Musi waJuly 30 , nyika inopemberera International Friendship Day, iyo inowanzovhiringidzika ne International International Day. Pakutanga kuona, idzi ndidzo mazororo akafanana, asi izvi hazvisi zvechokwadi. Kune vazhinji vedu, ushamwari ihwo hutsika, unhu hwakanaka hwehukama hwevanhu, iyo inowanzoshamisa, sezvo sekutonga tisina shamwari chaiyo.
Nhoroondo yezororo
Chisarudzo chekubata Chibvumirano cheSouth International musi waJune 9 chakagamuchirwa muna 2011 paNational General Assembly. Chinangwa chayo ndechekusimbisa ukama hwakanaka pakati penyika dzose dzepasi. Mazuva ano, nyaya iyi inonyanya kukurumidzira kupfuura yekare mumamiriro ekushandiswa kwemauto uye hondo huru mune dzimwe nyika, apo nyika izere nechisimba uye kusavimba. Mukuwedzera, kunyange vagari vemunyika imwe neimwe, guta, kana imba vanowanzova nehukama hwekurwisana.
Chinangwa chekuunza zororo iri ndechokuita nheyo yakasimba yekukunda kwerugare panyika yedu, pasinei nedzinza, tsika, nyika, tsika uye dzimwe kusiyana kwevagari vepasi redu.
Imwe yemabasa makuru akaiswa muheyo yezororo ndekubatanidzwa kwevechidiki, zvichida mune ramangwana, vatungamiri vanozotungamirira nyika yose nechinangwa chekusimudzira ruremekedzo nekubatana nemitemo yakasiyana.
Chii chishamwari?
Tinodzidziswa kubva paucheche kuti tive neshamwari nevose, asi kuti titsanangure pfungwa iyi, kumupa kududzirwa kusinganzwisisiki hakusi nyore. Mafirosofi makuru, masayendisiti epfungwa uye vanyori vakaedza kuita izvi. Nezve ushamwari hwakanyorwa mabhuku akawanda nenziyo, akapfura mazana emafirimu. Pose nguva, ushamwari hwaifungidzirwa kuti hwakakosha zvikuru kupfuura rudo.
Zvinonakidza, asi vazhinji vanotenda kuti nhasi ushamwari hausi zvachose pfungwa chaiye. Mumwe munhu anotenda kuti haisipo, uye mumwe munhu anonyatsoziva kuti ichi chigadzirwa.
Mumwe muzivi weGermany ainzi Hegel aidavira kuti ushamwari hunokwanisika chete muhuduku nekuyaruka. Munguva iyi zvakakosha zvikuru kuti munhu ave munharaunda - iyi inzvimbo yepakati pekuvandudza pachedu. Munhu mukuru, sekutonga, haana nguva yevamwe shamwari, munzvimbo yavo mhuri uye basa.
Vanopemberera sei zororo iri?
Sangano reUnited Nations rakasarudza kuti mubvunzo wekuti International Day of Ushamwari hupemberera huchagadziriswa zvakasiyana sei munyika imwe neimwe, tichifunga nezve tsika netsika. Nokudaro, mabasa munyika dzakasiyana angasiyana, asi chinangwa chinoramba chichifanana.
Kazhinji kacho paZuva Rokudyidzana Rwenyika Yose, zviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoitwa zvinokurudzira ushamwari nekubatana pakati pevamiriri vemarudzi akasiyana-siyana nemarudzi. Pazuva rino, zvinokwanisika kuenda kumisangano yemitambo uye zvidzidzo, kushanyira musasa, uko pfungwa yacho inoberekwa kuti nyika yakasiyana zvikuru uye ichi ndicho chaicho uye chinokosha.
Vakadzi uye ushamwari hwevarume
Ndiyani shamwari dzakanakisisa: varume kana vakadzi? Hungu, chokwadi, isu tose takazvinzwa pamusoro pokuvimbika nekuvimbika kwehukama hwemurume, asiwo zvisati zvishoma kuti pfungwa ye "ushamwari hwevakadzi" hahupo zvachose. Mienzaniso yehukama hwakatendeka pakati pevanhu huwandu. Asi heino mienzaniso yehukama pakati pevamiririri vevakadzi pane zvishoma. Izvi zvingabatana sei? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinofunga kuti ushamwari hwevakadzi ndohwokusangana kwenguva pfupi. Kunyange zvazvo zvose zviri zviviri zvinobatsira, ushamwari huchavapo. Asi kana zvinodiwa zvevakadzi zvikabatana - zvose: ushamwari sezvazvisina kumboitika! Uye, sekutonga, varume ndivo chigumbuso chikuru.
Iwe unobvumirana nemafungiro evanofunga nezvepfungwa here? Pachedu, tinotenda zvakasimba muhukama hwechokwadi uye husina udyire hwevakomana nevakadzi!