Munhu anogara ari munzanga, uye izvi zvinoreva kugara nekukurukurirana. Uye kuitira kuti irege kuva isina kukakavara, kune tsika dzekukurukurirana, kune mazano anofanirwa kuteerera.
Etiquette yokukurukura nevanhu
Pamusoro pehurukuro iyi, kwete mabhuku gumi nemaviri akanyorwa, mune mazano pamusoro pezvimwe zviitiko zveupenyu. Uye kubva pamabhuku ose ekunyora zvakakosha kuti tisaziva huru, mazano makuru ekukurukurirana nevanhu:
1. Dale Carnegie, muumbi wenyanzvi yekukurukurirana, anodzidzisa kuti chinyorwa chikuru cheukama hwakanaka chiri mukunyemwerera kunoratidzika. Mushure mezvose, zvinogona kukonzera maitiro akanaka kubva kune interlocutor, kuumba maonero akanaka. Nenzira iyi, iwe uchakwanisa kuunza vanhu iwe pachako.
2. Kutonga kwekutanga. Mutemo uyu unofanira kushandiswa kunyange kana iwe uchitaura nemumwe munhu ari pasi pehutano hwako.
3. Edza kutaura zvakajeka pfungwa dzako, kuitira kuti usasanzwisisana kubva kune waunoita naye muhurukuro, uye, semugumisiro, mhedzisiro yemakakatanwa. Chokutanga uye chakakosha, zano iri rinotaura nezvekukurukurirana kwemhando yebhizimisi.
4. Vanawo vanhuwo zvavo, asi ivo vashoma, uye naizvozvo, kana vachibata navo, mitemo yakawanda inofanira kuyeukwa:
- regai mwana muduku ataure. Ane kodzero yekufunga kwake pachake;
- funga usati wataura. Mweya wemwana hausi muduku kudarika vanhu vakuru;
- edza kuwana mutauro wakafanana navo. Yeuka kuti chero mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma ane nzvimbo;
- apo uchitaura kune vamwe vana vevanhu, shandisa "iwe". Izvi zvichavabatsira kuti vawedzere kuzviremekedza kwavo.
5. Nguva nenguva, dana munhu wacho nezita. Mushure mezvose, kumunhu hakuna ruzha runotapira kupfuura inzwi rezita rake.
6. Ita semuteereri. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, vanhu vanoda kunzwa. Usapindira mukurukuri. Regai ataure.
Etiquette yokukurukura paInternet
Parizvino hapana mvumo yakagamuchirwa yekukurukurirana mumagariro evanhu, maforamu, nezvimwewo, asi izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe unogona kuzvibata semhuka. Saka, tinokutaurira mazano akawanda anobatsira kuratidza maonero ako maonero kumusangano wekugadzirisa, kuumba ushamwari hwakanaka:
- Usapinda munyika yekusatombozivikanwa. Zviyeuchidze kuti kune rumwe rutivi rwetambo zvakafanana newe, munhu mupenyu. Saka, paunonyora mharidzo, fungidzira kuti urikutaura muchitarisiko chako. Iwe unonyara nemashoko ako here?
- Etiquette yekuzvibata paIndaneti nekukurukurirana kunosanganisira kutevera mitemo yose yaunoteerera panguva yekukurukurirana muchokwadi. Muchiitiko ichi, yeuka kuti iwe uri paIndaneti, munzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzaive nemitemo. Ikozvino, kana uchitarisana nemhando itsva yekutaurirana iwe pachako, nyatsoongorora mitemo yaro kuitira kuti usasvike kugadzira nzvimbo yekuvenga. Izvi zvinoreva, nokupinda mukukurukurirana pamusoro pemafomu, kubhadhara kune rimwe boka, zvizivikanise nezvinodiwa.
- Ita ruremekedzo yenguva nemafungiro emudzidzisi wako.
Usavhiringidza vashandi vezvikonzero zveupenzi. Kune vakawanda, nguva yekutengesa inodhura zvikuru. Uye munhu wose ane matambudziko ehutano hwakasiyana. - Edza kuumba chimiro chakakodzera pamberi pomumwe wako. Haufaniri kuchengetedza nguva kusatarisa mitemo yemagaramu. Dzidza kutaura zvaunofunga zvine musoro.
- Kupinda hurukuro inokurukurirana, usaburuke kusvika kumwero wekuti iwe chete kuburikidza nekushandisa kutukwa kunogona kugutsikana kuti mutauriri wezvakaipa zvake.
- Kana mumwe munhu asingachengeti tsika dzekutaura, izvi hazvirevi kuti munhu haafaniri kuregerera kukanganisa kwake, achiregeredza tsika imwe chete.