Vakawanda vanoziva nezvehupenzi hwakadai sekusimbe haisi manzwiro, asi mumwe munhu anozvikanganisa. Tiri kutaura pamusoro pevarandaholics, vanhu vanokanganwa kushanda semhuri, shamwari, zvishuwo zvekare, musapinda muzororo uye zvigaro kugara muhofisi. Uye zvakanaka, kana munhu uyu ari oga, asi chii chaunofanira kuita kana murume ari workaholic: kuratidzira vana mufananidzo wake, uye wozviona chete muchiroto?
Nzira yekushanda sei?
Kune avo vanoziva vanoziva, mubvunzo uyu unonzwika, zvishoma, unoshamisa. Nenzira, masayendisiti anotendawowo kuti kutsvaga nzira dzekuita workaholic hakusi benzi chete, asiwo kune ngozi. Nokuti kufungidzira kwakadaro kwebasa kwakafanana newaini kana kuti zvinodhaka. Inogona kutaridzwa neurosis, umo nzira chete yekuti kuzviziva ishoko. Nokudaro, chido chekushanda zvakaoma, kana uchida kudzidza kuti ungashanda sei zvakanaka, unoda kurwisana neuchenjeri, uye kuti uzive nheyo dzekutarisira kwenguva, uye usingaise chidimbu pedyo nekombiyuta yako yekushanda.
Ndezvipi zvinotambudza zvinobva?
Sei uchibata upenyu kubasa, kana pane mhuri, shamwari uye nezvimwe zvakawanda? Asi kana izvi zvisipo, zvinongoramba zvichishanda. Nokudaro, musikana mumwe chete kana mukomana ane mukana wakanaka wekuva workaholic kupfuura mhuri.
Dzimwe nguva, munhu anoenda kunoshanda chete kuti azviparadzanise nezvinetso muupenyu hwake hwega. Ichi chikonzero chinonyanya kufanana nemudzimai anotora, sezvo vakadzi vanowanzoisa mhuri pakutanga uye, kana ikasazoshanda, ipai simba ravo rese kushanda. Nokudaro, kana mudzimai akangoerekana aine workaholic, zvino ichi chiratidzo chechokwadi chokuti mhuri haisi yose yakaoma. Kunyangwe kune vakadzi vari vashandi vanoita zvisingakwanisi kuita chero chinhu, kwete kupa 100%. Sezvo vakadzidziswa kubva pauduku, vaive vadzidzi vakanaka muchechi yegoroke, chikoro uye sangano, havagoni kumira muupenyu hwevanhu vakuru uye vanoramba vachiita zvose pa "5 +". Ichocho ndicho dambudziko - vanogona kushanda zvakanaka kwazvo, asi hapana munhu akavadzidzisa kuvaka ukama, uye ndicho chikonzero hupenyu hwemhuri hahufambi zvakanaka. Varume vanowanzokwanisika kuita workaholism nekuda kwemakwikwi asingagumi, munhu wose anoda kuva wekutanga, uye kusvika kumusoro, unoda kushanda zvakaoma. Ndiko mararamiro anogara, agere muhofisi, achikanganwa kuti kune zvimwe zvinhu zvinonakidza. Asi, hongu, hatigoni kutora zvisizvo zvemari. Kana uchida mari, uye hakuna munhu angamirira rubatsiro, unofanirwa kuzvivimba iwe pachako nekushanda, kuti kune simba.
Ichokwadi, pane chimwe chekuwedzera mune izvi zvose, kana imwe hafu inoshanda zvakanyanya, saka matambudziko epamba nayo yakawanda.
Nzira yekurarama nemurume ane workaholic?
Nenzira inofadza, unofanira kufungisisa nezveuchaita newe workaholic nemurume wako, pawakanga uchienda kunogara nomunhu akadaro, nokuti kuvimba hakukwanise kuonekwa kamwe kamwe. Zvichida, chikamu ichocho chikanganiso chako-kuzvipira zvachose kushanda, kana zvinhu zvose zvakanyatsonaka kumba. Ichokwadi, pane dzimwe nguva apo workaholic inzvimbo yekuchengetedza yemunhu, asi munhu akadaro mumusha wakanaka kumba angatora mapepa ekukosha kumba kupfuura iye achapedza usiku muhofisi. Saka, usati wapomera murume wako, chengetedza maitiro ako, zvichida iwe pachako uri kumukurudzira kutsvaka kunyaradzwa mubasa rake.
Asi chero zvakadaro, kuti ukurukure nemurume wekushanda, iwe uchasangana naye kumba, unoda. Usangotanga nekutuka, usatanga matambudziko, tanga kuedza kuziva chikonzero chaiicho chekuzvivaraidza kwakadaro uye ureve kuwana nguva yekubatana pamwe chete. Zvichida zvichava nyore kuti iwe upedze vhiki imwechete pamwe chete, uye nguva yose yenguva iyo workaholic ichazvipa zvachose kushanda. Kana iwe unogona kugadzirisa hupenyu hwako rhythms kwairi. Funga nezvezororo rekubatanidza , uko pasina nzvimbo yekushanda, somuenzaniso, nzvimbo yekune imwe nzvimbo uko pasina kushandiswa kwemagetsi. Ingoedza kuedzazve kudzidzisa vanhu vanoita basa, kuvimba kwakadai hakugoni kurapwa, iwe unogona kungotsanangura kuti kutarisa kwake kwakakosha kwauri iwe nevana.