Mune mamwe mazwi, kukanganisa zvepabonde ndiko kukanganisa kwepabonde muhupenyu hwevanhu. Icho chinopfuurira kunze kwemitemo inowanzogamuchirwa yehupenyu hwepabonde. Pasinei nechokwadi chokuti munharaunda imwe neimwe, mune imwe nguva, mitemo iyi yakanga yakasiyana, tinogona kuziva mhando dzakasiyana dzisina kunaka, izvo zvichiri kutaridzirwa maitiro akakomba ekusawirirana kwepfungwa.
Urongwa hwekukanganisa kwepabonde ndehuwandu:
- fetishism. Munhu anotariswa zvepabonde nekugutsikana kana achiona zvikamu zvipi zvomuviri, zvipfeko, chinhu, icho chinomiririra mumwe wake;
- transvestism. Muchiitiko ichi, tiri kutaura nezvekugutsa zvishuvo zvepabonde nekupfekedza mumapfekero evanhukadzi;
- exhibitionism. Murume anowana kugutsikana kwepabonde paanoratidza maitiro ake kumunhu asingazivi;
- Voyeurism. Chido chokutsvaga zvepabonde, vanhu vasina kupfeka. Shanduro yake inonyanyisa kuda zvinonyadzisira;
- pedophilia. Imwe yenzira dzakakomba uye dzine ngozi dzekuita zvepabonde. Inowanikwa mukukwezva zvepabonde kune vana;
- sadomasochism. Kuwana rufaro kubva pakukonzera nekurwadziwa, chido chekutonga mumwe wako kana nzvimbo yakaderera.
Kuita zvepabonde mune zvekuyaruka kwevechiri kuyaruka zvakajairika muzuva redu. Kuita zvekuita zvepabonde pakuyaruka kwakaoma kwete chete nekuchinja kwemuviri, asiwo nehupfungwa. Kusakwana kwekuita zvepabonde kunokonzera kusagadzikana nekuziva zvepamusoro zvepabonde. Munyaya iyi, mukana wekukanganisa zvepabonde kwakanyanya. Munharaunda yehutano chaiyo kune vana vane makore anopfuura mairi akakwevedzwa, kana, zvisinei, anowedzera nokukurumidza.
Kuita zvepabonde mune zvevechiri kuyaruka zvakanamatira kune mamiriro ezvinhu uye ndezvenguva pfupi. Nezera, mararamiro akafanana ematambudziko anowanzopfuura. Chinyanya kukosha pane izvi ndeichi:
- Voyeurism (kuongorora pasina, kuona zvinonyadzisira);
- exhibitionism;
- kufarira zvakanyanya kumadzimai evana vaduku kana mhuka.
Pamusoro pezvikonzero uye nzira dzokurapa
Kuita zvepabonde hakusi chirwere. Kuchengetwa kwechiremba kunongodiwa chete kana kukanganisa kwakadaro kunokonzera munhu kusagadzikana mupfungwa nematambudziko. Iyo yekupedzisira inogona kubuda nekuda kwekuratidzwa kwechirango nemutemo kupotsa (pedophilia, utsinye sadism).
Kugadzirisa kukanganisa kwepabonde kunoshandisa nzira dzose dzehutano hwepfungwa. Mukuwedzera pakuderedza chishuvo chisina kuchena chepabonde, kurapwa kunangwa kunobatsira mukugamuchira munhu sezvaari. Mamiriro ezvinhu apo hobby inotyisidzira vanhu, chero nzira dzokurwisa hutano hwepabonde dzinoshandiswa. Mukuwedzera kune kusazvipira kunoshandiswa kurapwa kune mhosva yepamutemo.
Chii chinokonzera kukanganisa kwakadaro? Zvinokonzera kukanganisa zvepabonde zvinogona kuonekwa sezvizvi:
- genetic heredity;
- kushungurudzika kweuropi uye, sechigumisiro, kupesana kwepfungwa;
- kukanganisa kwemashure ehomoni;
- kukanganisa kwakasiyana-siyana mukugadzirwa kwepfungwa dzevanhu;
- kukanganisa kwekukurudzira zvepabonde;
- rudzi rwekudzidzisa zvepabonde.
Chikonzero chikuru chinofanirwa kucherechedza zvakasiyana-siyana ndechokushungurudzika kwepfungwa kwemwana muhucheche. Izvi zvinogona kunge kushungurudzwa kwevana kubva kuvanhu vakuru, chiitiko chinoratidzirwa chechisimba chepabonde kana hupombwe hwakatsauka, nezvimwewo. Saka, pakurera mwana, munhu anofanira kuyeuka mutoro unorara nevabereki.
Kudzivirira hutano uye psyche yemwana.