Zvisinei, pane vanhu vorudzi rwakasiyana-siyana: ivo vanonyanya kusununguka, nyore uye vanonzwa vakasununguka kuva voga pachavo. Vanodzivisa mamiriro ezvinhu anoita kuti vavimbe nevamwe. Tichakurukura nezvepfungwa dzevanhu vasina kuroorwa uye kunzwisisa maitiro ekukurukurirana nomunhu akadaro.
Psychology: loneliness syndrome
Iro psychology yemunhu mumwe chete inosanganisira chido chokusununguka kwakakwana, kusavapo kwezvisungo nekubatana. Vanobvuma vanhu ivo pachavo chete mararamiro, zvose mumuviri nepfungwa. Zvinenge zvisingaiti kutarisa mumweya yavo.
Vanhu vakadaro, kunyange muhucheche, vanoona kushaikwa kwerudo rwevabereki nekucherechedza, rudo rwechokwadi, runofanira kubva kubva pamwoyo. Mwana akakurira mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kana kunyange akakwidzwa nababambuya, vanowanzoona nyika sevatorwa, inotonhora, isina hanya. Asingadi kuwana urombo hunorwadziwa mupfungwa uye kuora mwoyo, munhu akadaro haasisina hukama hwakadzama. Kana ukama hwakadaro hukavapo, munhu anongoda kuideredza kana kuputsa, kuitira kuti adzokere kumamiriro ezvinhu.
Kushamwaridzana nehupenyu uye kusikwa kwemhuri kune munhu akadaro chinhu chakaoma. Kuedza kupindira mumweya wake kuchasangana nekudzora kunorwadza.
Nzira yekubata nayo nevanhu vane chirwere chimwe chete?
Kana shamwari yako kana hafu yechipiri ichirwara nehana imwe chete, zvakakosha kusarudza nzira dzakanaka dzekuita dzinogona kubatsira kudzivisa kukakavara uye kunyange kusvika pamwero kubatsira munhu.
- Usaedza kuchinja munhu uyu, izvi zvinoda chido chake uye zvaanoita, kwete yako;
- edza kungosimbisa munhu, ita basa rako pamashoko ako, kuti uise sangano rekutenda;
- Usasvibisa munhu, kunyanya kutarisirwa kunogona kumutsamwisa;
- usamudzivisa kuti asave oga kana achida;
- Usashamisika kana munhu akadaro achiita zvisarudzo asina kukubvunza iwe.
Edza kuwana zvimwe zvinonakidzwa zvekuzvivaraidza iwe newe iwe pachako zvakasiyana kuti uone kupembera kwakasiyana-izvi zvakakosha kune vanhu vakadaro.