Nzira dzekunyengetedza mukukakavadzana ndeimwe yezvinhu zvinokosha zvekutaurirana. Asi, iwe unobvumirana, dzimwe nguva chido chakasimba chekuratidza chimwe chinhu chinotitadzisa kunzwa uye kunzwa hangu mutauriri, uyo anewo maonero ake uye mavimbiso ake. Nezvipi zvinyorwa zvepfungwa zvinogona kuuya mukana wekunyengetedza, uye kuti ungapopotedzana sei, iwe uchadzidza kubva munyaya ino.
Nzira dzinoshanda dzokunyengetedza mukukakavadzana:
- "Mhinduro dzakanaka". Iyi nzira ndeimwe yezvinotendwa zvakanyanya mune zvepfungwa. Iko kukuvaka hurukuro chinhu chikuru chekubvumidzwa kwekutanga. Tanga kutendeseka kwako nemibvunzo yakadaro uye zvinyorwa zvichaita kuti mhinduro inopindurwa kubva kune interlocutor. Munhu anenge achida kugamuchira pfungwa dzako, zviri nyore kubvumirana nemafungiro anotevera.
- Pane imwe nzira yakafanana - "salami". Pakutanga, iwe unoda kuwana chibvumirano munyaya inokosha zvikuru. Mushure maizvozvi, unogona kuenderera kune mamwe mashoko kuitira kuti uwane kubvumirana kwakakwana.
- Imwe yenzira dzepakutanga dzekunyengetedza ndeye "rhetoric". Inotanga nemubvumo wezvataurwa zvemudiwa, asi iyo interlocutor inonyatsoratidza chikamu chikuru chehwamanda - kusimba kwakasimba kupikisa.
- "Mhirizhonga mbiri". Iyi nzira yakakwana yekunyengetedza shamwari yakangwara. Kuti uwane chivimbo chemukati wekutaurirana, iwe unoratidzira kwaari kwete chete akasimba, asiwo maonero asina simba emafungiro ake. Wakasimba, zvakasikwa, anofanira kutonga.
- "Kushora." Iwe unofanirwa kuparadzanisa kubva pamutauriri we interlocutor zvakashata zvinokonzera kuratidza kusawirirana kwechinzvimbo chake sese.
- Imwe yenzira dzepfungwa yekunyengetedza mukukakavadzana ndeyekutaura nemaune kwemashoko asina simba zvikuru ayo
iwe uri shamwari yako. Nokuisa pfungwa pavari, zviri nyore kuti iwe mubvunze mubvunzo wake mukuru. - Kune zvinopesana nemhedziso yewawakaroorana naye inogona kupfupikiswa zvishoma nezvishoma, kana iwe ukatevera nzira yekugadzirisa dambudziko nayo. Saka, iwe rudzi rwekusarudza nzira yekugadzirisa pamwe chete.
Murairo mukuru wekutenda: usaseka shamwari yako uye kuratidza hukuru hwako, zvisinei kuti munhu haazomboendi kumusangano wako. Uye yeuka mazwi eEpiicurus: "mumakakatanwa efilosofi akakundwa kukunda, nokuti inowanikwa huchenjeri hutsva."