Vanhu vangani pasi pano, pane vanhu vakawanda. Munhu mumwe nomumwe nenzira yake oga yakasiyana uye yakasiyana uye inofanira kunge mune dzimwe nzira, asi ichasiyana nevamwe vanhu. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, zvakanyanya kuoma kuumba sangano rakanyatsobatanidzwa chevanhu vanoita zvingabatsira kubatsira kupindura mubvunzo wemhando ipi yemaitiro munhu angave nawo.
Ndeupi rudzi rweunhu hunogona kuvapo?
Unhu - kukohwa kwezvimiro zvakasiyana-siyana zvepfungwa zvinobva mukuratidza kwomunhu, mamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu uye kurera. Kuti uone hupenyu, zvakakosha kurondedzera munhu nemitemo yakadaro:
- mafungiro omunhu kumunhu (kuzvikudza, kuzvida, kuzvikudza);
- ukama hwomunhu kune vamwe (rupo, kusada, tsitsi);
- mafungiro omunhu kumabasa (usimbe, pedantry, workaholism);
- kuvapo uye simba reunhu hwakasimba-huno (munhu ane simba-anoda, anoramba, asina simba);
- mafungiro ehupenyu (tarisiro, kusava netariro).
Chii chavanhu?
Kuti unzwisise hukama hwemurume, funga nezvazvo maererano nemitemo inotevera:
- Maonero ako pachako . Varume vanowanzova nepamusoro uye vakazvidzivirira kuzviremekedza, pane vakadzi, avo, nemhaka yezvakaitika kare uye zvekugaramo kwevanhu, vainyanya kupiwa basa rechipiri.
- Maonero kune vamwe . Varume vakaipa kudarika vakadzi vanonzwisisa vamwe vanhu, vanowanzotadza uye vanoda.
- Maonero emabasa . Kakawanda, varume vanova vanyengeri vebasa ravo kana zvinokuvaraidza, mavanotaura ivo uye vanozviziva.
- Unhu hwemhando . Kusiyana nevakadzi, varume vanowanzova nehunhu hwakasimba, saka vanogona kukwanisa kuisa zvinangwa uye kubudirira kwavari.
- Maonero ehupenyu . Asi iyi parameter inongova munhu oga uye haibvi pane zvepabonde nenzira ipi zvayo. Kunyangwe zvinogona kutaurwa kuti vakadzi vanowanzopinda mune kuora mwoyo , kunokonzerwa nehutachiona husina tsvina.
Ndeupi rudzi rwemunhu angave nemurume?
Mamwe maitiro evanhu varikuoma kunzwisisa, nokuti mutungamiri wekuratidzwa kweunhu hunhu hunogona kuchinja hupenyu hwehupenyu. Kazhinji kazhinji vechiduku vane unhu hwakadaro:
- hope;
- chiedza chemwoyo;
- kushamwaridzana;
- irresponsibility;
- kupona-kuona;
- maximalism.
Ndezvipi zviito zvehupenyu zvakagadzirwa nevanhu vasati vasvika?
Munhu asina kuchena murume uyo nokuda kweupenyu huripo
- kuda kuchifadza;
- irresponsibility;
- udyire;
- kusava nekutora;
- kunyanya kugutsikana;
- chiedza chemwoyo;
- usimbe.
Unhu hwakadaro hunogadziriswa chete nehutano hwemamiriro ezvinhu uye chido chakasimba chemunhu.