Muvanhu, manzwiro ehutano anowanzoti anonyanya godo . Sezvo mutemo, munhu anoona izvi, zvinorwadza zvinosangana nekusangana nemunhu waunoda nemunhu chero upi zvake wevasikana, haabvumiri apo rudo rwechimwe chinhu runosvika kumumwe munhu kunze kwake.
Kushuva uye manzwiro ehumwe
Haisi chakavanzika chokuti pfungwa yehutano muhukama haina kuita kuti munhu afare. Sezvo mutemo, nekuda kwake, iye pachake iye ane godo, uye chinhu chegodo rake. Kushuva kunogona kuva varume nevakadzi uye kunoratidzika kunowanzove kwakangofanana:
- godo shamwari inotsvaka kudzora kukurukurirana kwemudiwa pamusoro pefoni uye mumagariro evanhu;
- ane godo nguva dzose nguva achiedza kuwana nhoroondo yekupi uye ane nani hafu yake;
- munhu ane godo anorambidza kukurukurirana neshamwari ipi zvayo yevasikana;
- uyo anonyanya kushungurudzika negodo, kazhinji anowedzera zvipenga kubva pakutanga kana kuronga "kuongorora".
Vamwe vanhu vanorega nyore nyore kuvapo kwevanhu vane godo vari pedyo navo, vamwe vakadaro kutonga kuchavhiringidza zvikuru. Haasi munhu wose anokwanisa kutsungirira maitiro akadaro pamusoro pake.
Nzira yekubvisa sei manzwiro edzimba?
Kushuva uye manzwiro ehutano kunobatsira kururamisa. Izvi zvinoda huwandu hwakawanda hwezviyero:
- kuita zvemitambo, kutaridzika, kuwedzera kuva nechivimbo mukati mako , kuziva - vanhu vakaita sawe vachakoshesa chero munhu;
- bvumirana nemumwe wako kuti iwe haunganyengeri, uye kana mumwe munhu achidanana nomumwe, ipapo kubvuma kunofanira kutevera;
- Tsanangura kune waunofambidzana yako chinhu ichi uye kukumbira iwe kuti ubatsire - funga pamusoro pezwi rekuti iwe unofanirwa kutaurira kana iwe "uri kutengesa".
Zvakanakisisa zvezvose, nemubvunzo wekukunda pamusoro pechiratidzo chekuita, tendeukira kumudzidzisi akanaka anogona kuwana nzira yakakodzera iwe kwezvikamu zvakati.