Imba yekuita zvepabonde yakadaro inokonzera kusununguka kwevanhu munharaunda yemazuva ano, iyo, chaizvoizvo, inoreva kusangana pabonde. Imba yemhando dzepabonde iyo yakatove yakajairika muEurope uye neU.S. - kuvanhu vanoita zvinokonzera kupesana nekukura kwevanhu vanoita zvekuita zvevanhu . Kutenderera kwechitendero kuona kuregererwa kwemakambani ega ega sekunopisa zvakananga kune tsika dzemhuri.
Kuroorana kwakafanana kwepabonde kunorevei?
Kuroorana pakati pevanhu vanoita zvepabonde imwe chete kana kuti zvepabonde - kunonzi ungochani. Maitiro evanhu kana mabasa e "murume" uye "mudzimai" mumuchato akadaro anotsiviwa ne "mudzimai 1" uye "mudzimai 2". Sangano rekuita zvepabonde-yepabonde rakatanga kutongerwa muNetherlands muna 2001. Muchato wakadaro unotakura mutoro wose wepamutemo wetsika:
- kodzero yekubatana pamwe chete;
- alimony panyaya yekurambana (mune dzimwe nyika umo kugamuchirwa nekurerwa kwevana kunobvumirwa pamwe chete nekurembera kwewanano);
- zita rinowanzozivikanwa kuvanhu vaviri;
- chiremba uye hutano inshuwarisi;
- kodzero yekuva mutsigiri wemudzimai mumasangano akasiyana-siyana ehurumende.
Zvimwe uye zvinetso zvekuroorana kwevakadzi
Chero chiitiko, zvisinei uye chakaipa uye chinorwadza munharaunda, ine maitiro akanaka uye asina kunaka - kubvumirana kwevakaroorana nemurume mumwe chete, hazvisi izvo. Pakanga pane vanhu nguva dzose, vashomanana vavo, avo, nekuda kwezvimiro zvavo zvisinganzwisisiki, vakasiyana nehuwandu, uye ivo havakwanisiki uye vanogadzirisa maitiro ehutano hwavo. Nyika dzakatenderwa nemitambo yepabonde imwechete yemurume nemukadzi yakasarudza nzira iyi. zvimwe zvichibva kune vavariro dzakanaka dzevanhu, kukunda kusaenzana kwevanhu. Izvi zvinoguma nei munharaunda - kune mibvunzo yakawanda kupfuura mhinduro.
Imba yemadzimai evanhukadzi, pamwe chete (zvakajeka kune vakaroorana pachavo):
- vanhu vemukomana mumwe chete vanonzwisisana zviri nani, kusimba kwakabatana kunobva pakunzwisisana pamwe chete kunobvira;
- Kuroorana kwepamutemo kunopa kodzero yevanhurume nevarume vanoita zvepabonde kurasa zvinhu zvakabatana, kuita bhizinesi;
- kusabatwa kwechisarudzo chechikadzi, sezvinowanzoitika mumhuri dzevanhukadzi;
- kuchengetwa muvharobe uye kushandiswa kwezvokupfeka.
Zvinyorwa zvemasimba emunhu mumwechete:
- Kutsiurwa nehutano hwemhirizhonga, dzimwe nguva zvichikonzera kuvengana uye kushandiswa kwechisimba.
- Kusagadzikana mukurera vana, avo vanozogona kukudzidzira kuzviratidzira zvepabonde zvenhema nekunyomba kubva kune vana kubva mumhuri dzakakwana, izvi zvinotungamirira kumagariro epfungwa, kuumbwa kwezvinetso uye neurosis.
Nei zvakanyoresa murume nemudzimai wepabonde?
Nharaunda yakasiyana-siyana yevanhu vanoita zvepabonde pahutano hwehutano hwepabonde imwechete inotarisana nekutongwa uye kutya kwehupenyu hwemarudzi. Sei vanhu vanoita zvechinguvana, mubvunzo uyu hurumende nevanhu vemunyika imwe neimwe vane maonero avo, asi kazhinji, zvikonzero zvinotevera:
- Kuziva kuti vanhu vanoita zvepabonde zviduku vakakodzera kodzero imwechete yekuroorana semutemo sevamwe vose;
- kurwisa homophobia, kusarura uye kusarura .
Mikana dzepabonde nemudzimai muOrthodoxy
Imba isina kubatana iri muBhaibheri inofungidzirwa isingabvumirwi uye hukama pakati pevamiririri vehutano hwakadaro hutadzi uye huri pasi pekutongwa. Mirayiro yaMosesi muna Revhitiko inotaura nezvekuita ungochani se "tsika dzinonyangadza uye dzakaipa." MuChechi yeOrthodox yemazuva ano, nei vanhu vakaroorana vakaroorana vachidziviswa? Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvezvi:
- Chipo cheMusiki ndechekusika vanhu vemarudzi akasiyana-siyana: varume nevakadzi.
- Iko kuwirirana kunobatanidza chido chepakutanga cheMusiki: kuenderera mberi uye kuwedzerwa kwevanhu vese (vakaroorana vakangofanana navo havagone kuziva chinangwa chaMwari, kubata pamuviri).
- Kubatana kwemurume nemudzimai hakusi kungosiyana kwepanyama chete, asiwo mifananidzo yakasiyana-siyana inowirirana mune zvewanano (mumhuri imwechete yepabonde hapana kuwirirana.
Mhuri dzepabonde nemudzimai muIslam
Imba yekubatana uye kereke haina kufanana. Imba yemukati chete pakati pemurume nemukadzi yakachena uye inofadza kuna Allah. Kuita zvepabonde uye lesbianism muIslam zvinopomerwa mhosva, kusvika kune chirango chekufa (somuenzaniso, kukwira kubva pazvivakwa zvepamusoro, kumatema nematombo), munyika dzakadai se:
- Iran;
- Afghanistan;
- Sudan;
- Saudi Arabia;
- Nigeria.
Kuti udzivise kupararira kwehuchani, pane mitemo yakasimba:
- vana (vakomana nevanasikana) kubva pazera remakore manomwe havafaniri kurara mubhedha rimwe chete;
- varume havafaniri kusvodzana padama (maoko anobvumirana uye kutsvoda komurume mukuru);
- hazvigone kugara munzvimbo imwe chete nevarume vakakura nevarume vechidiki avo vachiri kushama zvirimwa pazviso zvavo;
- akarambidzwa kuona mafirimu epafirimu uye kuverenga mabhuku evanhu vanoita zvoungochani.
Imba yemhando dzepabonde munyika
Apo vanhu vakaroorana vakaroorana vanobvumirwa - vakawanda uye vanhu vanonzwa vakasiyana neanoita zvepabonde vanofarira munyaya iyi. Nhamba yenyika umo kubvumirana kwemakambani ehurume huri kuwedzera kuri kuwedzera gore negore. Vakaroorana mumhuri yakadaro vane kodzero yekuwana zvipo zvose uye ropafadzo dzevanhu, sezvinongoita tsika, tsika dzevanhu. Munyika dzipi vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanobvumirwa (pamusoro-10):
- Netherlands (2001);
- Norway (2008);
- Sweden (2009);
- Mexico (2009);
- Argentina (2010);
- Brazil (2011);
- Denmark (2012);
- France (2013);
- United States (2015);
- Germany (2017).
Imba isina kubatana muRussia
Ive machato ehamachani vanobvumirwa muRussia - mhinduro ndeyekuti "kwete". Russia nyika ine mazana emakore tsika-nheyo uye nheyo, iyo iyo pfungwa yemhuri isina kuchinja zvakawanda. Matrimonial relations muRussian Federation inotungamirirwa nemutemo, uye inobva mukubvumirana kwekuzvidira kwevarume nevakadzi vakaroorana. Vamwe vanhu vane tsika dzisiri dzetsika vanoedza kuroorwa munharaunda yekunze kwenyika, uye kana ichi chiri chibvumirano chisina kujairika, zvino inonzi inofanirwa, asi kurambana nemurume mumwechete - hakuzovi nemutemo.
Imba yekuroorana nemurume mumwechete muUnited States
Kana iwe uchiyeuka zvakapfuura zveAmerica, zvino hukama husingabvumirwi hwakashushwa nemapurisa, uye nezvemadzimai evanhukadzi nemitauro haigoni kuva. Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanobatwa mumasangano evanhu uye mahotera akaiswa chirango chemhosva uye kunyadziswa kubva kuvanhu. Nzira dzakabudiswa pachena, vanhu vakarasikirwa mukurumbira wavo, basa ravo, hukama hwavo uye ruvimbo rwehama dzavo. Chete pamagumo ezana remakore rechi20. munharaunda, izvo zvinonzi "kubatana kwepamusha" zvakasimbiswa - mararamiro asina kurongwa. Kubvumirana kwemitambo yemukomana nemurume mumwechete muU.SA kwakapedzeredzwa zvizere kune dzose makumi mashanu paJune 26, 2015.
Imba yekuroorana nemurume nemumwe muJapan
Pamubvunzo, mune dzimwe nyika inotenderwa nemitambo yepabonde imwechete kunze kweUnited States, unogona kushevedza Japan zvakachengetedzeka, kana kuti panzvimbo iyo guru-Tokyo. Kufara kwevakadzi vechiJapane havana kufarira vezvematongerwe enyika vanochengetedza avo kusvikira pakuguma vanopikisa chiitiko chakadai sechinhu chakafanana chepabonde nemadzimai asina kukodzera. Japan iri kuedza kuramba neAmerica uye kugadzirisa kamwechete uye nokuda kwezvose zvinokonzera kusarurana kune zvepabonde-vashoma kuburikidza nepamutemo pamabvumirano akadaro maererano nemitambo.
Imba yekuroorana nemurume nemumwe muGermany
Kubvumirana kwemitambo yemurume nemudzimai muGermany kuchaitika munaOctober 2017. Panguva ino, mapoka ehurume evanhukadzi kana ehurumende anobvumirana, kubvumirwa kwakagamuchirwa muna 2001. Vagari veGermany pakati pe 83% vakavhota rusununguko mukusarudza mumwe wevamwe vakadzi uye vachipedzisa kuroorana naye. Chinhu chinonakidza ndechokuti Chancellor Angela Merkel kwenguva yakareba akanga ari kumativi evanhu veLGBT uye mazuva mashomanana vasati vasarudzwa nekutora mutemo wakaramba kutsigira iyi musarudzo, yakatungamirirwa nekuti chibvumirano chetsika murume nemukadzi.
Imba isina kubatana muFrance
Nyika umo vanhu vakaroorana vanobvumirwa vanogara vachizadzwa. France yakasarudza nyaya iyi shure munaMay 2013. Mutungamiri Francois Hollande akasarudza izvi sechimwe chinhu chinokosha pane zvakaenzana nekugadzirisa kwehumwe hutano hwehupfumi. Vanopfuura hafu yevagari vese vakabatsirana nekugamuchirwa kwemutemo. Vakaroorana vakaroorana vakapiwa mvumo yekuita uye kurera vana, kusiyana nemamwe nyika dzeEurope, uko kuwedzera kwepamutemo kwemichato isati yaenda. Kubvumirwa kwemurairo kwakagadzirisa hutsinye hwemhirizhonga kune hutano hwevanhukadzi, izvo zvakaita kuti pave nehuwandu hwehutsinye hunorwisana nevanhurume.
Imba yemhando dzepabonde vanhu vanozivikanwa
Kubva kunze kunotaridzika sechishuvo kana nzira yekugumbusa, kumutsa kufarira kune mumwe munhu ... uye zvakadaro inogona kuva rudo, kunyange zvazvo zvisinganzwisisiki kune vanhu vazhinji vemagariro evsika. Kuzivikanwa kwakaroorana pabonde pakati pehupenyu hwevanhu, avo, vasingateereri makuhwa, vanyoresa ukama hwavo uye vanogara pamwe kwenguva refu uye vachifara:
- Elton John naDavid Furnish . Vaviri ava vave pamwe chete kwemakore anopfuura 17. Elton akabatsira David kuti abvise udhakwa uye akafunga mutungamiriri wake akasarudzwa David munhu anovimbika zvikuru munyika.
- Richard Chamberlain naMartin Rabbett . Kubatana kwakatora makore 34. Mutevedzeri akakurumbira uyo akatamba mumafirimu "Shogun" uye "Kuimba muminzwa" nehukuru hwake hwakasimudza mwoyo yevakadzi. Richard akakamanikidzwa kuvanza ukama hwake naMartin kwenguva refu, sezvo basa rake raizove rakapera. Iye zvino, achiyeuka musangano wake wokutanga nemunhu waanoda, Richard anoti ichi ndicho chisarudzo chake chakarurama.
- Helen DeGenereris naPortia de Rossi . Uyu anozivikanwa zvikuru muTV uye muchengeti wemitambo muwanano kwemakore anopfuura 6 uye funga nezvevana.
- Jodie Foster naAlexandra Hedison . Mukutungamira kwake, mutambikadzi akabvuma zvakare muna 2007. Roman Jody pamwe nemufananidzo wemukurumbira Alexandra Hedison akatanga muna 2013 uye akapedza gore, mushure mokunge vaviri vacho vakanyoresa ukama hwavo.
- Tom Ford naRichard Barkley . Uku kubatana kwegadziri akakurumbira uye mhariri kwemakore makumi maviri nemaviri kwakaedzwa miedzo yakawanda, yakanyanya kukura kwechirwere chepachirwere chaRichard.