Chero chero phobia inotitadzisa kune chero chinhu. Kutya kubhururuka pamhepo kunotitadzisa mukana wekunyaradza uye nokukurumidza kukunda nzira. Kutya nzvimbo dzakakwirira hakuzombokubvumiri kuti muve nerudo uye ruzivo rwekubhururuka mubhokisi remhepo inopisa. Kune mienzaniso mizhinji yakafanana, asi kugumisa ndeyomumwe: kutya kunoita munhu munhu akaremara. Kana tariro yakadaro isingakubvumirani iwe, ipapo ne phobias yako unoda kurwisana. Nhasi tichataura nezvekubvisa kutya kwevanhu.
Tiri kutaura nezvei?
Kutya kukurukurirana navanhu hakusi dambudziko rinowanzo muhurukuro yaro yakajeka. Mufaro usati watanga kuzivana nomunhu mutsva unomuka anenge munhu wose. Uye vashomanana vashoma vanotambura chirwere chakakomba chaizvo - kutya kune vamwe vasingazivi.
Zvikonzero zvekuratidzwa uku ndezvi:
- mwana anoshungurudzwa muhuduku hwake. Chero chero phobia inotanga muhuduku, mumhuri. Kazhinji ndivo vabereki vanoita izvi kana kuti kutya vana vavo. Kutadza, kusava nehanya nekutanga kusaziva kwemitemo yekurera kunogona kutungamirira kune kushushikana kwepfungwa mupfungwa mumwana. Mune ramangwana anofanira kurarama nezvinhu izvi;
- zviitiko zvechisimba nekudheerera. Mwana akaona mufananidzo wakafanana kana, akaipisisa, akapupurira mhosva yakadaro, acharamba agadzirisa mupfungwa dzake utsinye hwevanhu. Nezera, angave achitya vamwe, achivatora nekusava nekutenda, kana kuti achakonzera vamwe vanhu;
- kuzvidzora muhukuru. Izvozvo zvakadai sekutya boka guru revanhu, kukurukurirana navo kunogona kuitika kune munhu mukuru. Chikonzero chacho chakanyanya kushungurudzika, kwakakonzera kukanganisika kwepfungwa. Rufu rwomudiwa, mudzimai kana mwana rwakangofanana. Munhu anongopfigira mukati make, anoenda kure nevanhu, chokwadi, anoenda mukati make. Anoda rubatsiro, nokuti hazvibviri kubuda kunze kwehurumende zvakasununguka;
- matambudziko, kuzvidzora. Kana mumwe munhu achinyanya kumanikidza munhu, anonyadzisa, anozvidza kukudzwa kwake nekuremekedzwa, zvino zvinogona kumuputsa. Kutya kwevanhu kunowedzera zvishoma nezvishoma uye kunotungamirira pakupedzisira kushandiswa kwemunhu.
Inoratidzwa munzira ipi?
Kutya vanhu (social phobia) kune zviratidzo zvinotevera:
- chido chokurega kusangana neboka revanhu;
- kusada kuziva vanhu vatsva;
- kusavimba nevamwe;
- kutya kutya;
- kusagadzikana kunzwa mukambani;
- kuzvidzora uye kudzidzisa;
- kuzvidya mwoyo uye kuzvidya mwoyo;
- muviri malaise: kusuruvara, chizuru, swefu, nervous tic;
- kuoma mukukurukurirana;
- kusanzwisiswa kwevamwe vanhu;
- kunyanya kupukunyuka, kuenda kumusha, kuvanza kubva kune umwe neumwe.
Kurapa kweropa rakadaro, sekutya kwevanhu kunofanira kuitwa, kutanga kune dzose, nenzira dzepfungwa dzepfungwa. Kana iwe ukacherechedza izvi, ita sekutora kubvisa kutya kwako, uye kubvunza rubatsiro kubva kune chiremba wepfungwa.
Edza kutarisa pane zvose zvakanaka. Vimba nevanhu vakawanda, edza kuona mavari zvakanaka, chiremera chavo. Mushure mezvose, munhu wose ane dambudziko, kunyange iwe.