Usati watanga kuverenga mazano ekuti unganyaradza sei mwana, zvipindure pachako kumubvunzo, asi iwe unofanirwa kumugadzirisa pasi? Kuchema chiratidzo chekutaura, nokuti mwana haazive kutaura. Kuvonga nemanzwi aya, kuedza hurongwa hwevhundu hwevabereki uye dzimwe nguva vavakidzani, mwana anoita mapapu ake, anowedzera simba, anowedzera ropa neropa. Maminitsi mashanu-gumi achingochema pasina chikonzero. Mukuwedzera, vabereki havana kuona chikonzero, asi mwana ane: amai vakapinda kure, vanoda kupa, vane nzara, inguva yekushandura chidimbu, nezvimwewo. Asi pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo mwana anonyadzisa zvakadaro zvokuti amai vakagadzirira kuenda kune chero kupi zvako kubvumirana, kungofadzwa nekunyarara. Chifuva chiri nyore kudzikama: maoko namai namazamu vanoita zvishamiso. Asi vana vakwegura vari zvishoma zvakaoma, asi kuchine gadzirisa dambudziko racho.
Tinovhiringidza, kutaura, kukurudzira
Kazhinji kacho, vabereki vanovhiringidzika nzira yekudzimisa mwana asati avata, nokuti vazhinji vanyengeri vanoitika chaizvo panguva ino. Kana mwana wacho asina makore anopfuura 5-6, iwe unogona kumuudza zvakanyanya nezveimwe nyaya inokosha, iyo, nokuda kwekuchema, haazove nenguva yekuita. Somuenzaniso, chiyeuchidza kuti aizoteerera nhau. "Ngatichegei zvishoma gare gare, uye iko zvino ndichakuverengera iwe." Kazhinji vana vari pasi, uye zvino vanokanganwa "kuchema". Imwe nzira ndeyokuti akumbire mwana kuti acheme zvishoma kuti baba vasazomuka kana imbwa isingatyi. Apo mwana anoteerera, kuchema kwechokwadi kunopera, uye "izwi rekuita" rinenge risina maturo. Vacheche vanogona kusunungurwa nechikumbiro chekuchema nokukurumidza kuti vapedze mangwanani. Nenzira yakawanda, nzira yekusimbisa mwana ari kuchema paanonyengedza ichaita kuti munhu afunge. Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokutsvaga uye kusapfuurira pamusoro pechidiki chiduku.
Kusava nehanya dzimwe nguva zvakare inzira inobatsira, asi munyaya iyi munhu anofanira kunge ane chivimbo chakasimba chokuti caprice inonyanya kushamisika, uye kwete chikumbiro chekutora chikamu nekutarisira.
Kazhinji unogona kunzwa kuti vabereki vanorevei kuti mwana "ape kuchinja" kumuti, pane davi rake raainge akabatwa naro, kusvika pasi raakawira naro. Nzira yacho inoshanda kusinganzwisisiki - mwana anovhiringidzwa nekurova muti kana pasi, asi kwete chete "vanogona kukanganisa". Mukufunga kwomwana, mafungiro akadai anogona kugadziriswa, kubva kune vamwe vana vanotambura munguva yemberi.
"Kwete muzwi rimwe .."
Apo mazwi uye kunyengetedza hazvishande, unogona kuedza kuvhara tei yevana pamishonga. Migumisiro yakanaka inopiwa chamomile uye linden, asi mishonga inogona kupiwa kumwana kubva pamwedzi mina. Zvakanaka kugadzirisa hurongwa hwehutsinye hwemwana anonyanyisa kunobatsirwa nekuchenesa kwevana (sechinhu chisarudzo - nekaini yepine). Kana pasina kutengesa, ipapo mubhagi unogona kuwedzera mafuta anonyaradza anoenderana nevana vane makore matanhatu. Kukurudzira kusununguka uye kubviswa
Kana mamiriro ekumanikidzika ndeaya anogara kwenguva refu uye anogara aripo, chiremba wevana anokwanisa kupa mitezo yevana, izvo zvichabatsira kugadzirisa basa remagetsi emagetsi. Usateerera mazano evamwe shamwari pamusoro pezvinoita kuti vana vanyarare uye mune zviyero zvipi. Nzira yehutano isingasviki uye yakanyanyisa kunetseka yemwana ndiyo nzira yakaoma, saka, chiremba chete anofanira kupa mishonga. Kakawanda vana vanozvarwa vanorayirwa dormykids, uye vana vakwegura kupfuura gore vanorayirwa notte. Pharmacies zvakare ane mari yekuunganidza vana, iyo inogona kupiwa kubva pamwedzi miviri kusvika mitatu.
Yeuka, zvaunoita pakuchema zvinofanira kuva zvakakwana: nokuti kuchema kwako munguva yemberi mwana achaita sezvawakamunyaradza nhasi.