Isu tose kubva pauduku tinoda nhau, vazhinji vorudo urwu runotamirwa kuva vanhu vakuru, nokuti vanotenda muchishamiso, mukuti ivo vakanaka vanogara vachikunda zvakaipa. Asi sezvaunokura, vana vanewo mamwe manzwiro mazhinji: kutya, kusurukirwa, kusuruvara, kutsamwa. Zvinowanzoitika kuti maitiro avo anoitika haanzwisisiki nevabereki kana vana ivo pachavo. Muchiitiko ichi, vanachiremba vepfungwa vanokurudzira kuedza imwe yenzira dzehutano hwechirwere - chiremba chechirwere chevana. Chimwe chezvakabatsiro zvechiitiko ichi pamweya wechicheche ndechokuti amai vanogona kubatsira mwana zvakasununguka, pamwe chete nehutano hwemazano ekugadzirisa zvinetso zvevana zvinogona kushandiswa chaiyo kubva pakuberekwa.
Dzidza kutaura
Vana vane zvirwere zvepfungwa vanogona kuva nezvinetso zvekutaura zvakakosha nekuda kwekushaya hanya, kufunga, nekuyeuka. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinotaura nezvekubudirira kwekushandiswa kwepfungwa dzechirwere uye mukurapa kwekutaura, nokuti kunaka kwekutaura kunoenderana nezvimwe zvinhu. Kubatsira mwana kuti ave nemafungiro akawanda, anokwanisa kunzwa uye vamwe, iwe uchangopfupisa mazwi ekudzidza mhere. Mwana achakurumidza kufunga uye zvakanyanya kubudirira kudzidza zvinyorwa zvinodzidziswa.
Bvisa matambudziko
Kunyange zvakadaro, basa guru rekurapa kwemhuka ndekugadzirisa mafungiro nemafungiro emwana, maitiro ake, kubvisa kutya ne phobias. Hazvisi pasina chikonzero kuti kubva panguva yekare vanhu vanoshandisa nyaya idzi kuti vataure chiitiko chakawedzerwa, saka vana vanonzwisisa uye vanonzwisisa chinhu chikuru nekukurumidza, ndicho chikonzero kushandiswa kwemaitiro ekurapa kwechikafu kunokosha zvikuru pakukura kwomwana.
Tinonyora nhau
Pachigamba chekutanga, vabereki vangada rubatsiro rwemhizha, iye achabatsira mukusika nyaya yacho pachayo-iyo nheyo yehutano hwepano. Kusvika pakunyora, zvakakosha kutevera imwe urongwa:
- Sarudza munhu mukuru - inofanira kunge yakafanana nemwana wako: unhu, pfungwa, zviito;
- tsanangura nzira yehupenyu hwehutano kuitira kuti zvisikwa zviduku zvinzwisise kuti zvine zvakawanda zvakafanana;
- taura nezvechinetso chegamba kana mamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa mwana wako;
- uye zvinonyanya kukosha - kuratidza zvikamu zvishomanana kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, sarudza zvakanaka, uye, zvinokosha, kurondedzera hero yaibatsira kugadzirisa dambudziko;
- pakugumisa, unhu hunofanira kunzwisisa kuti akaita zvakaipa, uye chii chinogona kuchinja zvinhu zvose zviri nani.
Uchishandisa chirongwa chinonzi fairytale therapy mukushanda nevana, unogonawo kusanganisira mwana mukutora nyaya. Rega mwana wacho pachake aratidze nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokugadzirisa dambudziko regamba uye kukubatsira kusarudza yakarurama. Izvi zvinokubvumira kuti unzwisise zviri nani zvinokuvhiringidza zvako, uye munguva yekugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu, kubvisa kutya, phobias, kutsamwisa, uye ichi hachisi chinangwa chikuru chetano-tale therapy?! Muchigadziriro chekugadzirira, vabereki vanogona kuva nematambudziko nekunyora nyaya, saka zvakakosha zvikuru pachikwata chekutanga chekuverenga mabhuku anokosha, kana kutsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune chiremba wezvepfungwa uyo achapawo mienzaniso yenyaya dzepano dzehutano hwepano.
Fairy tale muenzaniso
Kamwe pane imwe nguva paiva nechecheche kadha Vasya. Akanga ane amai vaimuda zvikuru, uye iyewo akamuda. Mucheche aifara zvikuru, achitamba zuva rose, uye manheru akaudza mai vangu kuti aisazoenda kunorara. Saka akamhanyira ndokukwira usiku hwose, uye mangwanani akazoneta ndokuenda kunorara. Uye masikati shamwari yake yaive nesabata, apo dzimwe shamwari dzose dzakakokwa. Asi mukomana Vasya aisagona kuenda ikoko, sezvo akanga avete. Uye pandakasimuka manheru, ndakatsamwa kwazvo. Kubvira ipapo, akasarudza kugara achiteerera amai vake uye anoenda kunorara nenguva.
Kubatsira kwetsika
Mikana yeiyi nzira yekurapa maitiro yakawanda: nekubatsirwa kwayo iwe unogona kubatsira kwete chete mwana, asiwo munhu mukuru. Kupfupisa, tinogona kutaura kuti kuwedzera pakugovana ruzivo, zvinoreva hupenyu, kunzwisisa "zvakanaka nezvakaipa,
Ndinoda kuona kuti usati watanga "kurapwa" neine nhau, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kana nyika yako duku inonyengera yakasiyana neicho. Iva nechokwadi chekufunga nezveunhu humwe hunhu hwemwana. Kushandisa teertale therapy nokuda kwekusimbiswa kwevana vavo, vabereki vanoita kuti ave neramangwana rake rakanaka uye rakanaka. Iyi nzira inobatsira mwana wako kuti awedzere kuva nechivimbo mukukura, uye rudo rwako nekucherechedza zvichaita zvishamiso zvechokwadi!