Chazhinji munguva pfupi yapfuura, mukadzi wacho akazviona ari pamucheto wehupenyu hutsva hunofadza, uye zvino zvinoita sokuti kwaari kune matongo aripo chete. Uye zvose nokuti murume haafaniri kumuteerera. Uye uyu ndiye munhu waakamupa iye pachake. Sei pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo murume asingabhadhari mudzimai wake, uye kuti abuda sei kwavari, tichanzwisisa munyaya ino.
Nei murume wangu akarega kuteerera?
Pasi apa tichatarisa zvinogona kusarudzwa uye pane imwe neimwe taura nezvekugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu nekukwezva kumurume wake.
Saka, mamiriro acho ezvinhu ndeyekutanga - murume akanyatsotarisa pane chimwe chinhu
Mukadzi uyu anogona kuita zvinhu gumi panguva imwe chete, uye panguva imwe chete anochengeta mwana wake achiona. Varume vakasikwa zvakasiyana. Uye kana mukana wakavimbisa unouya kwaari, iye achaisa pfungwa dzake pane zvose zvenguva pfupi uye zvezvimwe zvinhu. Asi mudzimai wake panguva ino haana kutarisira zvakakwana kumurume wake, uye anorova alarm.
Sei ungava? Ratidza kuti iwe unogona kuva shamwari yakatendeka. Usatsvaga nzira dzokukwezva kutarisa kwemurume wako. Ita mamiriro ezvinhu akanaka ekuzadziswa kwezvirongwa zvake. Uyezve kutarisirwa kwemurume kuchada kudzoka, kuvonga kakapetwa ka gumi nokuda kwekunzwisisa nekushivirira.
Mamiriro maviri: murume akamira kuteerera munharaunda yepedyo
Panogona kuva nezvikonzero zviviri:
- ane matambudziko nehutano hwemurume;
- mudzimai wacho aenda kure kure nomufananidzo wake wekare.
Ikutanga inogona kuitika kumunhu wese, hazvina maturo kupa mhosva munhu. Nekuonekwa - dzimwe nguva mukadzi anoununura tsika dzisiri dzisina kufanira kure nekusununguka. Somuenzaniso, kukara kana kusagadzikana. Muzviitiko izvi, munhu wose anonzwisisa nei murume wake asingateereri.
Sei ungava? Muzviitiko zvose izvi, chete kushivirira kwako uye kuedza kwako kuchapindura mubvunzo wekuti ungaita sei murume. Varume vanoona zvakaoma kusarudza pamusoro pekutsvaga kune vadzidzisi - mubatsire neizvi, ive pedyo. Uye pane zvinopesana - usazeza kukumbira murume wako kuti akubatsire mukushanda iwe pachako. Kudzorerwa kwemitoro yemhuri uye bhajeti inogona kusunungura nguva nemari yekuchinja mararamiro emudzimai. Panguva ino zvakakosha kuchengetedza ushamwari, kuvimba nehukama - vanogona kunge vakava hwaro hwekuda kwechato chemhuri.
Mamiriro acho echitatu: mudzimai haachafariri murume wake somunhu
Dzimwe nguva vamwe vaviri vanoenda kure kwazvo. Somuenzaniso, murume akaenderera mberi nehupenyu hwehupenyu hwehupenyu, uye mudzimai akazvipira oga kune vana nehupenyu. Pane imwe nguva murume anoona pamberi pake mukadzi asina hanya, ane zvaanoda uye mararamiro ari kure naye. Mudzimai anonyunyuta kuti murume wake haatombofungi. Izvo zvaaiedza kuva mudzimai "akakodzera" nemudzimai wake, hazvina kuchinja chero chinhu.
Sei ungava? Kune imwe nzvimbo, nhau dzepano dzeCinderella, avo vaitarisira zvikomborero zvose kubva kune muchinda, ndivo vane mhosva. Asi hazvina kunonoka kufungisisa nezvekuzviziva kwako. Ive nebhizimisi, zvirongwa, kunyange kubudirira kuduku-ndiyo mhinduro, kuti inokwezva sei murume wake. Hapana magetsi, imwe yepfungwa: mukadzi uyu akaisvonaka mukuzara kwehupenyu hukuru, sangano rake rinoda kufara neminiti imwe neimwe!
Mamiriro acho echina: murume wangu ane amaikadzi
Dzimwe nguva ndeyechokwadi kuti murume akamira kuteerera. Kunyangwe murume ane rudo zvakakwana anogona kukonzera mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma kumhuri. Zvishoma kuderera, kukanganisa doro, kusanzwisiswa kunogona kutungamirira kuhupenyu hwomumwe mukadzi. Izvi hazvirevi kuti chinangwa chakakura.
Sei ungava? Usakakavadzana nefivha uye usarudze pane sarudzo inotevera: kudzoka murume, kumusiya kana kufunga nezvehupenyu hwake? Kunyange mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kune nzira dzekudzorera kutarisa kwemurume. Semuenzaniso, unogona kushandisa nguva yako pachako apo inotarisa kune hukama hutsva. Dzorera "I" yako kubva kune yakaputsika "Isu". Kuti kusimbise kusava nesimba kwavo - mitambo, psychotherapy, kuzorora, kuzadziswa kwematarenda avo kuchabatsira, nezvimwewo. Chigumisiro chichava ruvara rutsva rwehupenyu. Rimwe zuva, kunzwisisa kwemurume wake kunogadziriswa. Zvichida, kutarisa kwake kuchawedzera, asi kwete iyo iyo ichave ichidikanwa.