Icho chinopera iye ane icho kana kwete, asi vanhu vanoraramira nekuda kwekuratidzwa kwezviroto zvavo. Neavo vakararama imwe nguva yenguva uye vasina kukwanisa kusvika kune zvaidiwa, zvinhu zvinotyisa zvikuru zvinogona kuitika, kusvika pakuzviuraya. Chii chinoitika kune avo vakazadza zvizere zvavo kana kusarura? Zvinotaridzika, heinoi mufaro, kurarama uye kunakidzwa nemugumisiro. Asi kunetseka kwehupenyu kwakanyatsoitika mukuti munhu anenge asvika panzvimbo dzake dzepamusoro, anova asina kufara, nokuti hapana paanoenda uye hapana chikonzero.
Panguva ino, munhu mukuru ane mukana wekuva mwana uye kurota zvakare uye "kuumba" zvinangwa zvitsva uye kurondedzera zvitsva zvitsva. Panguva iyi, apo kurota kwatsva kwatotanga kuumbwa, dzidzo yakawedzerwa, sechinhu chipi zvacho, inogona kubatsira nekuunza pedyo nekukunda kweramangwana. Ichi ndicho chakasiyana zvachose chekuvandudzwa kwevanhu pachavo. Uyezve, zvakanyanya kuipa kana kufungisisa kwakadaro kusingaitiki.
Kana pane chido chekudzidzisa?
Upenyu husina kutendeka
Chimbofunga nyaya yekusakwanisa kuzadzika zviroto zvachose. Mumwe mukadzi mukuru, ari pakati pemakore makumi matatu nemakumi mana, ane vana, akaroorana, anoshandisa mabasa akasiyana-siyana asina kudzidza: mutengesi, barman, mudzidzi wemvura yakashambadzira, muchengeti wemba. Pasinei nechokwadi chokuti seamai amai vakatora (iyo ndiyo inonyanya kukosha kumukadzi), haana kukura kuva munhu, haanzwi kana kugutsikana mupfungwa kana kugutsikana nebasa rake. Pane imwe nguva, sarudzo ichauya pamberi pake - kana kurarama nekurarama ("hapana chinhu chakanaka chinobuda mandiri, ndicharaira vanasikana vangu kuti varege kuva benzi"), kana kuti kusiya nzvimbo yenyaradzo uye kutanga kushambira kune ikozvino. Izvi zvakakosha here kusimbisa kuti kunyange kana iri nguva pfupi, mushure mokupedza zvidzidzo zvezvenyanzvi hazviwani nzvimbo yakakodzera, unhu hwayo huchatanga kukura kare kubva panguva yekuita chisarudzo chekuchinja hupenyu.
Boredom
Vanowanzoshanyira vezvikwata zvemarudzi ose vanongopesana nemukadzi wekare, uyo ane zvose muupenyu, kusanganisira nguva yakawanda yekusununguka. Kuenda kune hukomba salons kwave kutotopodza, hakuna munhu anotaura naye, murume wangu anogara ari kubasa, hapana chaanoita nemafungiro ake. Saka vanozvinyorera ivo pachavo kumusasa nekucheka (vanoziva mafashoni), kuChirungu (nokuti vanoziva zvinhu zvose), kuFrench (nokuti inonakidza), uye mukati mekugadzira zvidzidzo (kuumba mutsva weimba yavo). Zvechokwadi, kushingairira kwezivo iyi kunoshamisika, asi kazhinji kacho kushingaira kunokwana chete kune vekutanga mapoka emakirasi.
Dambudziko: ungaziva sei kuva dvoechnitsy?
Nokuda kwechikonzero chimwe kana chimwe, kana wakayambuka chikumbaridzo chako chema alma mater, yako iri pangozi. Paunotanga kuita chimwe chinhu chitsva uye chisina kumboitika, zvidzidzo zvinotanga nguva dzose nemashizha. Asi chinhu chimwe chete kana iwe ukawana imwe, ugare nehadzi yenguruve padhipatimendi rechikoro kubva kune mudzidzisi anotyisa uye akaoma, uye zvimwewo, mukukura, norurimi rwakarodzwa, uye kunyange mudzidzisi muduku kupinda iwe. Pano zviri pachena kuti zvinoratidzika kuratidza unyanzvi hwake, nekupikisa nzira dzekudzidzisa, kazhinji, inofara kusiya
Mune shoko, zvinobatsira kudzidza zvishoma nokuti apo apo uropi inorega kugamuchira mutoro, tinotanga kukura. Sezvakaita musero we-atrophied, uropi, sezvo husina maturo, huchava hunozadza zvakakwana musoro, kuwedzera. Uye uchitya kudzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva panguva isiri yakakwana yezera redu, iwe uchaenda kune imwe nzvimbo yehupenyu uye zvechokwadi uchakunda.