Izvo zvekutaurirana

Chikamu chikuru chevanhu zuva nezuva chinopinda pakukurukurirana nevamwe vanhu. Chido chekukurukurirana chinomuka kune umwe neumwe, mumwe munhu anogona kupedza maawa achikurukurirana, uye mumwe munhu kanongopfuura kaviri pazuva. Vanhu nguva dzose vanoda kutaura.

Ngationgororei kuti kudiwa kwevanhu kwakadaro kwakagadzirwa sei uye chinyiko chayo.

Vanhu vanoda ruzivo rwekutaura ndeimwe yezvinodiwa zvikuru zvevanhu. Zvinomuka apo ruzivo runowedzera mukubatana nevamwe humwe huno. Nheyo yaro ndeyekuda kwekutaurirana kwepfungwa, kutsvaga kwavo uye imwe nzira yekugutsa ichi chidikanwi. Zvinoratidzira mune chido chomumwe munhu kuti ave weboka, kuti ave nhengo yaro, kuti ataurirane nayo, kubatsira rubatsiro rweumwe uye kubvuma kubva kwaro, kana zvichifanira. Kugadziriswa kwekudiwa kwekukurukurirana kunowanikwa mune chido chokutora pamwe nevamwe vanhu mune chero chiito chekubatana. Inokurudzira, inobatsira kutsigira uye inotungamirira mabasa ose emunhu mumwe nomumwe nenzira yekukurukurirana nevamwe vanhu.

Mune vana, kukurukurirana sechinhu chinodiwa munzanga hakusi kuzvarwa kwakanaka, asi kunoumbwa kunopesana nemamiriro emabasa evanhu vakuru uye, kazhinji, anozviratidza kumwedzi miviri. Vechidiki vanotenda kuti havasi ivo chete vane chido chakadaro, asi panyaya iyi, vanogona kukurukura zvakawanda sezvavari kuda. Pane nguva apo pavanoratidza zviratidzo zvekupikisa kune vanhu vakuru, apo iyo yekupedzisira inosvika pane imwe nzira inogadzirisa kudiwa kwavo kwekukurukurirana.

Kana tikataura pamusoro pezvinodikanwa zvevakuru kuti vataurirane, vanokurukurirana zvishoma kudarika zvavanoda, kazhinji vanopinda mune zvakaipa. Kuti tinzwisise mhedzisiro yekuumbwa kwezvinodiwa zvekukurukurirana, tichakurukura maitiro ekukurukurirana zvinodiwa.

  1. Domination. Munhu anoedza kuita chimwe chinhu pane zvaanoda, maitiro, chitima chekufunga kweumwe munhu.
  2. Prestige. Vamwe vanhu varikukurukurirana vanowanzoona kuonekwa kwekwanisi hwavo, kuyemura kubva kumudzimai.
  3. Chengetedzo. Kugadzirisa kusawirirana, manzwiro ekutya, vanhu vanotanga kutsvaga mutauriri, dzimwe nguva kunyange pasinei nemusingazivi.
  4. Unhu. Chido chekukurukurirana kuitira kuti uratidze vamwe zvakaitwa nemunhu, kuti yakatanga sei unhu.
  5. Kudzivirirwa. Kana munhu ane chido chokuratidza kufungira vamwe, anoedza kugutsa chido ichi mukukurukurirana.
  6. Cognition. Chido chekukurukurirana kana muteereri achiedza kudzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva, chimwe chinhu icho waanokwanisa kumuudza.

Saka, munhu wose anoda kutaura, asi vamwe havazi sevhenekera sezvinoratidzwa nevamwe. Zvakakosha kukuyeuka, kana munhu akaedza kukuudza chimwe chinhu, unoda kuteerera, uchimurega achitaura kunze.